seriously all of her poses are so bad

WELL OK @it-me-mel  YOU HAVE GIVEN ME THE BIG “WHY” QUESTION AND THAT DESERVES THE BIG “WHY” ANSWER!! HERE WE GO UNDER THE CUT TIME!!! 

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HERES A LONG RAMBLEY POST THAT EXPLAINS (SOME) OF THE REASONS I THINK DOM’S PRETTY DARN COOL!!

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anonymous asked:

I was talking about having a group sleepover with my friend and she basically said "my parents don't let guys sleep over apart from you" (I'm a trans guy). We've been friends for a long time and I believe her parents, or at least one of them, know I'm trans. Is it unreasonable of me to not really want to sleep over there much anymore? I feel like I'm not taken seriously because of it, but I also feel bad since we're good friends and all.

Jay says:

Okay so let me tell you a quick story

Once my parents asked me why I hadn’t invited my girlfriend to stay over at our house before. I said why would I, she wouldn’t be allowed, I’m a guy. They said “It’s not like you’re gonna get her pregnant”.

And it’s TRUE. That’s what parents are most afraid of - their kids having unsafe sex and getting pregnant. 

It’s not that they see you as less of a guy than other guys, it’s about not posing the same “risk” as other guys.

I understand that it feels weird (it feels weird to me too) but it’s te kinda thing you should try and take advantage of - you can have sleepovers with your friends who are female! Yay!