Our life is the result of the choices we make. The condition of our affairs is the result of the decisions we have made throughout the entire course of our existence. The quality of our relationships, the condition of our home or automobile, and the quality of our work is all the result of the choices we have made thus far in life. As a result, the only way to change the future is to alter our decision-making in a method and manner consistent with our desired destination. We can blame no-one for the current condition of our life; our happiness and fulfillment is predicated upon our ability to take responsibility for our life.