Whenever people ask about my ex (primarily our mutual friends), they always say shit like “Well is he REALLY bad enough for you to be calling him crazy? Or were YOU the problem?” Well I mean, he DID threaten my family that they’d never seen me again because he wanted me to stay in Chicago at one point, and he WAS the reason why I had to deactivate my FB and make a new page because he wouldn’t stop harassing me. Among other really scary things he did to me and my friends/family. So idk dude, I’m pretty sure crazy’s actually an understatement because he’s clearly a fucking sociopath, but I’ll say crazy to lessen that blow. :-)
Are you and Kelly friends? Or More? How'd you meet?
she’s my goddamn soul mate and i love her the most and how we met was she worked over in the US in 2014 at Disney World and we both ended up posting on this FB page and I commented on her pic and ended up adding her cause I think I saw that she worked at disney and was like oh ill add her and maybe we will meet up one day at a con or something idk but we got on to chatting and she told me shes on the ICP with disney and we talked about anime and she and I met up like a week later to start working on our Saint Young Men cosplay and she showed me the greatness of T&B and I showed her the greatness of The Hobbit! And our friendship grew from there, we’d hang out like 1-3 times a week since we lived really close, then I moved a bit farther away and we didn’t get to hang as much but ye, we spent basically 11 months together and then she had to fly back home and we watched the last hobbit and cried our eyes out and then i dropped her off at the airport right after the movie and she was crying and asked that I didn’t forget her and I was so sad and she was so sad cause omg i love her so much and she told me to come to AU and I’m like “haha yeah when i win the lottery” and never thought I’d ACTUALLY go cause, thats like a dream of mine. But I worked my ass off for it and bought my ticket to Gold coast and we went to cons as Fili and Kili <3333 and then Hobbiton and aaa then i came home and she and I did get to see each other till about two years later almost! Now we are back chillin again at SDCC <3 something we;ve always wanted to do, and even beter ewe get to do it together<3333
Okay while I’m at it (i mean talking abt my art policy w someone laughs)
I would like to share this thing happened to me from months ago.
Something I rlly have to tell to all my followers or people who visit my page.
To begin with, I’m a really flexible kind of artist regarding my own art’s policies.
Use as icon? Use it. Use as header? Use it. Repost? Redraw? Trace? Reference? Yep, totally don’t mind, go ahead. I see those stuff as ways to appreciate my art, instead i would like laughs at it and “wow why would you like my ugly art cries, thanks tho.”
There is only one thing I ask from you all, “a credit”, yep, a link back to my tumblr. Or my twitter, or my name, just anything.
Because all I want is “respect and honesty” alright, you don’t need to ask my permission, but if you respect me & my art you surely would at least write down my name on the caption right?
Lol i became too sappy im sorry.
And well so, it’s not rare, but not often either for me to saw my art getting reposted. But this one particular haikyuu page in fb reposted my art without a credit to me. I wouldnt tell which art and which page bcs i don’t want problems. Please don’t look it up either i beg you.
Ok so, ofc my friend is like “haru isn’t this your art?” So I’m like “oh yes it is”
So i went to the page, and comment, kindly and politely, to put my link to tumblr on the caption. Thought, honestly, i wouldnt mind if they don’t do it either bcs if you see the comment section, the link is there, right there.
But this page, instead of choosing to just ignore the comment, which is already quite rude, choose to delete my comment.
My friends are like “whoa wtf, do u need a hand” but I’m too tired of shits already so I’m like “nah it’s cool.”
Ok, so, I’m no big artist, and I’m totally cool with this kind of thing. But it’s rlly unrespectful to the artist to do this kind of thing man. If you can’t support the artist by buying their stuff, commissing them, well excuse u, at least pls support them by respecting them.
To the admin of that page, i forgive you but please don’t do it anymore cries.
I’m sorry for rambling too much, i just feel like i need to make this post so some ppl would know all i want is my name written on the caption
Here have a KageHina :’) i haven’t been drawing so much lately cries //rolls away
I can’t believe I have to clarify this, but just so everybody knows:
We fight against injustice, not because those affected have done us favors or endorsed our values, but BECAUSE IT IS WRONG.
If a specific individual makes statements with which you disagree, then you’re absolutely within yours rights to comment on their words. If solidarity not being extended to you is hurtful, I utterly and completely understand how you feel. But we cannot make assumptions about people’s beliefs or turn the protesting of dangerous policies into something that is solely an act of reciprocation. That only leads to division oppression, and that is not a path we can afford to take.
Since I am now day 3 into this sinus infection (feeling much better though, and thanks for the sweet well wishes), I have been tumbling around here, and other sites when some interesting thoughts hit my congested head!
It appears that “some people” are doing all they can to throw shade at all of the fun and positive things we are seeing from our dreamy duo. And don’t you really wonder why that is?? It made me think of a saying my Dad used to say to us growing up….“never believe anything you hear, and only half of what you see”. In my drug induced state…this made me a little mindful of what we “don’t” see. Take away ALL of the press, PR, OL, con, interviews, etc…and what do you have?? Well let’s count, shall we??
1-BTS pics from S2 with a very cozy S/C, complete with water bottles and *gasp* kissing!! Quick, get the spray gun!!
2-Last years GG’S with the arm around Cait, the intense gazing off camera, and let’s not forget…pizza in the room at 4am. Who knew??
3-2016 time travel gaps. Where do we begin?? Well, we know Cait was in Cannes, while a surly Sam stayed home. But, then came Wimbledon, while Sam was “off the grid”, only to learn later that he too was in London for the Barbour photo shoot. And let’s not forget the bonny Prince himself tweeting Sam to “enjoy the tennis”. We then had random pics if Cait’s “holiday ”…Ireland, Portugal, Italy… while Sam was being papped on the streets of NY, and even a “placed pic” in Montreal, then off the grid himself. My thought here….Sam did all that, only to join Cait on said holiday, and they spent the summer together. Just follow the “shoe” in the shadow!
4-Fast forward to filming time, and we get Cait’s birthday, and the traveling forehead. There is absolutely no way in hell that Sam was not there with her…..none, period, fini!!
5- Ahhh, the Bafta’s. Initially a little shocker, but probably the best thing to happen to us in a very long time, and why, you might ask??..that backstage shot of Sam and Cait. Case closed.
6- Christmas and New Years- We all saw pics, tweets and a host of innuendo, but my assessment?? Sam went to Amsterdam for the obligigatory narrative, had dinner with friends, and flew to LA to see Cait, and have the “fireside chat” meeting that sparked his January 4th IG post, and now here we are. ECCC video, PCA video, FB Q&A, and once again, cosy bts pics. And my freaking favorite?? T2 premier. Talk about getting jiggly with it?!? Sam and Cait OWNED that space for all the world to see!
I am sure that I have missed many other important events in between, but the point of my drivel is quite simple. We no longer need to “prove” they are together, in any capacity. IMO, they are co-workers, friends , lovers, and if I am really going down the rabbit hole, married as well. And the sheer joy and happiness they have exhibited for the past month tells me that they have been (under some freaky circumstances) and are now living their lives their way. The complete lack of response from Sam and Cait when “others” have tried to piss on the current love parade should be celebrated. If they can ignore and live it, then so should we.
So, let the SamCait flag fly! And everytime someone swerves into our lane with a “why”…our response should be why not? Just keep looking at what we don’t see. It is all there, and they are slowly raising the curtain! As @mama-tumblz so eloquently stated…these are desperate times for some, but not us!
Happy Thursday Tumblerinias! I am off to see if Cait is using Sam’s “pole” today! (I will NEVER get over that one from flocklander)!😘😍😂😂😂
Hi there! I just saw your post about your old professor FB post, and my friend doesn't get it. Could you help me explain to her how it is?
So, in the situation, a technician at the eye doctor’s is asking my prof (let’s call him Green) about his health. If you don’t ask someone about their allergies, you don’t know what allergies they have, right? I can’t look at you and say “yep, that person is allergic to eggs.” That would be silly, correct?
However, without asking Green about his mental health they check off “mentally healthy” on the computer. Green asks “how do you know that I’m mentally healthy?”. Without asking, there is no way to tell. But this technician seems to think they can tell, just by looking. They say “no, you’re mentally healthy. It’s not that hard to tell. I can tell just by looking at you.”
It’s a silly presumption, and quite damaging. They’re assuming that ‘mentally healthy’ people look as such and that, by extension, mentally unhealthy people are identifiable with a single look. But that’s silly! Mental health is not something you can just identify by looking at a person ONCE.
Anyway, Green decides to let it go, but the next question asks “what is your occupation(job)?” and he has to say the truth which is “I’m a psychologist.”
It’s literally Green’s job to help people with mental health issues and to study mental health on a whole, and some dude at the eye doctor thinks that they’re somehow qualified to tell who is mentally healthy and who is not by “just looking”.
The Type of Coming Out I Rarely See Portrayed in the Media
So mostly when I see coming out scenes on TV or in shows, it’s usually one of two extremes: “very accepting” or “disowned”.
So seeing these as the only two outcomes as a teen didn’t prepare me for the realities of coming out to my straight family and friends.
My parents still loved me, but one interrogated me to try and find the exact date I realized I was into girls. The other one woke me up in the middle of the night to tell me how much worse my life was going to be since I was a black gay woman. My dad tried to make me doubt my sexuality by saying things like “well, why can’t you just be friends with them? it’s the same thing.” My mom made my sexuality all about her for three years with this delightful phrase “oh, you’re never going to get married and I won’t have any grandchildren” and she would ignore me when I would respond with “I still want to get married and have kids”. Three years later, she finally accepted it when she said, “you really think you’re gay, don’t you?”
The worst part of it was that both my parents had gay friends, so that was equally confusing for me as a gay teen. It wasn’t until I got older when I realized that there are people who are “okay” with gay people existing as long as it isn’t their kids.
And that is only a small portion of what the media fails to show. Microaggressions that are invisible to everybody else because as long as your friends and family didn’t abandon you everyone seems to think that’s all it takes to be supportive.
My friends reacted in a various amount of ways. I decided to tell m acquaintances first and make my way to my closest friends. It worked until I told my best guy friend who then told most of our friends, and then my close friends were mad at me for not telling them first and the fact that I lied to them about it every time they asked me. Pretty much it spread through school faster than I anticipated, and I was frustrated that I wasn’t able to tell my closest friends directly. But no, I had to explain myself to them and answer the question “did you ever have a crush on any of us”.
When I got older, my tolerance for the double standard bullshit went away. I had these two friends I would hang out and we would always talk about dating and sex stuff, but one day I wanted to talk about a woman I liked, and my friend straight up said “I don’t want to hear about that” and then she went right on to talking about how she gave a guy a blowjob in the backseat of the car. When I complained to my dad, he accused me of injecting too much gay into the conversation even when I pointed out that I wasn’t allowed to talk about a crush but my friend could talk about her sex life. (Years later, he finally understood when he saw his gay coworker using gender neutral pronouns when referring to his partner around other people but feeling perfectly fine using “he/him” pronouns in front of my dad. His exact words were, “I had no idea how much self-editing you and other gay people do when you talk.”)
Then those same two friends refused to go any gay clubs with me but then expected me to always want to go to straight clubs with them, so they just stopped inviting me. Well, once they talked about going to a club without me and with some other girl in a FB group conversation that I was in. The same friends who weren’t than interested in me talking about woman accused me of pulling away from them or shutting down whenever they talked about men. It never even occurred to them that I was hurt because they isolated me.
I no longer speak to or talk to either one. I have them as FB friends, but we do not chat at all, and I’m fine with that.
One of my other close friends tried the “well, if you want to have sex with a strap-on it’s basically the same thing”. My response was, “I want boobs attached to the strap-on, not a ball sac”. She got the point, and I was rewarded with laughter because my response was fucking funny.
And the whole time I was going through this, I kept telling myself that I was lucky because my friends and family still loved me, even though it still felt awful. I thought it was okay because I hadn’t been disowned or shunned. I didn’t realize there’s a whole middle section where people are ignorant and “accepting” at the same time.
Speaking of KH I’ve noticed that my deer Sora art has been floating around again! Probably due to the new KH trailer. Normally I’d just smile whenever someone reblogs it and not make a big deal about it but lately it’s been with that “dramatic scene where goofy gets shot by a hunter” comment and just…
I’ll have you guys know that I did draw that scenario after getting that comment (both are like a year old by the way) and it was horrible. You guys don’t want to know what it looks like.
HOWEVER, around the same time, I did draw Sora getting shot by a hunter instead and that was ok. :’)
saw this and thought of yoonmin: "prompt: my best friend changed my profession on facebook to sugar baby and I didn’t realise and u just messaged me asking if im looking for a daddy" - @trash-by-vouge
college au where jimin’s bff tae hacks into his fb whenever he’s mad at him and one morning after they’d argued last night jimin wakes up to a message from min yoongi, this super hot, broody older student he’s seen around campus who he absolutely is NOT crushing on, greeting him with ‘hey baby boy’ and asking if he’s looking for a daddy
meanwhile yoongi’s drunk and bored at a party being thrown by one of his best friends and whilst he’s sulking in the corner on his phone, hobi, who’s absolutely thrashed, snatches it away from him to see that he’s lurking on some cute younger student’s fb page and ‘oh a sugar baby, huh? i’ll message him for you hyung, don’t worry about it!’
Some of you might know, but I won a free psychic coaching! It was wonderful. My working life got lot of light and a clearer direction, and I definitely know what I want to do. I might join her 3 month’s course to shed light better on my working life, as her fee was very low for such a long, personal coaching.
Something strange happened during the reading, though! She said she saw me working in a completely white room, taking some measurements, perhaps making crafts, and there’s a man with white skin and black hair, too. I told I don’t know anyone like that and assumed it might be my spirit guide Ian, but she said this is a living person. I took it as a sign of future; when the time is right, I’ll be working with this dark haired, pale skinned man.
The psychic went to see my Facebook profile (we handled the reading in FB, bc she lives in US). Then she LITERALLY starts to scream “There he is! The man! He’s on your FB page!”
I’m utterly baffled, asking where, what’s his name (as I think she means some of my Japanese friends). She keeps saying “Here, here! On your header pic! That’s the man I saw! It’s him! Who is he?”
And I have an official FF-painting with Noctis as my header.
She really didn’t want to believe that he wasn’t a real, flesh-and-blood man. “I saw him, I saw him, he’s the one in the white room with you.”
We came into a conclusion that he’s one of the guides, which isn’t anything unusual from my experience. I’ve noticed our fave characters always teach us something and show us the way to better. I need to figure out what’s Noct about and how he’s related to my work life.
anyone else saw the pics of even with the balloon squad when yousef’s fb profile was made available and thought “damn he might have had a fallout with his bakka friends, but that’s something i’ll deal with another day” and then when the latest hei briskeby vid was released and you thought “damn there really was a fallout, probably even is upset about it, but i’m not gonna react until i see it with my own eyes” and just like julie can read your mind or something she goes and drops “snakket ikke om han” and even is just looking so sad but still so happy to hear news about his old friends and you suddenly realize how real it all was and how bad it is for him
I just saw a post on my fb feed from a friend about MaDD. Well… not really about MaDD but like one of those posts that’s clearly a screenshot of a tumblr post. It’s the one about long car rides and how “normal people” find them boring but “maladaptive daydreamers” enjoy them immensely. Now, idk if this friend of mine actually has MaDD or not, I don’t know her that well. She is a writer, and enjoys fiction very much, but that’s not enough for me to know….
Regardless, I didn’t want to let it slip by and say nothing, because posts like those get spread around and that’s how people start thinking they have MaDD when they really, REALLY don’t. So I left a neutral comment, saying that daydreaming on long car rides is pretty normal and not exclusively a symptom of MaDD, while also offering the alternative label of neuronarrator for anyone who daydreams intensely without any maladaptive symptoms. I tried to be polite as possible so I hope it goes well. Who knows, she might not even respond, but at least I tried…
day I could not express my sadness in words. My throat feels like
choked a days. This morning FB world told me that my friend has died.
How is it even possible, I saw her only 5 days ago in the festival and
we had alots Beautiful conversations and laughs. I can
not believe her physical body left this world!! I don’t wanna believe
it. I hope I will wake up tomorrow morning FB world tell me it was not
true….Pls pls pls…. She is too young!!! She told that got a ticket
to India. She loved #yoga so used to talk a lots of yoga stuff that’s how we connected first place.
I still remember her Beautiful blue glitterery eyes, warm welcoming
smile. She were one those people that i could talk hours and hours. True
sisterhood we have had and we will forever have. I
love you Jasmine You hear me I love you Angel 💜💜💜 I miss you I miss
you …….. Pic Beautiful sister Alexia and I are washing ourselves in
Great White lake in Mongolia. I love you Alexia so grateful our
connection and friendship.
Now we should all tell our friends and family how much we love them coz any life is fragile and impermenant in this realm~~~
I can’t share this on my FB/Twitter/IG yet, but I’m so flipping excited from this I need to share!! My friend is having a Harry Potter themed birthday in NYC next month (which happens to be my bday weekend too!), and I saw this cool Etsy store for a customized HP shirt!! You pick your house, Quidditch position, name, and your favorite number, and they make the shirt to your order! I was so excited over the ones I made her and @some-guys-schlong, I made one for myself!!! I can’t wait to wear it soon and share this awesomeness!!!
Different anon but straight girls are annoying. I changed my profile picture j have short hair & wearing a flannel shirt, I'm hella bi but I'm not out. My friend who's also bi calls me attractive and this straight girl sees this on fb and messages my best mates saying 'hey is she a lesbian?' Like this straight girl hasn't talked to us for a year but she saw me with short hair and saw another girl calling me cute & lost her shit. While she kisses her female friends but no homo.
I’m like super happy in this moment right now for some reason. like euphoric almost. and then I saw on fb that my friend got married today! :D I’m so happy for her. seeing that just made me feel even more cheerful. I’m so happy for everyone right now.