seriously woman stop

There’s nothing wrong with SWDBS.

Argh. Seriously, people these days are so damn annoying about every little thing. When SHR was airing, people went crazy because of the forced kiss (a classic asian drama gimmick that can be found on basically every drama). Then, there was the age gap issue on Goblin and now, Bong Soon needing to be saved turned into a major complaint motive.

Please. Pretty please. Just stop already.

The drama needs some sort of conflict for it to justify the rest of the episodes. And who are you kidding? It was clear she would end up losing her powers at some point. Why would they come up with the whole “if you hurt someone, you lose your powers” shit if they weren’t going to use it in the story?

And it was obvious Min Hyuk would have to help her when such time came. But it doesn’t mean she’s become all helpless forever. It was that precise moment!! She had just lost her strengh, it would be completely unbelievable if she still managed to win against an armed man all by herself. She was weak, weak in the “I’m not feeling well” sense. What’s more, don’t forget Bong Soon is a small sized woman.

Now there’s going to be some character development. Before, when she had her supernatural strengh, she thought she didn’t need anyone. And after Min Hyuk’s trainning, this mindset of hers became even stronger. Bong Soon now is going to have to deal with the fact that doing everything by herself isn’t the answer to all her problems. There are people there for her who accept her just the way she is. With or without super powers. And that’s the message of the show.

That you don’t need to actually be special or have supernatural powers to become special to someone else.

And the thing about independent woman and all. The key to independence is also to be able to ask for help when you need to. Or else, such all called independence might turn into simple arrogance.

A woman doesn’t lose her capacity to deal with her own things just because there’s a man by her side to back her up. An independent woman is actually much stronger when she has someone to share her achievements and her life with. And that’s the beauty of marriage and romantic relationships in general: you’re great by yourself, but you’re even greater when you find someone to be awesome with.

I’m seeing a lot of young transgender or non-binary people out there freaking out or going completely silent and removing all their info from their bios in light of the recent news in America. And I get that, I really, truly do.

But I also want you guys to know that it’s safe to come talk to me if you’re feeling pressured or scared or angry or whatever you’re feeling. If you’re comfortable with talking to me, go for it. :)

Secondly, if you’ve spoken to me about your gender for whatever reason, and are feeling scared about someone else finding out or you being being outed for any reason, please know that I will never reveal anything we have spoken about, anything you have sent to me or asked me about (as an anon or not) to anyone. What we discuss is private, and unless you give me permission to respond publicly or speak about it to others, it will stay between us. Always.

Please understand that more than a few women with in the adult entertainment/sex work/porn industry have come forward, accusing James Deen of Rape, abuse, and outright narcissistic and sociopathic tendencies. He specifically takes out these violent aggressions on his female co stars and his own partners. Stop reposting GIFs of him. Stop. He's disgusting. Support actors who support their female equals. Support indie. Support main stream. Support those who support others in the industry. Fuck Deen and fuck whatever the fuck he stands for.

send me a tv series and I’ll tell you:

  • my all-time ultimate fave character: PRINCE JING even though he is “honourable and loyal but has no brains”
  • a character I didn’t used to like but now do: mrrrr can’t think of anyone right now, maybe Gong Yu? I was neutral towards her but ended up liking her more as her backstory was revealed.
  • a character I used to like but now don’t: Qin Banruo is hella cool but some of the shit she pulls is just. Seriously, woman, stop.
  • a character I’m indifferent about: Gong Yu, initially?
  • a character who deserved better: EVERYONE NOT EVIL
  • a ship I’ve never been able to get into: ShuHuang. It wasn’t in the original novel and I think I liked them better as surrogate siblings.
  • a ship I’ve never been able to get over: MOTHERFUCKING JINGSU
  • a cute, low-key ship: Yujin and Jingrui are adorable and extremely married. Not so sure about the “low-key” part though.
  • an unpopular ship but I still enjoyed it: ? Onesided Consort Jing –> Lin XIe maybe? Oh wait, OT3 JINGSHUHUANG because The Emperor, The Tactician and The Princess-General is such an awesome pairing a;lskfjasldj plus they could make it work, by having Jingyan marry Nihuang as a political move but both of them can still be really close to Lin Shu.
  • a ship that was totally wrong and never should have happened: I don’t hate ShuHuang but I don’t love it. Also, I get that Jingyan needed to (re)marry because he’s the Crown Prince, but… still!
  • a storyline that never should have been written: W H Y  D I D  H E  D I E
  • my first thoughts on the show: SO MANY BEAUTIFUL PEOPLE also holy fuck Wang Kai has a nice voice. And nice hands. And nice eyes. Yknow what, that man is ridiculously attractive.
  • my thoughts now: I want to do a rewatch sometime.

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I have a new favorite Marius. 


“I don’t understand why you guys act so scared [about Australia] because, I mean, a little Redback spider you can squash with your foot but over here you can’t kick a bear!”
- Anna Torv