The true meaning of ’sensitive guys’ have been forgotten about.
Girls say they want a ‘sensitive’ guy…this often means that they want the guy thats cool, funny, cute, strong and someone they feel safe around. Although, when its just them two together, she wants him to be: playful, to not be afraid to cry in front of her when they watch a sad movie, play with little kids and animals, open up to her and tell her his secrets and true feelings.
This may sound ideal, trust me, i want that guy too…but society has mistaken him for someone he’s not. He is the secret sensitive guy.
We have been so busy focusing on the typical view of a 'sensitive guy’ we have forgotten about the real sensitive guys.These are the ones that show everyone their emotions (even if they don’t want to), the ones that are quiet and scared to stand up for themselves, the ones who are judged to be boring, but are actually amazing to talk to. The real sensitive guys are often bullied for their personality, called geeks, dweebs and nerds.
The reason why they are so quiet is because of the bullies and the fact that they are not accepted into the society. They are so insecure from being bullied, the fact that they are sensitive, means their emotions show easily. This often causes people to categorize and judge them to not be 'cool’ enough to be invited to parties. Obviously, they are going to concentrate on school work if they are not accepted into the social part of school, they are going to be quiet if they don’t feel welcomed they are going to show their emotions if they are constantly abused verbally and physically. They are not geeks, nerds, dweebs or whatever you may call them. They are sensitive. They are judged. They are humans too.
So next time you say you want a 'sensitive guy’, you need to remember that the real sensitives aren’t like the movies, but they are sometimes, they best decision you’ll ever make.
so hes not a stereotypical gunbro dudebro when it comes to dealin w other ppl
but he also isnt a stereotypical gunbro dudebro when it comes 2 “the things he carried ”
DID ANYBODY LOOK @ THE OTEHR PICS HE HAS THAT ARENT HIM & YANCY ? ?
NOW ITS UNLIKELY HE TOOK THEM ALL , 4 VARIOUS REASONS , BUT WHETHER HE TOOK ALL OR ONLY SOME , THESE ARE PICS IMPORTANT ENF & MEANINGFUL ENF 2 TOTE THEM AROUND WHEN HE LIVES OUT OF A KNAPSACK LIKE A CIVIL WAR SOLDIER
we dont get a good close look @ that wall ALAS but couple things stand out
ARTY PICS MANY BW OF ANGEL / WINGED VICTORY MONUMENT SWANS RAINY STREETS MOODY ARCHITECTURE & EGYPTIAN ART
& IT LOOKS LIKE A SHRINE TO THE HOUSEHOLD GODS DOESNT IT ? ?
ok so team I was gonna make this just a shitpost in the middle of the night last night but then I (predictably) got overinvolved in it so I decided to wait to hop on my laptop to give y’all this long-form soulmate AU shitpost.
Soulmate AU where you have an animal companion / daemon who only starts maturing after you meet your soulmate.
Riley is, rather true to form, starting to freak out that she hasn’t met her soulmate yet. Not that it’s not great having a little white puppy follow you around everywhere (it is great. like, really great) but when your parents and little brother met their soulmates at age 6 it’s like, c’mon already. Where is this guy? Even Farkle’s Crow finally started trying to fly after they met Smackle and her Barn Owl. Riley knows 14 still leaves plenty of time, but she’s getting self-conscious. Everyone can see that her little puppy is clearly a puppy and not yet a Dog. Everyone knows.
So when she sees a cute boy on the subway on the way to her first day of high school and sees he has a little brown puppy by his side, she is beyond ecstatic. What are the chances? This guy is perfect and he even has a Dog, just like her! She knows right away that she’s going to love Lucas. She pictures his little pup growing big and strong and running and leaping with her own Partner.
She’s lucky enough to make another new friend on that fateful subway ride, too. A funny blonde with a bad-girl vibe and a storm-dark black kitten. For Maya’s part, she’s pretty excited about meeting Lucas too. Her parents both have Housecats for Partners, and look how that turned out. She likes the whole idea of the girl with the cat falling for the boy with the dog.
And Riley and Maya are both right, in a way. They notice, as the school years drags on, that their Partners are both growing larger. As they grow closer and become best friends they try to avoid one subject of conversation: They both desperately want to see Lucas’ pup growing up, but are both afraid to admit the chocolate puppy is as small and cute as ever.
That’s the problem with this whole system, see. In a city like New York, how many new people do you meet in a day? And it’s not like partners grow up overnight. You could so easily miss it - meeting your soulmate. Everyone has heard the stories. Someone goes on a vacation, not knowing they met their soulmate, and after returning home they realize their partner is nearly full grown. So what if it was someone else on the subway?
The little white puppy isn’t nearly so little or cute anymore. The little black kitten is growing almost too fast.
There’s a small failsafe in the system. Each person has a name for their own Partner, though to the wider world Person and Partner are known both by the Person’s name. Sometimes, somehow, your soulmate will know your Partner’s name.
One day, Riley and Maya are hanging out like normal, when it happens. Maya’s overly-large cat is playing too close to the edge of the Bay Window. The white pup is barrelling up behind. Riley calls out to Maya’s Partner without thinking - “Thunder, no!” even as Maya shouts, “Lightning, stop! You’ll crash into her!”
And then they finally knew.
And as time went on they came to know even more. Riley had no dog, but a Wolf. For she is not only loyal, but fierce. Not just playful, but determined to protect her family too. And Maya had no ordinary Housecat, but a black Panther, for she is not only curious and sometimes independent or conniving, but also beautiful, graceful and impossibly strong.