Alright, I need some clarity on something really quick y'all. So, I don’t really just put my sexuality on blast, but I will for the sake of this post. I am bisexual. Now, today, I was having a conversation with this girl I met a few weeks ago, and she was questioning why I, as a bisexual woman, wouldn’t marry a female.
Her personal opinion was that, my opposing to be in a same sex marriage made me a fake bisexual. She said that I was just bicurious and that she was tired of the bullshit and that I needed to stop claiming bisexuality and be straight. I cannot explain how offended I am by her statement.
I spent many years thinking about what kind of permanent relationship I’d want in the future, and I settled on a heterosexual one because, IN MY OPINION, I think it would be best for MY family if they had a mother AND a father present, because there are some things that children need to learn from their fathers that a mother can’t teach them.
I also would love for my children to live in a household where they were with both of their biological parents. I don’t see a problem with that AT ALL. But APPARENTLY, because I feel this way, I am not a true bisexual. Am I wrong? Is she right? I don’t think she is, but maybe I’m just uneducated in these matters.