sexby

achillean boys are amazing and so strong. all of us.

  • gay boys who are feminine or masculine or somewhere in between
  • ace mlm who don’t fit into society’s idea of men and sex
  • bi and pan boys who are told that it’s a phase or that they need to pick a side
  • trans and nonbinary mlm who don’t feel like they fit into the community
  • hypersexual mlm
  • mlm of color
  • mlm with disabilities and chronic illnesses
  • autistic mlm
  • closeted mlm
  • closeted mlm who never want to come out
  • closeted mlm who are desperate to come out
  • closeted mlm who can’t come out
  • mlm with mental illnesses
  • traumatized mlm
  • lower class mlm
  • mlm who are oppressed on any other axis
  • and mlm who aren’t
  • whether you fit into all of these categories
  • or none of them
  • or if you’re a category all to yourself

i’m proud of you for being who you are in a world that still wants to silence us

Asexual Awareness Week- What exactly is an asexual?

Asexuality: the lack of sexual attraction

What does this mean? 

Asexuals don’t experience sexual attraction. That is, they don’t look at someone and want to bone them. 

This doesn’t mean that asexuals don’t experience other types of attraction, or have sex. 

Originally posted by kstolar3

What other types of attraction are there?

Aesthetic attraction: non-sexual/non-romantic attraction to the way someone looks (e.g. the way you like the look of a painting)

Romantic attraction: wanting to be in a romantic relationship with someone

Sensual Attraction: wanting to engage in non-sexual intimacy with someone (e.g. cuddling)

Platonic Attraction: wanting to be friends with someone

Originally posted by andthensuddenlycats

Are all asexuals the same?

No! Aseuxals are all different in how they experience attraction, their desire for relationships, or their willingness to engage in sexual activity. There are actually labels for different types of asexuals!

Demisexual: only experiences sexual attraction if they have a strong emotional bond with the person

Grey-asexual (Grey-a): covers a group that may infrequently experiences sexual attraction, experience low sexual desire, or are questioning their sexuality

Sex-repulsed: someone who is disgusted or put-off by the idea of sex

Sex-positive: someone who enjoys the idea of sex 

Asexuality and romantic attraction

There is quite a large community of asexuals who are also aromantic, that is, they don’t have the desire to be in a romantic relationship. There are also asexuals who want to be in a relationship, which is dictated by their romantic orientation. People that are allosexual (experience sexual attraction) never really have to think about the difference between romantic and sexual attraction, but everyone has one! For example, heterosexuals are also heteroromantic, homosexuals are also homoromantic and so on and so forth. Hetero- is a prefix describing who the attraction is to, in this case, it’s to the opposite sex. As asexual that wants to be in a relationship with someone of the opposite sex would be heteroromantic asexual. Some other orientations are:

Hetero: opposite sex

Homo: same sex

Bi: two sexes

Pan: regardless of gender

Asexual Representation

The asexual flag is purple, white, grey, and black! 

Some asexuals also wear a black ring on the middle finger of their right hand! (Just the middle finger. A black ring on the right hand can also mean a swinger, but they tend to leave the middle finger for us)

Originally posted by swabluonacloud

Have any more questions? Feel free to send me an ask, or visit the below resources!

Resources:

asexuality.org

whatisasexuality.com

asexualityarchive.com

Weekly Fanfic Recommendations 174

Originally posted by nochuie

theyre so precious and this gif is so HD, im shooked both externally and internally, the busan princes

do check out my selling post with the tag #fafsells

lets start~

1) Always Together

by @kittae

a taehyung x y/n fic 

one shot 

2) Swimming with Pheromones

by @arrianna21

a yoongi x y/n x taehyung fic 

hybrid au, cat and dog hybrid au 

hybrids have a better set of senses than you and so when they sense that you were ovulating, they couldn’t help it 

3) Phone Sex

by @wang-banana

a taehyung x y/n fic 

one shot 

taehyung loves the sound of your voice, especially when its making those sounds 

4) Yes Sir

by @taehyungvibez

a jimin x y/n fic 

one shot 

5) MVP

by @studioghibli2001

a hoseok x y/n fic 

oneshot 

college au, captain au 

( omg this was so good ) 

you had feelings for hoseok, your guy best friend ever since but of course they werent reciprocated, so what happens now when you’ve told your roommate 

6) New Rules

by @emboyz 

a seokjin x y/n fic 

one shot 

friends with benefits au, toxic relationship 

its about time new rules were laid and they were to be strictly followed

7) Bad Teacher

by @studioghibli2001

a seok jin x y/n fic 

ongoing series with 2 parts out 

teacher au 

in which you fall for your teacher and he tries to get the image of you being innocent off his mind because you were far from that 

lastly

8) Our Dirty Little Secret

by @hyungjooki

a yoongi x y/n fic 

oneshot 

new student au 

in which the new student comes in and needs a guide around the school, and yet again theres something alluring to min yoonji, and youre about to find out 

this  is all for this fic rec, another one up soon~ 

100 (+100) Follower Celebration

It’s official! I have crossed the 200 mark and while I know there are people out there with thousands of followers, I never expected people to take much interest in my writing or my love of Dick so I’m blown away that another 100 of you have shown up in just the last few weeks.  

As I mentioned, I’d like to do something for all of you.  It’s your likes, comments, reblogs, and interactions that make being here enjoyable and that encourage me to keep writing.  

Below is a list of characters I will write, 50 quote prompts and 50 kink prompts.  

Please send me an ask with a character, a quote, and/or a kink.   

You may make more than one request.  However, to give others a chance to make theirs, I will only be accepting the first one you submit.  All subsequent ones will be held until the end of the request period and accepted if I have not hit my limit.  

I debated whether or not to include any actors and decided at this time, I’m just not comfortable writing about real people.  I may make a side blog down the road, but for now, this one is staying RPF free.  

GUIDELINES

  1. You do not need to be following me to make a request, but followers’ will be accepted first.  
  2. All stories are reader inserts and are female by default.  If you would like gender neutral or male, let me know.
  3. Can’t choose between two characters? Why not both! (Threesomes will be accepted and are encouraged!)
  4. The kink list is optional.  Similarly, you can also just request a kink with a character.
  5. More than one request can be made for the same kink / quote but if I get multiples I may start crossing them off the list.  
  6. Fics are at the mercy of my muse.  Angst, fluff, crack, smut, it’s whatever she’s feeling.  If you would prefer not to have any smut, please let me know.
  7. Requests will be open for one week starting today (May 5) and closing May 13 at 7am (EST).  If I get a larger response than anticipated, I may need to close it sooner.  
  8. Fics / drabbles will be posted after requests are closed.  
  9. Please be patient.  I have only one fic commitment in addition to this challenge this month but several real life ones that can be unpredictable.  All requests will be fulfilled and I will get them out as quickly as possible.

CHARACTERS

Gabriel
Balthazar
Benny
Chuck
Crowley
Cain
Sam
John Winchester
Arthur Ketch
Mick Davies

QUOTES

  1. “Come over here and make me.”
  2. “Have you lost your damn mind!?”
  3. “Wait a minute.  Are you jealous?”
  4. “Is there a reason you’re naked in my bed?”
  5. “I almost lost you.”
  6. “Wanna bet?”
  7. “Don’t you ever do that again!”
  8. “It could be worse.”
  9. “I think we need to talk.”
  10. “We’re in the middle of a thunderstorm and you want to stop and feel the rain?”
  11. “I’ve seen the way you look at me when you think I don’t notice.”
  12. “Just once.”
  13. “You’re the only one I trust to do this.”
  14. “The paint’s supposed to go where?”
  15. “I can’t believe you talked me into this.”
  16. “I thought you were dead.”
  17. “It’s not what it looks like…”
  18. “You lied to me.”
  19. “I think I’m in love with you and I’m terrified.”
  20. “If you keep looking at me like that we won’t make it to a bed.”
  21. “You heard me.  Take.  It.  Off.”
  22. “I wish I could hate you.”
  23. “I swear it was an accident.”
  24. “YOU DID WHAT?!”
  25. “If you die, I’m going to kill you.”
  26. “Tell me a secret.”
  27. “No one needs to know.”
  28. “Well, this is awkward…”
  29. “I suppose you heard most of that?”
  30. “You know it’s not wise sneaking up on a man when he’s handling his weapon.”
  31. “Please, nobody died last time.”
  32. “Is there any way I’m going to get out of this with honor and dignity?”
  33. “Sorry.  Didn’t mean to enjoy the moment.”
  34. “Could you not do that while we’re… ever?”
  35. “Everybody dies alone.”
  36. “This must be what going mad feels like.”
  37. “Stop running that pretty mouth at me.”
  38. “Just once, I’d like things to go according to plan.”
  39. “Everybody plays each other.  That’s all anybody ever does.”
  40. “Oh, I’m going to the special hell.”
  41. “Well my days of not taking you seriously are coming to a middle.”
  42. “Well, you were right about this being a bad idea.”
  43. “I believe the exact phrase I used was ‘don’t’.”
  44. “Are you always this sentimental?”
  45. “It’s just a bad day.”
  46. “Remember that sex we were planning to have, ever again?”
  47. “I think we’re being followed.”
  48. “You are very much lacking in imagination.”
  49. “Right.  Because teenage pranks are fun when you’re about to die.”
  50. “This might come as a shock, but I’m actually not very good at talking to girls.”

*Completely made up and in no way relevant bonus points for anyone that recognizes where 30-50 are from. 

KINKS

  1. Against the wall
  2. Blindfolds
  3. Break up/make up sex
  4. By the fire
  5. Calming the others anger (with sex)
  6. Casual sex
  7. Chair sex
  8. Comfort sex
  9. Desperate sex
  10. Dom/Sub
  11. Double penetration
  12. Fight sex/Grudge fucking
  13. Food play
  14. Fully clothed
  15. Gags
  16. Getting caught (masturbating)
  17. Getting caught (sex)
  18. Grace!kink
  19. Hair pulling
  20. I love you
  21. In the bath/shower
  22. Loud sex/knowing someone can hear
  23. Middle of the night sex
  24. Mirror
  25. Morning sex
  26. No foreplay
  27. No speaking
  28. Oral sex
  29. Outdoors
  30. Pushing boundaries
  31. Discovering boundaries
  32. Quickies
  33. Really rough sex (feral/primal)
  34. Restrained sex
  35. Road head
  36. Skinny dipping
  37. Spanking
  38. Spontaneous sex
  39. Surprise sex
  40. Tattoos
  41. Teasing
  42. Trying something new
  43. While one of them is on the phone
  44. Wing!Kink
  45. Creative punishments
  46. Inappropriate location
  47. Praise!kink
  48. Almost getting caught
  49. Flirting
  50. In/by a swimming pool

Tagging people potentially interested:  @girl-next-door-writes @sumara62 @fand0maniac @feelmyroarrrr @omgreganlove @jannalionheart @baritonechick  @theblackenedsky @bloodstained-porcelain-doll, @pepperwoodatnight @lacqueluster @samikitten

always straight media, and then the moment a character is gay or lesbian the straights r like “please just be bi” like bc its somehow ‘less worse’ than gay or lesbian bc at least they still have some attraction to the other sex

bi/pan ppl will see that character and go “wait dont write them off as g/l yet, they may be b/p!!!” because , in reality , the majority of lgbt characters introduced/revealed are just l and g, no b. so when they see another gay occurrence, they say, “maybe this one is bi!!!!!” 

and then all the angry posts are entirely misdirected! they’re mad at the bi people for what the straight people are actually the ones doing! theyre saying to bi and pan people’s posts : “you need to stop taking lesbians and gays and saying they could be something else! let us have lesbain and gay characters!”

and the bi and pan people are like “LET SOME OF THEM BE BI ONES!!” thats what it is folks. thats what the probelm is right there. wires gettin crossed. misunderstandings.

the bottom line is, if it hasnt been explicitly stated/disproven one way or the other, and u wanna project the possibility of ur own sexuality on a character that hasnt been confirmed somethin else, u can 100% do that.

Erskine House

Since a lot of people were surprised to find out that the white house Harry bought in 2012 is named Erskine and has a lot of history, I decided to make this quick post. This post is for people who are interested in history (and gardening/architecture lmao), I guess. It really has nothing to do with Harry, except for the fact that he currently owns this house.


Erskine House was home to Lord Erskine (Thomas Erskine), a very successful lawyer, who garnered a lot of fame after working with Queen Caroline at her divorce hearing in 1820.


Erskine was a Whig, who in the 1790s led a campaign to prevent a radical reform movement.
Erskine was made Lord Chancellor in 1806.

“The ugly stuccoed house next door to the Spaniards Tavern, with a long porch, bears the name of Erskine House, it having been for some years the residence of Thomas Lord Erskine, the Lord Chancellor(…) Lord Eskine took this house, which he enlarged in 1788, some year before his elevation to the woolsack, and here he remained until 1823, beguiling the leisure which his dismissal from office forced upon him by planting trees and hedges, and laying out his grounds. Under the Spaniards Road was a tunnel connecting the house with that part of the grounds which lay on the Highgate side of the road, but after he had left and resigned his copyhold to Lord Mansfield (sidenote: a neighbor) the passage was filled up.” (London Town Past and Present, Volume 2 by W.W. Hutchings, Ford Madox Ford)  

“The large but plain white house adjoining the Spaniards is celebrated for having been the residence of Lord Erskine, who has been pronounced by other distinguished lawyers the greatest forensic orator that England has ever produced. It is surrounded by high walls that shut out the view of its grounds from the sight of curious, and the chief characteristic about its appearance is the long portico leading into it from the road. When Lord Erskine came to live here the house was not of much importance, but it had extensive grounds and commanded a fine view of the picturesque surroundings. He at once set about improving it, and having planted it with evergreens of different descriptions, he gave it the name of Evergreen Hill. He is also said to have planted with his own hand the extraordinarily broad holly hedge separating his kitchen-garden from the heath, opposite to the Fir-Tree Avenue. (…) The greater part of the leisure time of this legal light was spent in his garden, which was on the opposite side of the road, and connected with the house by a subterranean passage.” (Municipal Parks, Gardens, and Open Spaces of London by John James Sexby)

Also apparently one of Lord Erskine’s neighbors was “Parry, the Arctic explorer,” which is pretty cool. 

sexby said: Oh, you get a happy feeling inside, do ya? ;3c Tell me more.

It’s like I’m relishing in my groinsaw roar as I withdraw a flesh-choked blade from an astronaut’s ruined skull. And then I being thrusting my bloody, retina-covered pelvis with elfin fervor.

In general it’s suteki… as if a fleshy choochoo love train is entering my wet baby portal.