Intuitively you know the answer to processing things better is to see the gratitude in everything!
It takes time but once a day if you choose to see the good side to a situation, you will be a changed person in a few months from now.
Sometimes, you do things and you do them not because you’re thinking but because you’re feeling. Because you’re feeling too much. And you can’t always control the things you do when you’re feeling too much.
it must have been a trip for Adam when he first met Gansey because this untouchable rich kid immediately unloads everything about his alternate life as a tomb raider trying to unearth the centuries-old mystery of Glendower and Adam is just, “sounds fake but i’m literally so starved of human interaction that i will now follow you to the ends of the earth in search of your super lost and super dead king”
why do we breathe air? because we love air? because we don’t want to s u f f o c a t e. why do we eat? because we don’t want tos t a r v e. how do i know i love her? because i can sleep after i talk to her.