self esteem thanks

anonymous asked:

*slams fist on table* WHO IS PURPLE HAIRED CUTIE!!!!??? what's his story please tell me

The purple haired cutie is Blue Kim!! He’s a popular online gamer who meets Paul when visiting his cousin Hazel on the east coast. <3 Blue really likes Paul and tries to help him gain some confidence because Paul’s self esteem is nonexistent. Thanks for wondering, Anon! 

honestly i never got complimented when i was growing up so this whole deal is Wild…….. like no one ever thought i was good looking, ppl were actively telling me i was ugly from like age 9 - 15

so uh. you guys are really fucking sweet. means a lot to a guy who’s never honestly felt pretty his whole life.

The One with the Black Dress

Title: The One with the Black Dress

Summary: Christmas has become just another day for Dean, not worth celebrating. Donna, on the other hand, loves Christmas. Can she instill him with the Holiday Spirit by Christmas Day?

12 Days of Dean and Donna: A Christmas Story

Author:  Dean’s Dirty Little Secret

Characters:  Dean Winchester x Donna Hanscum

Word Count:  2514  

Warnings:  language, character has low self-esteem,

Author’s Notes: Thank you @mamapeterson and @bringmesomepie56 for your help. Written for the 12 Days of Christmas Challenge from @waywardlullabies. Day 8 of 12 Days of Christmas, Prompt: Gift Exchanging + Eggnog

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First Years + Suits 

(Don’t let them choose because this is what will happen)





I’ve been on here for about a month, and I cant thank you guys enough! This blog has literally made my summer, I’ve had so much fun and its really helped me expand my art! That’s the part I want everyone to hear, if you guys want to hear my talk for like a paragraph I’ll put it under.

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Not everything is supposed to become something beautiful and long-lasting. Sometimes people come into your life to show you what is right and what is wrong, to show you who you can be, to teach you to love yourself, to make you feel better for a little while, or to just be someone to walk with at night and spill your life to. Not everyone is going to stay forever, and we still have to keep on going and thank them for what they’ve given us.
—  Emery Allen

so it is beautiful weather here for winter and im feeling so full of love. for sunshine, for family, for strangers, for everyone in between. im grateful that my excitement for the unknown is starting to come back, replacing my fear. boy this is one wild life

anonymous asked:

Since I've started following you i've tried to get stronger, so i try to do push-ups every day. i recently started noticing some development in my chest and now i find myself unconsciously feeling my pecs every now and then, which has been surprisingly beneficial to my self esteem. Thank you for your influence! <3<3<3

YAY THAT’S SO AMAZING!!!!!! CONGRATS!!!! I gotta say, one of the best and most satisfying feelings is going downstairs and feeling yo titties bounce ;D keep it up!!!

youkaihime  asked:

Following you was one of the best decisions of my life. Your blog is a blessing. I was wondering if you have matsuhana/matsuhanaiwaoi fic recs? Because I'm thirsty for matsuhana but where the hell is the quality content for them

this honestly makes me feel so good, because i haven’t been producing anywhere near the amount of content i want to be, and i really feel like my blog has been kind of dead for a long while other than reblogs. i was going to do seijoh 4 week and then a day into it, i realized i hated all my writing and decided to rewrite most of them. so this makes me feel really good. <3

yeah! i can see if i have any for you, especially matsuhanaiwaoi ones since i haven’t rec-ed them before, but i’m gonna do it in a separate post, if that’s alright since i just spent a good portion of this answer talking about myself haha. 

i’ve already done a sort-of fic rec list for matsuhana so i’ll reblog that one just after this so you can see it. i think they’re mostly popular ones though, so you’ve probably read at least a few of them. 

a lot of th validation i received regarding my art used to revolve around my age and relative talent so whenever i saw someone younger than myself who was more skilled or got more online attention id freak out but now like… turning 19 in may and im fine? i dont think drawing is the right academic path fr me 2 pursue and when i see younger ppl who are displaying LOADS more talent than me im jus happy fr them. its taken a lot of negotiation w myself to get 2 ths point but my self esteem couldnt thank me enough fr ths

i hate the message that 3rd wave feminism sends to girls… “you’re perfect, but you need more makeup! here’s makeup tips that will last through a blowjob!” “it’s important to love yourself, but have you drawn your eyebrows on right today?” “you’re beautiful no matter what, but in the next breath we’re going to list 62 Tips To Look Hot On Your First Day of School and make you feel like you have to put on false eyelashes and spend 3 hours on your hair to be pretty”
you can slap the “it’s my choice and i like it” label on it all you want but that doesn’t make it true for everyone… i’m sure i’m not the only girl who was affected by this kind of propaganda and who’s self esteem is fucked up thanks to it