I encourage you, in 2017, to find a community. Find a space where you can communicate with others, in person, for real substantial social interaction. In this increasingly individualistic society, more and more studies are connecting how self centered our society is with people feeling more depressed and having lives that feel less fulfilling. So if possible, I encourage you to step out, and find a community. I know it’s easier said than done. But commit to trying. Isolation is a dangerous thing.
Isnt "you dont have to look" kinda maybe extremely self centered too? Basically saying "society should change their behaviour to accomodate a choice i made that only benefits me."