quiow  asked:

Neville Longbottom for the character breakdown thing?

How I feel about this character: You know, I don’t really invest as much time in him as I do the others, but he’s absolutely still my Son omfg. I love the dork sm

All the people I ship romantically with this character: No one. Never shipped him with anyone tbh, so I don’t have much of an opinion on his canon marriage to Hannah 

My non-romantic OTP for this character: He and Ginny are cute friends I wish that got expanded on a little more 

My unpopular opinion about this character: I don’t like that the movie shoehorned him into a relationship with Luna, they both deserved better than how that happened. 

One thing I wish would happen / had happened with this character in canon.: I wish he was like…more involved in the series? Like, he could’ve been stuck living Harry’s life. That sets up an interesting dynamic but then…nothing ever came of it? I don’t know, ever since the first book he’s always been this character that COULD have been part of the trio but just never was? It was weird. Like he and Harry could of had this awesome dynamic, his character development could’ve started earlier and progresses with every book instead of just dumping it on in 5 and 7, he could’ve been closer and helping out more, we could’ve actually seen him become a better wizard than just having Harry mention it offhand, but like…it didn’t. He just stayed this side character that always could have been more important but never was until they needed the sword to kill the snake. Does that make sense?

anonymous asked:

Menurut kaka, cara balas dendam yang baik untuk orang yang sudah menyakiti itu gimana?

Caranya? Dengan menghilangkan niat untuk balas dendam dan fokus untuk berbahagia dengan orang-orang penting di hidupmu, fokus melakukan hal-hal yang positif dan produktif supaya diri kamu menjadi lebih baik dari sebelumnya. Jadikan dirimu sangat sangat bahagia tanpa perlu membalas dendam kepadanya. Itu adalah balas dendam yang sesungguhnya. 

ayiinwie  asked:

Hay ka, aq lg krisis kepercayaan, aq punya orang² yang ku pikir sahabat, tapi ternyata menusuk aq dr belakang, tusukannya sangat menyakitkan,sampai aq bingung, salah aq dmn? Mereka tak punya uang untuk makan dan utk nongkrong,dgn senang hati aq sediakan, aq bagi, tiap mereka ultah aq berikan surprise luar biasa,ga menyangka tryt dluar mencaci maki aq.apa tujuan mereka begitu?

Halo @ayiinwie

Saya bukannya mau menyalahkan kamu karena sering traktir teman-teman kamu dan lain sebagainya tetapi kamu salah kalau berpikir dengan sering traktir teman, memberikan kado kepada teman, akan membuat mereka menjadi sahabatmu. Seperti pepatah, “Money can buy friends, but not true friends.

Dan mungkin sekarang kamu bisa tahu siapa yang benar-benar sahabat kamu dan siapa yang hanya ‘teman karena harta’. Semoga kamu bisa menemukan siapa yang benar-benar sahabatmu ya, jangan patah semangat.


anonymous asked:

ka aku dulu pernah sangat sangat tersakiti oleh lelaki dan keluarga ku pun juga berantakan mksd ku ayah ku yg meninggalkan keluarga ku. lalu dia datang dengan segala keindahan ny tau segala cerita ku dan berjanji untuk tdk seperti laki laki sebelum nya tapi nyata nya sekarang dia malah bersama wanita lain menurut kaka aku harus bagaimana menghadapi ini?

Dear anon, I’m really sorry to hear that. 

Saya gak bisa membayangkan rasanya disakiti oleh laki-laki yang seharusnya menjadi pahlawan bagi kamu. Dan lagi, kamu disakiti oleh laki-laki lain. Saya cuma bisa bilang, jangan salahkan para lelaki tetapi yang harus disalahkan adalah pribadinya. Pengalaman kamu memang sangat berat dan sangat menyakitkan tetapi jangan sampai ya kamu jadi membenci para lelaki. Jadikan saja, ini sebagai pelajaran hidup yang nantinya kamu ceritakan kepada anak dan cucumu nanti. Berhati-hatilah kepada orang, tidak semuanya bisa kamu percayai. Hatimu harus kuat ya.

Semoga bisa membantu, cheers! 

I’m going to be working on writing a little meta in the days/weeks to come (because it’s important to work with different types of writing and I’ve been writing lots of short stories at the moment). And I kind of just want to rant about the ship without worrying about plot and sentence structure, you know? So feel free to send me questions or asks on topics you’d like to see me write about :) I will defend this ship and these characters to the death. 

Also I’m planning to update my multi chapter on Ao3, Forever and Always, on Sunday-I have managed to work on it, surprisingly, so there’s that as well.

anonymous asked:

kakkk, aku pacaran sama mantan sahabatku. Rasanya enggk enak kak, walaupun mereka sudah lama berpisah. Tetapi dulu, akulah yang pertama saling dekat, dulu aku berpacaran sm oranglain, dan dia memilih dgn sahabatku. Skrng kami dipertemukan lg, tetapi aku tak enak hati dgn sahabtku kak. Bagaimna ini😥

Mungkin kamu bisa tanya langsung ke sahabat kamu, bagaimana perasaan dia jika kamu berpacaran dengan mantan pacarnya. Karena dari ceritamu, sepertinya kamu belum pernah bertanya langsung melainkan hanya berasumsi (correct me if I am wrong). Jangan sampai asumsi kamu hanya karena merasa tidak enak dengan sahabatmu tanpa mengetahui kebenarannya membuat hubungan percintaan kamu jadi kandas. Jadi, lebih baik kamu tanya ke dia bagaimana perasaannya. Toh sudah lama berpisah kan ya?

Semoga bisa membantu, cheers!

Here’s some of that poorly drawn UT art I promised. Hand drawn, digitally colored (because I lack the big crayon box)

Here’s the original:


Random Questions - Send Me Numbers!

Here is yet another set of random questions for people to ask you in order to get to know you better. Please reblog!

1. What is your middle name?
2. Do you have any nicknames?
3. Do you have any allergies?
4. What is the longest your hair has ever been?
5. Apple or PC?
6. Favorite flavor?
7. Have you ever been on a blind date?
8. Are you friends with any of your exes?
9. What kind of car do you drive?
10. How grammatically correct are you when you text?
11. What foreign country would you most like to visit and why?
12. Creamy or chunky peanut butter?
13. Favorite food to pig out on?
14. DC or Marvel?
15. Disney or Nickelodeon?
16. Do you have any stickers on your laptop computer?
17. Name/author of the last book you read cover to cover. Do you recommend it?
18. Do you read any magazines?
19. Coffee or tea?
20. What is your go-to Starbucks drink?
21. How many things can do with your weaker hand?
22. Last show you binge watched?
23. Dogs or cats?
24. Favorite Disney princess?
25. Do you like fast food?
26. Favorite thing to cook for yourself?
27. Favorite song to sing in the shower?
28. Have you ever butt dialed anyone?
29. iPhone/iPad or Android?
30. Any styles of music you do not like?
31. Have you ever kissed anyone of the same gender? If so, did you like it?
32. Have you ever gotten a ticket while driving?
33. Favorite emoji?
34. Showers or baths?
35. Is there anything you regret buying?
36. Are you fluent in more than one language?
37. Any movie(s) you can watch over and over again and enjoy just as much every time?
38. What is the heaviest you have ever weighed?
39. Do you have any tattoos? If so, how many and where?
40. Have you ever uttered a spoken hashtag?
41. Favorite school subject?
42. Favorite non-chocolate candy?
43. Name one celebrity you dislike.
44. If you could have one superpower, which one would you most like to have?
45. From 1-10, rate your singing ability.
46. From 1-10, rate your dancing ability.
47. From 1-10, rate your cooking ability.
48. From 1-10, rate your driving ability.
49. Are you religious?
50. Do you drink soda? If so, which one is your favorite?
51. Have you ever locked your keys in your car?
52. Spring or autumn?
53. Do you play any sports?
54. Can you play any musical instruments?
55. Are you more introverted or extroverted?
56. How easily do you cry?
57. Last musical artist you saw live?
58. Favorite YouTube channel?
59. Star Wars or Star Trek?
60. How long have you known your best friend?
61. Have you ever voted for a reality show?
62. Last CD you bought?
63. Have you ever ended a romantic relationship?
64. Have you ever been broken up with?
65. Have you ever been in the audience for the taping of a TV show?
66. How long was your longest relationship? Are you still with that person?
67. Have you seen any Broadway plays or musicals?
68. Have you ever acted in a play or a musical?
69. How flexible are you?
70. Have you ever sexted?
71. Do you own any clothes from garage sales or thrift stores?
72. Real or fake Christmas trees?
73. How many pillows do you sleep with?
74. How well can you write in cursive?
75. What is your political affiliation?
76. Do you like any boy bands?
77. Have you ever broken any bones?
78. Have you ever gotten any stitches?
79. Do you have any piercings in places other than your ears?
80. What is the oldest piece of clothing you still wear and how old is it?
81. Do you like wearing hats?
82. Have you ever dyed your hair?
83. From 1-10, how competitive are you?
84. How long have you been at your current job?
85. Have you ever studied abroad?
86. Phrase you say the most?
87. Have you ever quit a job?
88. Have you ever gotten fired from a job?
89. Have you ever won a trophy? If so, what for?
90. Have you ever been a Boy/Girl Scout?
91. Last thing that made you laugh?
92. Do you eat meat?
93. Are you more of a morning or a night person?
94. Worst habit?
95. Deepest fear?
96. Do you believe in ghosts?
97. If you could take home any animal from the zoo, what animal would you take?
98. Do you consider rapping singing?
99. Favorite costume you wore for Halloween? How old were you?
100. Favorite store to shop at?
101. Have you ever given anyone CPR?
102. Favorite Pokémon?
103. Do you own any homemade clothing?
104. Do you drink alcohol at all? If so, what is your drink of choice?
105. Have you ever skinny dipped?
106. Favorite type of cookie?
107. Favorite flavor of ice cream?
108. Biggest pet peeve?
109. Are you still friends with anyone from high school?
110. Favorite literary character?
111. Are your birth parents still together?
112. Do you wear or have your ever worn glasses?
113. How many of your Facebook friends do you actually hang out with?
114. Have you ever been the victim of a prank?
115. Do you belong to a fraternity or a sorority?
116. Have you ever taken a nude selfie?
117. Are you adopted?
118. Favorite fandom?
119. Oldest memory?
120. Have you ever snorted when you laughed?
121. Can you drive stick?
122. Favorite Disney song?
123. Random boy’s name.
124. Random girls’ name.
125. How often do you eat out at a nice restaurant?
126. How many people are in your nuclear family?
127. What accent do you consider the most attractive?
128. What is your Myers-Briggs personality type?
129. What is your astrological sign?
130. Biggest regret?
131. What type of shoes do you wear the most?
132. Do you like any soap operas?
133. Do you listen to talk radio?
134. What sports team(s) do you root for?
135. Describe your sense of humor.
136. Have you ever been hit on by someone of the same gender?
137. Favorite video game?
138. Name a moment in your life when you were pleasantly surprised.
139. Do you believe in serendipity?
140. Have you ever left a movie theater before the movie was done?
141. Have you ever felt you were born in the wrong period of history?
142. Is sex before marriage wrong?
143. Have you ever gotten a song you dislike stuck in your head?
144. Can you handle spicy food?
145. Have you ever called a non-lover a term such as darling, honey, babe, or dear?
146. Do you like MTV?
147. Where on your body are you the most ticklish?
148. TV show or movie you quote/reference the most?
149. Have you ever lived with a roommate you didn’t get along with?
150. Where do you think is the best place to meet a new lover?
151. Have you ever successfully been on a diet?
152. Favorite thing to do outside?
153. Where did you go on your last vacation?
154. Do you say “y'all” at all?
155. Have you ever lived on a farm?
156. Do you believe in evolution?
157. What TV channel do you watch the most?
158. Favorite Beatles song?
159. Have you ever been on TV?
160. Have you ever been to Disney World or Disneyland?
161. Do you like horror movies?
162. Do you like to go fishing?
163. Have you ever been hunting?
164. Do you take medication for anything?
165. Name one item from your bucket list.
166. From 1-10, how much do you like children?
167. Have you ever thought about your wedding?
168. Have you ever been bungee jumping or skydiving?
169. Favorite flower?
170. Do you collect anything?
171. Who was the last person you told a lie to?
172. Have you ever been a bridesmaid or a groomsman?
173. Have you ever had a fortune cookie fortune come true?
174. What was your favorite toy to play with when you were a child?
175. How good are you at math?
176. Have you ever learned anything from a how-to YouTube video?
177. Have you ever participated in a science fair?
178. Have you ever wished you were born the opposite gender?
179. Have you ever participated in a public protest?
180. Do you have a pool at your house?
181. Have you ever hosted a wild party?
182. Do you like karaoke?
183. Have you ever written a love letter?
184. Have you ever ran a marathon?
185. How often do you get mad at yourself?
186. Any guilty pleasures?
187. Fruits or vegetables?
188. Do you live in a house or an apartment?
189. The countryside or the suburbs?
190. Worst job you’ve ever had?
191. Do you hang out with any of your co-workers?
192. Were you ever voted homecoming/prom king or queen?
193. Were you voted a “best” or “most likely to” in high school?
194. Have you ever gotten detention?
195. Have you ever babysat?
196. Have you ever taken a road trip just for the fun of it?
197. How many drinks get you tipsy?
198. Were you a part of any academic clubs in high school or college?
199. Have you ever given a public speech, aside from your schooling?
200. How long have you been on tumblr?

anonymous asked:

Kak aku lagi deket sama cowok tp ga yakin, respon temen"ku juga ga bagus, caranya menyudahi gimana ya kasian dia udah baper, aku juga gamau dia sakit hati, aku gamau kena karma nantinya?

Sakit hati pasti ada karena mau gak mau kehilangan seseorang yang dulunya dekat itu tidak enak. Sebaiknya kamu jujur aja ke dia kalau kamu tidak lagi memandang dia sebagai seseorang yang lebih dari teman. Karena kasihan jika dia terus berharap kepada kamu tanpa kamu beri tahu kebenarannya. Dia pasti akan lebih menghargai kejujuran kamu daripada kebohongan kamu.

Semoga bisa membantu, cheers!