anonymous asked:

Sea fam. I need advice. I really want to cosplay Harley Quinn at comic con next year. I'm afab but ftm. Pre t pre top surgery and I'm quite "busty" so why not?But I'm worried my partner and family won't seen my gender as valid bcoz of it what 2 do?

This is M.O.D. He’s  in the same situation as you.

This is also M.O.D. Remember that this is a costume. You could be a cis male and wear a Madoka Magica outfit, you’re still a male. It’s the same for you. Just because you wear some “female” clothing sometimes doesn’t erase your identity.