You have to realize that you are absolutely beautiful. You are crafted with the most perfect features. Your personality is one to die for. See yourself for who you are; and that, my dear, is perfect.

Body positivity has always been a struggle for me. I’ve always been the biggest of my friends. I’ve never been able to wear anything under a size 10 while my friends and my beautiful sister (the other one in the picture (cut her off to hide identity) at her biggest was a size 6. When I was in middle school the other kids thought I stuffed my bra because from the summer of 6th grade to the fall of 7th grade I went from a bra size 32b to a 38d. It’s always been hard for me to accept I will always be a bigger girl. I’ve never been able to find a guy to date because I always though I was gross because of my stomach. When I did find a guy he would tell me to workout constantly and tell me what to eat. Blah blah blah son story…. Flash forward to now. When I have since found better friends who think I’m hot AF and I have found the love of my life who makes me eat more (lol) and he constantly is grabbing my booty and kissing my tummy telling me how beautiful and perfect I am. You just have to be happy with yourself. Find someone who loves you for you. Don’t change for anyone!! All bodies are beautiful. Love yourself #bodybeautiful


Be the Support System that your past self needed.
Don’t pay attention to the ones that berate you and focus on the ones that celebrate you! 

Happy Big Girl Appreciation Day! 

Please Remember...
  • You are allowed to take up space. You are human.
  • You are allowed to have a voice.
  • You are allowed to leave whenever you feel uncomfortable or unsafe.
  • You deserve more than someone who doesn’t know how to respect you.
  • You are allowed to put your own needs first.
  • You are allowed to love yourself.

Question: What is the last thing that haters want to see?
Answer: A chubby/fat/morbidly obese/chunky/overweight person smile and be content with themselves.

 Happy Bir Girl Appreciation Day!!! XDD

It hasn’t been easy. I had to learn how to love myself, how to love my messy hair and tired eyes. I had to do everything on my own, not that I had any choice in the matter. It was the hardest thing I have ever had to do, but my god was it worth it because in the end the only person you really have is yourself and if you don’t love you, who will?
—  4am
Surround yourself with the dreamers and doers, the believers and thinkers, but most of all, surround yourself with those who see the greatness within you, even when you don’t see it yourself.
—  Edmund Lee (via Smile, Sugar.)