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anonymous asked:

Don't you find it ironic that Mark ask us to respect Felix even though Felix never showed us (Jewish People) any respect? I get where he is coming from but I'm sick of seeing Mark being held as some kind of messiah in the fandom.

No, I don’t find it ironic. See, it doesn’t matter how a person treats you, words are words. Standing up and being the better person is more important than falling to their level, or below, and slinging insults, stripping away their humanity over a joke. Felix did not mean to have his joke interpretted the way he did. A joke does not equal how you actually feel. Watch his video. Take away your biases for a moment and watch the video.

I see it like “Oh i’m gonna drink bleach” or “oh, you stupid little shit, i’m gonna kill you”. You don’t take those jokes seriously. And with that, seeing how there are legitimately disgusting people following Felix, that doesn’t matter, either. You are not your followers. People I disagree with followed me before I spoke out. People Felix disagree with may have left, too after he openly told them to fuck off.

Taking words to heart is bullshit in my opinion. You give meaning to those words. You allow people to speak and allow them to dig themselves their own graves. I am a free speech absolutist. I will defend ANYONE’S right to speak as long as they aren’t making bomb threats, or other threats of the sort. What Felix did was not that, simply something to point out how ridiculous those sites were. 

Censoring language is more oppressive and dictorial than allowing someone to speak. Personally, as someone with Jewish people in my family, I couldn’t give a single shit what Felix said because I’m not thin skinned and I know he didn’t truly believe in what he was saying. Dark humor is dark humor. You hate it or you love it. And censoring what people find funny is bullshit. Humor can be a way to cope, and a joke does not equal what you truly feel. Ie) Dead baby jokes.  Disney had every right to drop him, though it’s bullshit that all that hard work was lost.

Friend, I think Mark had a point. Despite this being a Markiplier blog and me kinda focusing on him everyday, I’m able to step back and realize his faults. Analyze the whole situation. People deserve to be treated civily and with respect, no matter what comes out of their mouth, again, as long as it isn’t a threat. You need to step away from this super sensitive, don’t hurt anyone’s feelings for a second and realize, that that is only causing more hatred.

We cannot fight hate with hate. We need to stand up and be bigger people, friend. Sinking down and allowing anger to control us does not make us better. We better this world by showing kindness and respect to people, even if they spit the worst of venom. What I’m seeing is hate being combated with hate, and more hate being produced. This battle is dividing us, friend. Please, take a look around at the world. How divided and hostile we’ve become towards each other. I’ve been in the center of politics for years now, and I’ve watched things be torn apart.

You don’t have to like a person, you can even hate them, to respect them and treat them like another fellow human. This isn’t about Felix right now. But people you see as your enemy, see themselves making the world a better place. They are not set out to destroy this planet. They aren’t sitting, petting a cat and twirling their mustache.

Until this site learns to treat people in a civil and respectful manner, we will only further divide and increase this tension with one another. Spreading hate over meaningless things. We don’t have long on this planet, and worrying about being victims instead of being survivors and working with each other will get us nowhere.

A little fandom rant before I let fic/novel writing take control:

I’ve had a really hard time lately with this fandom. I love it. Truly, I do. But it appears things have become so fractured and instead of being unified and supportive, we’ve turned into a battleground. Who gives a fuck if someone still enjoys the show? Who gives a fuck if someone hates the show? Let them feel that way. Support their right to enjoy what they enjoy.

Instead, everyone has become antagonistic and more interested in forcing their own gripes onto those who disagree with them - and then refusing to let others do the same. This fandom has never been like this before. We’ve never been the sort to discourage opinion or preference. We’ve never been the sort to let the worst get us down.

I’m all for you hating the show now. I’m all for you fighting for it to be better - it needs to be better. But I AM NOT for you hating on fellow fans for feeling differently. I AM NOT for you insulting those who still enjoy the show. I AM NOT for you driving long-standing members of this fandom away with your hate.

We need to be better.

We need to be more accepting and more loving of one another… of all the differing opinions represented in this once bright fandom.

I’m certain this is possible. So let’s make it happen.

I find it sick to see posts wanting Draco to die. He was a freaking KID throughout the years we saw him being an ass, and he obviously learned from his parents! But as Rowling wrote, he clearly began changing his views in his later years. It would be different if he became another Lucius as an adult, but he freaking grew up as he learned about the reality of war and the mess he’d been repeating without really understanding it personally. He NEVER deserved to die, and certainly not painfully.

Can I just say one thing? If the personal life of a celebrity affects you to the point of feeling physically or mentally ill in any way, it is absolutely not good for you nor healthy in any way. It breaks my heart to see people feel literally sick over one picture. I know nobody asked for my advice, but I’m giving it anyway. Don’t take everything so seriously and don’t ever let the personal lives of celebrities have such a big impact on your own personal lives.

Okay so like the little bitch ass birds I used to feed abandoned me for like 4 months right after I bought a bird feeder bc I used to just put seeds on a plate and they would come ANYWAYS I left the bird feeder up all those months and those little fucks are back chirp chirp binch and they make a fucking mess bc they don’t like a certain seed that comes in their food and I SEE those sick fucks throw the seeds they don’t like on the floor into my patio like 🙃🙃 can you AT LEAST throw them to the other side

When did we see You sick, or in prison, and come to You?

Matthew 25:39

After Thought

There are many who feel shut in, separated and alone. To know that need and to meet it is to do what Jesus would do. It is the investment of our time and tells shut-ins that they are not invisible.

~ Pastor Bob Barnett

Drama

Im trying so hard to avoid all of this drama and negativity but it’s starting to become a lot to deal with. Youtube was where I went to escape the drama but now its there too. Idk Im just sick of seeing all of this hate going around. Im sick of people asking me to choose a side. Clinton or Trump? Pewdiepie or WSJ? It’s gotten out of hand. I cannot go anywhere anymore with out something being brought up and it is kind of affecting my emotional/mental state. I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again. This blog is a safe haven for anyone who wants to avoid all of this stuff thats going on and just focus on loving each other, supporting one another, and building each other up so we can become better people. We don’t need to be divided like this. What we need, especially in times like right now, is to come together.

I have cured my soul long enough to rip it all in parts over again when the remedy I believe that would put me into comfort suddenly shifted into a wall that hinders me to discover the outside, viewing alfresco. And I’m sick of seeing the world in broken mirrors I clandestinely keep in my abandoned room where I usually weep. I have spent years in my imagined prison for the thought of getting rid of my worries was the only way for a life I love to live. Engulfed by all points when the universe hit me with a sturdy rock, I don’t think I can love more than the gentle piece that have patiently waited for me to be whole by myself, with the valid and the unfounded.

anonymous asked:

Stop feeding the hate with reblogs. I like Toni's writing but she's bringing this on herself giving the anon what they want. I'm sick of seeing this shit on my dash.

K then don’t follow us, or start blacklisting. Don’t tell me what not to do on my blog.

stop gaslighting minorities into thinking the hatred against them is “just an opinion”, stop gaslighting minorities into thinking the hatred against them is “using freedom of speech”, stop gaslighting minorities into thinking the hatred against them is “nothing to protest over”,, stop trying to validate blatant racism as something everyone should have the right to resort to 

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