she gave him up to be adopted

Soldier wins 22-month custody battle and finally reunited with daughter, 2, who his wife gave up for adoption without telling him

Achane said it was just days after he left his pregnant wife for his new job out of state that she quietly signed over their unborn baby to the Frei family in Utah.

The military man said that he and his wife, Tira Bland, were having marital problems not long after learning she was pregnant in 2010, leading to her decision to give up the child.

It was just months later in February of 2011 that Achane found himself sent to Fort Jackson in South Carolina for work, believing he’d leave and come back a new dad.

Ten days after his move, however, his wife went gave birth to a premature baby and signed away their child before cutting all contact with her husband.

‘I was like, “Utah? Where is Utah?” I’d never been to Utah. She’s never been to Utah,’“ Mr Achane told the Salt Lake Tribune of the moment he first heard the bizarre and horrifying news.


The girl was placed with Jared and Kristi Frei, who had spent the last few years struggling to naturally expand their family of five children, in the city of Spanish Fork.

The Freis appealed McDade’s November decision and raised money for their legal fees with a blog. On here they explained how they came to adopt the girl. 

'We knew that we were not done having children, but after years of sudden infertility and several miscarriages … we discovered somewhere down the line that Kristi had advanced endometriosis, and would not likely conceive or carry another child again.’

Turning to adoption, in early 2009 the Frei family grew their family by one more with a baby boy named James. 

Desiring to add one more child - 'a close, similar sibling’ for James - they found Achane’s daughter, whom they named Leah.

'Since that eventful day, we have, as a family, come to know that this dream was a righteous desire blessed to fruition by God, and that Leah would be that child - and yet, little did we know the challenges and trials that awaited us in finding and fighting for this little girl,’ they wrote.

Achane was 'completely elated’ after Judge McDade ruled late last year his baby daughter would be given back to him by mid-January after he was stripped of his parental rights to raise the child.

But the Utah couple who adopted her at birth quickly filed a motion asking that McDade stay his order dismissing their adoption petition and requiring the baby be returned.

With the judge’s recent ruling, he noted the Freis family acknowledged the risk of the father’s upset but 'decided they wanted to proceed forward with the adoptive placement anyway.’

Kept in the dark throughout this with months of being unable to reach his wife, Achane asked a friend to visit her home in Texas who reported that the house appeared vacant.

Feverishly calling anyone who may know where his wife could be, while fearing she may have carried out the abortion she once threatened to do, he learned from a family doctor that his wife was no longer pregnant but they could not legally disclose what had happened to the baby.

An ounce of relief only came to the horrified man when his wife finally called him in June, telling him she had signed away their baby to the Frei family.

‘I believe she felt guilty at that point because she just made a call out of the blue,’ he said of his ex-wife’s phone call.

Once he learned of his daughter’s fate, he immediately tried to track his little girl down but upon contact with the adoption center they refused to disclose any information on her whereabouts.

The agency told the court in October that it was standard procedure to not share any information with a father of a potential adoptive child when asked.

'I am not a very religious person,’ Achane has since told the Tribune, 'but thou shalt not steal.' 

Speaking of the drawn out legal battle, he said: 'If they prolong it, that is more time away from my daughter. There are precious moments I can’t get back. … It has been a year and a half now. 

'There is no court order saying they have the right to my child. I just won the case. I want to get my daughter and raise my daughter,’ he said.

When an attorney for the Frei family contacted Achane, asking him to consent to the adoption, he said no and demanded his little girl returned to him - to the Frei family’s complete surprise.

'Over the last 19 months, despite the law requiring that a father show interest in his child and at least attempt regular communication to establish a bond, the father has never shown any interest in Leah other than to hire an attorney,’ the family writes in their blog.

Despite a judge’s order to return the child within 60 days, the family now asks that his parental rights granting him custody of her be terminated.

They accuse him of abandoning both the mother and baby during her pregnancy and therefore demonstrating no capability for raising the girl.

'The right of a fit, competent parent to raise the parent’s child without undue government interference is a fundamental liberty interest that has long been protected by the laws and constitution of this state of the United States, and is a fundamental public policy of this state,’ said Judge McDade.

He added that there is no law requiring the father to 'prove himself’ as fit to father his own child.

'Once Mr Achane contacted the Adoption Center of Choice … to let them know he opposed the adoption and wanted his daughter back, that should have been the end of this case,’ said McDade.

Judge McDade berated the Adoption Center of Choice’s handling as 'utterly indefensible.’

'This is a case of human trafficking,’ Achane’s attorney Mark Wiser told the Tribune.

'Children are being bought and sold. It is one thing what [adoption agencies] have been doing with unmarried biological fathers. It is in a new area when they are trying to take a child away from a married father who wants to have his child.’

But on Friday, Judge McDade upheld his November 20 decision dismissing their adoption petition and awarded custody to Achane.

 Utah Judge, Darold McDade, decided yesterday that Terry Achane, 31, should have custody of Teleah. The girl can now return home with her father, until a March hearing in Utah’s high court.

Jared and Kristi Frei, the Utah couple who had hoped to adopt Teleah, left the court through a back exit. 

The Freis did not speak to the media but their lawyer, Lance Rich, called it a painful time for the family. 

Rich requested some privacy for the Freis and for 'the little girl whom they considered part of their family for these past 22 months.’

As reported by the Salt Lake Tribune, Rich stated: 'The Freis’ focus and concerns at this time are to enable her to make a successful transition to her father. 

'Please respect the privacy of the Frei family and also of the child in this case and allow all involved in this case to heal from this experience.’

Achane told the Tribune that the decision was 'hard’ on the Frei family and that there were a 'lot of tears.’

'They raised my daughter right,’ Achane added. 'They love my daughter just as much as I do.’

I got my daughter back,’ Achane told the Salt Lake Tribune. 'I’m very happy. It’s 22 months too long, but the wait was worth it.’

^ Disgusted by the Frei Family and the biological mother and the Adoption Agency. I do not have anything wrong with Adoption, I do think it is beautiful but in cases like this no. I am glad to say that the Adoption Agency got their license taken away. As to the Frei Family with their 20,000 donations to pay for their legal fees they should but give it to Terry Achane who also had to pay for legal fees considering the Frei Family was complaining that they already paid for two expensive adoptions costing 25,000 each. I am so happy for him that he finally got the right to have his beautiful princess and praise the judge for realizing that. Black fathers stand up ! 

 

 

 

 



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Welp, I just teared up. How does she even think she can comment when she gave him up for adoption??? #Hate it!

Bruce would never have sex with Barbara. He would never pursue a romance with Barbara. Flat out. She’s the daughter of his best friend and sometimes father figure (Jim Gordon). She’s the first love of his adoptive son (Dick Grayson). She’s basically his own child, especially given the way he views his sidekicks. Bruce is a man so bound by loyalty and honor that he gave up a normal life in order to rid the city of crime in his parents’ memory. Do you honestly think he’d hurt three people closest to him by interacting with Barbara Gordon in that way?

MY HEART BREAKS FOR LENA LUTHOR

- She was adopted by the Luthors at the young age of 4. Whether her parents died or whether they gave her up it’s heartbreaking enough…

- The only person who made her feel welcomed into the family was Lex, she adored him and it must of absolutely broke her when she failed to stop him from turning bad, she must of felt responsible in some way even though she shouldn’t.

- Lex, the person she once adored and who she never did any wrong by then attempts to have her killed.

- She never felt welcomed by Lillian and always felt second best and as if she could never do anything right. Even though she didn’t want to believe it she knew in her heart that Lillian didn’t really love her because she wasn’t blood family and Lillian pretty much clarified this to her face. How awful, she lost her real mum and then her adoptive mum rejects her and shows her no love or affection.

- She mentioned to Lillian that she always spends thanksgiving alone at her desk which presumably means that she also spends Christmas and Birthdays alone.

- When she told Kara “you are my only friend in National city” she really meant that. She has no one.

- Kara comes along like the little ray of dorky sunshine that she is and she just makes Lena SMILE. You can just see Lena simply lights up when Kara enters a room, she BEAMS, her eyes sparkle. Here is someone who Lena can truly sense means well and is just a GOOD and pure person and she’s never known that in someone before and Kara smiles back at her and she blushes and the affection in Lena’s eyes, damn.

- She has spent a lifetime with pain and loneliness in her wake and she just needs someone, someone to show her that they care and that they care to get to know the REAL Lena, someone just to show a little affection.

- Supercorp could truly be a complex and beautiful love story if allowed to be explored. It could be a love story to end all love stories. Who would of thought it, a Super and a Luthor.

But right now? Right now all I really want is for Kara to give Lena a hug.

Anti-Adoption and Emma's role in season 1

So I had a conversation today about Regina’s reaction when Emma came to Storybrook. She told me that she couldn’t understand why I’m so upset about how Emma behaved at the beginning. How she interfered in a relationship between a mother and her son. A son she willingly gave up for a closed adoption. Closed means Emma willingly cut all ties to her child. This was her decision Regina didn’t force her wasn’t even in her life at that point.

Regina is a bad mother because she didn’t want the biological mother of HER CHILD taking him away from her. I guess we can all agree upon that Regina likely screwed up the adoption conversation what made Henry withdraw from her. But that would’ve been something that could be fixed with time and understanding.Something neither Henry nor Regina got the chance to because of Emma. It’s canon that they used to have a great relationship.

She said Regina’s reaction was totally over the top and another sign of what an evil person she is and what a bad mother. That her “I’ll destroy you if it’s the last thing I do” proofs that even with Henry Regina never was anything more than the Evil Queen. A bad selfish person who abuses Henry by keeping him from Emma. That was her argument.

For her now and everybody believing the same.

This is Lena Adams- Foster form the tv show The Fosters. (Check it out its really good)

Lena and her wife Stef have 5 kids four of them are adopted. Lena is a teacher and the worst crime she ever committed is lying to her wife. She is actually the definition of a sweet strong caring mother with a pure heart.

In season 1 the biological mother of their twins a former drug addicted forces her way into their lives again and causes quiet some trouble. She also gave them up willingly she also interfered into their relationship with their adopted parents. Like Emma did. And you know what Lena’s reaction to it was…

(gif by @jamandstuff )

Sound familiar?

(gif by @reginagifs)

Both woman react the same way, both women couldn’t be more different but they have one thing in common: They love their children fiercely and don’t give a fuck who their biological parents are. Because those two women were the ones taking those children in, they raised them and cared for them. They are their mother’s.

I love the relationship Henry has now to both of his mother’s I do. But only now because now…its Regina’s choice to say yes. Back in season 1 it wasn’t and Regina as well as Lena had the right to protect their children.

Who Skye Becomes

Everybody meet Daisy Louise Johnson

AKA Quake

AKA Skye

ya…I know awesome

this is all you need to know about her

Father: Calvin Zabo (Cal…sound familiar?)

Mother : Kim Johnson

Although in the comics, her mother was a prostitute who gave her up for adoption, her father, Cal, or by is villainous name, Mister Hyde, stole the Hyde formula which gave him super strength and speed. He slept with Kim, got her preggers, and had our beautiful baby.

She gave up our beautiful baby and daisy was raised by a nice family. When she was a teenager she stole two cd’s and when she played them, her powers of sonic ability “turned on” and caused an earthquake.

Nick Fury found her and told her who her real parents were and (at first believed) that she was a mutant with seismic abilities. He trained her in exchange for her loyalty.

She became to possess a level 10 security clearance, and was loyal to Fury. After some shit went down, Maria Hill became the new director and bumped her from active duty

Daisy teamed up with the avengers and got the badass name Quake.

The Avengers disband, more shit goes down, like shield….ya shield goes down.

Daisy worked beside the Avengers, the Young Avengers and the Secret Avengers. During her time “between jobs” she saves and befriends Steve Rogers, who, when rebuilding shield, makes her the DIRECTOR yes THE DIRECTOR.Like holy bologna

During this time she recruits Nick Fury Jr. and PHIL COULSON freaking PHIL COULSON. WELL THE TIDES HAVE CHANGED NOW HAVENT THEY DAD.

Sadly bae gets suspended for killing some evil dude, when he totally deserved it and flippin Maria Hill becomes director again.

Bae gets her memory wiped so shield wont come after her and goes under the radar like our dear darling Nick Fury. While under the radar she recruits not only the freaking WINTER SOLDIER    BUT ALSO   BOBBI FLIPPIN MORSE.

Powers Include:

The ability to create seismic events much like (what im now realizing) WHEN SKYE SEES TRIP DEAD AND AN EARTHQUAKE STARTS TO TEAR THE TEMPLE APART

She also has a form of psychic shielding….which is definitely going to come up later

Other non power abilities include great hand to hand combat and MARKMANSHIP

“HOW IS YOUR MARKMANSHIP SKYE?”

“IDK HAND ME YOUR GUN AND LETS FIND OUT”

It must have been pretty freaking good considering she SHOT HIM IN THE SIDE10 FREAKING TIMES

*takes deep breathe* sorry….im cool….im cool

but anyways…take a moment to soak that in, and please comment on any mistakes I made or if I forgot anything

Adoption Update! :)

Friends who are waiting for an update on Bitty’s status… Here is the post you have been waiting for. DCF responded today & gave final consent to the adoption! 

Earlier today, the paperwork was picked up & taken to the attorney’s office! 

(WHAT? Nothing moves this fast in Foster Care!) Our case worker said we should expect to hear from our attorney by the end of the week. Our 2 and a half year wait is almost over!

The attorney will get us a date on the docket to get this final. From what we have heard our Judge sneaks these cases in when she has free time because they are so quick.

Hold onto your hats friends! We really are *this* close to wrapping this up! Stay tuned…

let’s all just take a moment to imagine a universe where, instead of Jason pulling all that Under the Red Hood stuff, he instead started hanging signs all over Gotham that read “unattended Robins will be given a free puppy and expresso” and then follows through. Tim starts showing up at the cave tied to a golden retriever and a triple shot from Starbucks. he is so confused. Bruce has to find homes for six puppies in one week. Tim hasn’t slept for four days and has heartburn

Meet Archie! He’s a ~1 year old male galah who is still healing from a broken wing. I don’t know much about how his injury occurred or why his owners gave him up, but he’s been living with me for about a week now. I don’t think he’s been handled much before since he doesn’t even know how to step up, so we’ll be working on that! So far, Syd has been totally uninterested in him, but Zoe would like him to know that she’s still the favorite, thank you very much.

PSA: I knew what I was getting myself into when I adopted Archie. I’ve been thinking about adding a new galah to the flock for a while, so this wasn’t a spur of the moment decision. If you’re thinking about getting a bird, please do your research! Look into how much work they are, what food and environment they require, and if possible, I always support adopting rather than buying from a breeder. @pepperandpals has a great post about bird ownership if you’re interested!

a couple years back my therapist decided to try this thing with me where she gave met his little rock to hold whenever i was angry so i would be able to calm down or something. so she put me in this summer group therapy thing and this one kid started talking shit on this other girl and i took out my rock because you know im tryin to stay chill but then he told her something along the lines of ‘you were put up for adoption because no one wanted you’ and she started to cry so i hit him over the head with my rock instead

BNHA AU where All Might is the single father of Izuku and Inko is the single Dorm Mother of Yuuei

  • Inko gave up Izuku for adoption because Hisashi walked out before he was born and she wanted to give him the best chance possible
  • All Might likes to go down to the orphanage to hang out with the kids as Toshinori because of charity and because he legit likes kids
  • He’s known Izuku since the day he came into the orphanage and they’ve bonded over years
  • Once Izuku found out he was Quirkless, Toshinori adopts him because he loves Izuku like a son already and wants to raise him as his own
  • Inko lives her life missing the son she’s never met but loves taking care of kids anyways (she’s always babysitting for the Bakugous even if their son is a little hellion)
  • Inko is the Head of the General Department at Yuuei because of just how good she is at miscellaneous things but is also extrememly good at guiding young people in the right direction
  • Inko takes the job as the Dorm Mother for Yuuei once it becomes apparent that she can handle Katsuki and the General Department
  • Inko met All Might before she met Toshinori, but she makes it a point to visit at least twice a week because he doesn’t know how to lead a group of students AT ALL
  • Inko meets All Might’s son Izuku during one of these meetings and adores him the moment she sets eyes on him
  • Izuku is shy towards Inko at first but finds it really easy to open up to her kindness and golden heart
  • They tag team to keep Toshinori as healthy as possible (”Midoriya-san, Dad is just really bad at remembering his meds and I’m in class so I can’t always be there, but if you could….” “I’ll make sure your father is well taken care of Izuku-kun, don’t you worry.”)
  • Izuku has been training to be like his dad since he was a kid, so he’s able to handle the force of One for All much easier but he never stops his love of analyzing other people’s quirks because that’s just how he is
  • Izuku doesn’t meet Katsuki until Yuuei but their rivals almost immediately anyways ( “I’m not losing to you just because you’re All Might’s kid!” “Good, I want you to lose to me because I’m me.”)

Basically I’m begging you to consider if All Might adopted Izuku straight from the beginning but Inko never knows what happened to the kid she gave up

BONUS:

  • “Wow Izuku, you really look like Midoriya-san, don’t you?” “You think so? I don’t really see it.”
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ONCE UPON A TIME : the reboot
by drew and menelaos

season 1, episode 1 : The Land Without Magic

present : On the eve of her birthday, bail bonds agent Emma Swan takes a man into custody and then returns to her apartment to celebrate in solitude. A knock at the door reveals a surprise visit from a boy named Henry, who reveals he is the son she gave up adoption nine years ago. Henry presents Emma with a birthday gift: a necklace with a silver origami swan pendant. The next day, Emma takes Henry back home to Storybrooke, Maine and she crosses paths with Henry’s school teacher, Mary Margaret Blanchard, a mousy young woman who gives him books to read, and Emma learns that he has been desperately trying to locate his birth mother. Although resistant at first to developing a relationship with Henry, when Emma is faced with a threat from Henry’s adoptive mother, Regina Mills, the town’s mayor, she knows for a fact that she has come to Storybrooke for a reason. When Emma makes the decision to stay in town, Henry watches in delight as the town’s broken clock tower moves its minute hand for the first time in decades.

past :  In the Land of Ever, Snow White and Prince Charming rule as the High Queen and King over the eight kingdoms. A little over a year after Charming awakens Snow White with a kiss of true love and their happily ever after begins, they receive word that Snow White’s stepmother, the incarcerated former Queen, has begun exacting a plan of revenge: a Dark Curse that will collapse the Land of Ever, wipe the memories of its inhabitants, freeze time, and banish them all to a Land Without Magic. The pregnant Snow White and her husband pay a visit to the imprisoned Rumpelstiltskin, who reminds them that their child belongs to him through a deal they have made, and offers up a chilling prophecy regarding the baby’s true destiny: she will be their Savior from the coming Curse. The king and queen hold council with the Blue Fairy, Red Riding Hood, and other familiar fairy tale characters regarding the protection of Snow White and her coming baby, and the Blue Fairy and Geppetto devise a plan to protect one person from the Curse by creating an arc from an enchanted tree, with the intention of protecting Snow White and, by proxy, the child within her belly. But when the baby is born early, the royal couple is left with no choice but to seal the infant princess in the arc by herself and hope that one day, she will return to save them. They are just in time – for no sooner have they locked baby Emma away than Regina’s Curse sweeps through the realm, collapsing and consuming the Land of Ever and reforming it as the town of Storybrooke, Maine…

‘once upon a time’ stars : Charlize Theron as the Evil Queen/Regina Mills, Emily Rose as Emma Swan, Jaimie Alexander as Snow White/Mary Margaret Blanchard, Henry Cavill as Prince Charming, Raphael Sbarge as Jiminy Cricket, Richard Madden as Sheriff Graham Buchanan, Naveen Andrews as the Magic Mirror, CJ Adams as Henry Mills, and Robert Carlyle as Rumpelstiltskin

guest stars include : Cate Blanchett as the Blue Fairy, Tony Amendola as Geppetto, Jakob Davies as Pinocchio, Meghan Ory as Red Riding Hood, and Beverly Elliott as Widow Agatha Lucas

[ previously on once upon a time ]

Whispers│Stripper/Vegas AU│Nat & Tony

Natasha and Tony had met in a less than common way, the two having found one another through their jobs. It sounded normal enough, seeing as most people met through a job or career of some sort. The only difference here was that both were strippers.

Tony came from a rich background, parents being Howard and Maria Stark of Stark Industries, the famed weapons manufacturing company. However, they didn’t want his image to follow them and gave him enough money to last him till he died just so he’d go his own way and stay out of the public eye. Natasha was an orphan and adopted who grew to love dance. She’d started innocent enough in the hobby, even growing up to go into the police force before backing out when things got heavy when she went undercover as a stripper; the stripping job paid well, though, so she went back to it after quitting her old job. 

They were the top two strippers at their club, Whispers, and both were extremely competitive, to say the least. He was the leading male and she was the leading female, neither liking each other much just for their titles. And what was more, both were extremely good at what they did, having people request them constantly for one event or another daily and nightly. 

Tonight was one of their dance duets, if you will, a time where they had to work together to make money from all of the customers. They knew one another’s moves well and Tony prided himself on that fact. Knocking on her dressing room door but not giving her any time to answer, he pushed right in and crossed his arms. He was sporting a leather vest with matching pants. Yes, the outfits were a bit corny and cheesy, but they got the job done. “You ready yet? You’ve been getting ready for over an hour.” He prompted her none too kindly, leaning against the wall next to her vanity as he watched her apply her makeup.

Adoption Day

SaRequest by: avolon-knight-zodiac

Prompt: Imagine Pietro going to the local animal shelter and then playing with the cats, and he likes one that has an injury like a missing eye or something and he decides to adopt it. I also added the headcanon that Pietro used to bring home stray animals when they were on their own and she hated that so that’s in there too. Enjoy :)

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so i have to add some angst to my Grandpa Torino/Dad Might/Toshinko au

Nana. Nana’s husband was killed due to her hero work, and she gave up her child for adoption because she was worried about what could happen to them. 

i imagine that, if she were alive while Toshi was dating Inko and adopting Izuku, she would be very…. weary about it. maybe she’d try to warn him away from those kinds of relationships, because she doesn’t want him to suffer the same way she did

i wonder if Nana ever actually did warn Toshi about that before she died… maybe Toshi is hesitant to start a relationship with Inko because of her words. but still, the love and affection between Izuku, Inko, and Toshi is too strong.

i bet Torino would know about it, too. he’d be just as weary for Toshi because of Nana’s history, but he just… decides to let the kid live his own life. make his own decisions. be happy with what he’s making. 

he still has that worry in the back of his mind about what Nana would say, but decides to trust Toshi. and besides, Torino is gonna be around to help in case anything goes wrong. he won’t let what happened to Nana’s family happy to this one, so new and pure and so full of hope.

Once Upon a Time Returns With a 'Whodunnit Mystery' That's Quite Wicked, Even a Bit 'Creepy'

But not everyone is content to play house. Captain Hook’s priority is a very pirate-like one, while Neal is resolved to not just confirm his father’s fate (for better or for worse) but also to reunite with Emma.

[…]

THANKS FOR THE MEMORIES…? | Things are a bit less wicked in New York City, where for a year now Emma has “been very content. She has a real life for the first time ever,” Morrison reports. Embedded with a tweaked memory in which she never gave Henry up for adoption (yet still feels betrayed by baby daddy Neal), “She has memories of raising her child, feeling like she made the right choice and was there for him.” What’s more, Emma’s dating a great guy named Walsh (played by Covert Affairs‘ Christopher Gorham). And while the bail bondswoman will always guard her own heart — a lasting after-effect of her upbringing as an orphan, Morrison notes — “She’s definitely interested in the idea of Henry having a father.”

As such, one can’t blame Emma for casting a very wary eye on the guylinered, leather-clad gent who in the winter finale stormed into her life trying to convince her that she’s living an idyllic lie — and tried to smooch her, to boot. “It’s just weird enough that he shows up at my door dressed as Captain Hook. That alone would be enough to raise some concern,” Morrison notes with a laugh. (So, why didn’t NYC-savvy Neal, the other fella from Emma’s past, make this trek instead? “The answer to that is a little complicated…,” Colin O’Donoghue teases, “so the task fell upon Hook.”)

What will it take to for the semi-good captain to make Emma remember her past? In short, “A lot of persistence,” Morrison answers. Adds O’Donoghue: “Hook thought that true love’s kiss might work.” But since it didn’t, “He has to figure out another way to jog her memory. Because his whole purpose is to get her to come back to Storybrooke to help save her family.”

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anonymous asked:

THANK YOU FOR BRINGING UP THE FACT THAT SATELE GAVE THERON UP FOR ADOPTION. She gave him to the man who raised and trained her to raise! She's not a bad person for giving up her child. Women are allowed to do whatever they want with their bodies. They are allowed to give up their babies for whatever reason. But you know, women are bitches if they don't raise their children themselves I guess.

And thank YOU for appreciating the comment! Because really, every single argument people have regarding how Satele is a horrible mother makes literally ZERO sense under the interpretation that Satele gave him up for adoption. She doesn’t interact with him? She doesn’t have to. She doesn’t sense that he’s not Force sensitive? She has no reason to. She treats him like any other person in the galaxy? She gave up her role as mother. She doesn’t have to.

The fact that she does open herself up to him a bit was never any indication that she was trying to forcefully take back any place she originally had in his life; she offered him help if he ever needed it and accepted his feelings about her, as hard as it was for her.

Anything that Theron suffered while being raised as a Jedi was no fault of the woman who was reluctant to even NAME him because she knew that Master Zho would be raising Theron and not herself. He was literally a few hours old. There’s no reason she should have sensed his Force sensitivity. It was Master Zho who wanted to force him to become a Jedi even though he had no Force-sensitivity strong enough to do it.

Hell, Satele could have had an abortion and then there wouldn’t even be a Theron for the fandom to woobify. *LE GASP*

But, you know, Theron doesn’t like Satele but loves Master Zho so obviously Satele’s the bitch in the situation, since Theron is a Perfect Human Being Who Can Do No Wrong™. And yeah, any woman who doesn’t drop everything for her child is an awful person who can’t be trusted in the universe.

Tbh, if I didn’t love Theron as much as I do, I’d probably be sick of him just because of the way some people in the fandom treat him. Like, jeeeeeez. You can like a character without making him out to be perfect and hold everything he says as gospel.

Edit: And while I’m on the topic, do I agree with every decision she makes and such? OH HELL NO. But she’s definitely not the villain in this situation, nor the Worst Mother In the Universe™.

“MICHAEL I SWEAR TO GOD GET UP OR I WILL RUIN YOUR LIFE” (Y/N) said as she walked into Michaels room.

“Oh yeah babe Id like to see you try to do that.” He said back in a husky voice. 

“Michael lets not forget who gave me their password to their twitter and Netflix.” (Y/N) responded.

Damn Michael thought. It was 12 in the afternoon on a Wednesday and Michael had been in bed all day long. But once he got out of bed (Y/N) had the perfect plan. She was going to trick him into going to the store with her but on the way back they were going to pick up the cat that (Y/N) had adopted a week before.

~~~

After they had gone through the entire grocery store and stocked up on a bunch of things that would probably last them a good solid 3 weeks, (Y/N) handed Michael a blindfold and told him to put it on.

“Wow (Y/N) This is some pretty kinky shit”

“Oh my god Clifford shut up and just put it on”

“Fine but where are we going?”

“We’ll be there in 5 minutes its a surprise so just be quiet”

“But what if I dont wanna be quiet”

“I will strangle you boy”

“You couldnt reach me”

“Hey maybe I wont take you”

“WAIT SHIT IM SORRY PLEASE DONT LEAVE ME IN THE MIDDLE OF THE STREET!”

“Clam down we’re here you can take the blindfold off”

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Jaejoong continues crying even after filming a scene for "Triangle."

According to enews, Jaejoong continued to shed tears after filming a scene for the current Monday-Tuesday MBC drama, “Triangle.”

The scene was to portray his character, Heo Yeongdal, shedding tears while thinking of the brothers that he had been split from during childhood.

However, the effort that Jaejoong put into the part to make it seem as real as possible seems to have touched upon past memories that triggered stronger emotions.

Back in February 2013, Jaejoong’s mother talked about her family life with Jaejoong and his older sister on MBN’s “Life Theater of Touching Stories.”

In it, she had mentioned that when Jaejoong was five years old, his birth mother, Oh Seojin, had made arrangements for him to live with a more financially stable family. Thus, he grew up with and debuted under an adopted family, in which he had grown accustomed to.

Several years later, Oh Seojin remarried and gave birth to Jaejoong’s half-sister and half-brother. Meanwhile, Jaejoong carried out his career as a Hallyu singer and actor under TVXQ. 

His birth father also filed a lawsuit concerning Jaejoong’s birth name, and that it had been changed. In response, Jaejoong stated that he wished to keep his current name, rather than his birth-name Han Jaejoon. His previous agency, SM Entertainment, also commented that by then, Jaejoong was on good terms with both of his mothers, and had met his birth family a few times on occasion.

Nonetheless, Jaejoong showed positive stances and resolved feelings in face of the media throughout all the headlines and question.

Media and fans alike inferred then that though Jaejoong showed an overall positive image throughout his career, the scars of his birth family and his half-siblings still continue to hurt him. 

“Triangle” is Jaejoong’s last on-screen work prior to enlisting in the Army along with fellow JYJ member Yoochun.

Sources: eNews/iMBC + Osen + Newsen via Nate News

Translation: Koreaboo