saw this on my friend's fb

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Okay while I’m at it (i mean talking abt my art policy w someone laughs)
I would like to share this thing happened to me from months ago.
Something I rlly have to tell to all my followers or people who visit my page.

To begin with, I’m a really flexible kind of artist regarding my own art’s policies.

Use as icon? Use it. Use as header? Use it. Repost? Redraw? Trace? Reference? Yep, totally don’t mind, go ahead. I see those stuff as ways to appreciate my art, instead i would like laughs at it and “wow why would you like my ugly art cries, thanks tho.”
There is only one thing I ask from you all, “a credit”, yep, a link back to my tumblr. Or my twitter, or my name, just anything.

Because all I want is “respect and honesty” alright, you don’t need to ask my permission, but if you respect me & my art you surely would at least write down my name on the caption right?

Lol i became too sappy im sorry.
And well so, it’s not rare, but not often either for me to saw my art getting reposted. But this one particular haikyuu page in fb reposted my art without a credit to me. I wouldnt tell which art and which page bcs i don’t want problems. Please don’t look it up either i beg you.

Ok so, ofc my friend is like “haru isn’t this your art?” So I’m like “oh yes it is”
So i went to the page, and comment, kindly and politely, to put my link to tumblr on the caption. Thought, honestly, i wouldnt mind if they don’t do it either bcs if you see the comment section, the link is there, right there.
But this page, instead of choosing to just ignore the comment, which is already quite rude, choose to delete my comment.
My friends are like “whoa wtf, do u need a hand” but I’m too tired of shits already so I’m like “nah it’s cool.”

Ok, so, I’m no big artist, and I’m totally cool with this kind of thing. But it’s rlly unrespectful to the artist to do this kind of thing man. If you can’t support the artist by buying their stuff, commissing them, well excuse u, at least pls support them by respecting them.

To the admin of that page, i forgive you but please don’t do it anymore cries.

I’m sorry for rambling too much, i just feel like i need to make this post so some ppl would know all i want is my name written on the caption
Here have a KageHina :’) i haven’t been drawing so much lately cries //rolls away

I have seen way too many posts all over social media from so-called leftists essentially throwing Muslims on the bus in the name of other causes. Between the radical feminist on my friend’s FB wall who said Islam was not compatible with feminism, the white lefty atheist who derailed my friends post about intersectionality for Jewish people in order to pin all antisemitism on Muslims, and the tweets I saw basically saying “meh, who cares” about the Muslim ban, because Arabs didn’t show up enough for Black Lives Matter, I’m just about to tear my hair out. 

I can’t believe I have to clarify this, but just so everybody knows:

We fight against injustice, not because those affected have done us favors or endorsed our values, but BECAUSE IT IS WRONG.

If a specific individual makes statements with which you disagree, then you’re absolutely within yours rights to comment on their words. If solidarity not being extended to you is hurtful, I utterly and completely understand how you feel. But we cannot make assumptions about people’s beliefs or turn the protesting of dangerous policies into something that is solely an act of reciprocation. That only leads to division oppression, and that is not a path we can afford to take.

TUMBLING TUMBLEWEEDS.........

Since I am now day 3 into this sinus infection (feeling much better though, and thanks for the sweet well wishes), I have been tumbling around here, and other sites when some interesting thoughts hit my congested head!

It appears that “some people” are doing all they can to throw shade at all of the fun and positive things we are seeing from our dreamy duo. And don’t you really wonder why that is?? It made me think of a saying my Dad used to say to us growing up….“never believe anything you hear, and only half of what you see”. In my drug induced state…this made me a little mindful of what we “don’t” see. Take away ALL of the press, PR, OL, con, interviews, etc…and what do you have?? Well let’s count, shall we??

1-BTS pics from S2 with a very cozy S/C, complete with water bottles and *gasp* kissing!! Quick, get the spray gun!!

2-Last years GG’S with the arm around Cait, the intense gazing off camera, and let’s not forget…pizza in the room at 4am. Who knew??

3-2016 time travel gaps. Where do we begin?? Well, we know Cait was in Cannes, while a surly Sam stayed home. But, then came Wimbledon, while Sam was “off the grid”, only to learn later that he too was in London for the Barbour photo shoot. And let’s not forget the bonny Prince himself tweeting Sam to “enjoy the tennis”. We then had random pics if Cait’s “holiday ”…Ireland, Portugal, Italy… while Sam was being papped on the streets of NY, and even a “placed pic” in Montreal, then off the grid himself. My thought here….Sam did all that, only to join Cait on said holiday, and they spent the summer together. Just follow the “shoe” in the shadow!

4-Fast forward to filming time, and we get Cait’s birthday, and the traveling forehead. There is absolutely no way in hell that Sam was not there with her…..none, period, fini!!

5- Ahhh, the Bafta’s. Initially a little shocker, but probably the best thing to happen to us in a very long time, and why, you might ask??..that backstage shot of Sam and Cait. Case closed.

6- Christmas and New Years- We all saw pics, tweets and a host of innuendo, but my assessment?? Sam went to Amsterdam for the obligigatory narrative, had dinner with friends, and flew to LA to see Cait, and have the “fireside chat” meeting that sparked his January 4th IG post, and now here we are. ECCC video, PCA video, FB Q&A, and once again, cosy bts pics. And my freaking favorite?? T2 premier. Talk about getting jiggly with it?!? Sam and Cait OWNED that space for all the world to see!

I am sure that I have missed many other important events in between, but the point of my drivel is quite simple. We no longer need to “prove” they are together, in any capacity. IMO, they are co-workers, friends , lovers, and if I am really going down the rabbit hole, married as well. And the sheer joy and happiness they have exhibited for the past month tells me that they have been (under some freaky circumstances) and are now living their lives their way. The complete lack of response from Sam and Cait when “others” have tried to piss on the current love parade should be celebrated. If they can ignore and live it, then so should we.

So, let the SamCait flag fly! And everytime someone swerves into our lane with a “why”…our response should be why not? Just keep looking at what we don’t see. It is all there, and they are slowly raising the curtain! As @mama-tumblz so eloquently stated…these are desperate times for some, but not us!

Happy Thursday Tumblerinias! I am off to see if Cait is using Sam’s “pole” today! (I will NEVER get over that one from flocklander)!😘😍😂😂😂

The Type of Coming Out I Rarely See Portrayed in the Media

So mostly when I see coming out scenes on TV or in shows, it’s usually one of two extremes: “very accepting” or “disowned”.

So seeing these as the only two outcomes as a teen didn’t prepare me for the realities of coming out to my straight family and friends.

My parents still loved me, but one interrogated me to try and find the exact date I realized I was into girls.  The other one woke me up in the middle of the night to tell me how much worse my life was going to be since I was a black gay woman.  My dad tried to make me doubt my sexuality by saying things like “well, why can’t you just be friends with them? it’s the same thing.” My mom made my sexuality all about her for three years with this delightful phrase “oh, you’re never going to get married and I won’t have any grandchildren” and she would ignore me when I would respond with “I still want to get married and have kids”.  Three years later, she finally accepted it when she said, “you really think you’re gay, don’t you?”

The worst part of it was that both my parents had gay friends, so that was equally confusing for me as a gay teen.  It wasn’t until I got older when I realized that there are people who are “okay” with gay people existing as long as it isn’t their kids.

And that is only a small portion of what the media fails to show.  Microaggressions that are invisible to everybody else because as long as your friends and family didn’t abandon you everyone seems to think that’s all it takes to be supportive.

My friends reacted in a various amount of ways.  I decided to tell m acquaintances first and make my way to my closest friends.  It worked until I told my best guy friend who then told most of our friends, and then my close friends were mad at me for not telling them first and the fact that I lied to them about it every time they asked me.  Pretty much it spread through school faster than I anticipated, and I was frustrated that I wasn’t able to tell my closest friends directly.  But no, I had to explain myself to them and answer the question “did you ever have a crush on any of us”.

When I got older, my tolerance for the double standard bullshit went away.  I had these two friends I would hang out and we would always talk about dating and sex stuff, but one day I wanted to talk about a woman I liked, and my friend straight up said “I don’t want to hear about that” and then she went right on to talking about how she gave a guy a blowjob in the backseat of the car.  When I complained to my dad, he accused me of injecting too much gay into the conversation even when I pointed out that I wasn’t allowed to talk about a crush but my friend could talk about her sex life.  (Years later, he finally understood when he saw his gay coworker using gender neutral pronouns when referring to his partner around other people but feeling perfectly fine using “he/him” pronouns in front of my dad.  His exact words were, “I had no idea how much self-editing you and other gay people do when you talk.”)

Then those same two friends refused to go any gay clubs with me but then expected me to always want to go to straight clubs with them, so they just stopped inviting me.  Well, once they talked about going to a club without me and with some other girl in a FB group conversation that I was in.  The same friends who weren’t than interested in me talking about woman accused me of pulling away from them or shutting down whenever they talked about men.  It never even occurred to them that I was hurt because they isolated me.

I no longer speak to or talk to either one.  I have them as FB friends, but we do not chat at all, and I’m fine with that.

One of my other close friends tried the “well, if you want to have sex with a strap-on it’s basically the same thing”.  My response was, “I want boobs attached to the strap-on, not a ball sac”. She got the point, and I was rewarded with laughter because my response was fucking funny.

And the whole time I was going through this, I kept telling myself that I was lucky because my friends and family still loved me, even though it still felt awful.  I thought it was okay because I hadn’t been disowned or shunned.  I didn’t realize there’s a whole middle section where people are ignorant and “accepting” at the same time.

I just received a FB Messenger chat from my ex from 12 years ago. We’re still friends on all our social medias, but we just never saw each other or chat for 7 years now.

Anyway.

He just started the message by carrying on with our last chat … from 2010. (”to answer your last message, kudos to you too!”).

And All I can think is :  “ WTF I NEED TO READ A LARRY EX TO LOVERS AU STARTING LIKE THAT”

It’s been actual days since the conversation with her brother before Yousef sent Sana this meme so I like to imagine he saw it a few days ago and wanted to send it to her to cheer her up but he needed the whole weekend to work up the courage likE CAN YOU IMAGINE HE’S JUST SITTING AT HIS COMPUTER STARING AT HER FB PROFILE LIKE okay yousef yes you got this you can send her a friend request it’s okay people friend each other on fb for no reason it’s no big deal BUT HE KEEPS ON CHICKENING OUT BECAUSE WTF SHE’S WAY TOO COOL FOR HIS ASS WHO IS HE TO PRESUME HE CAN JUST MESSAGE HER OUT OF THE BLUE LIKE THAT????? But then he JUST GOES FOR IT BECAUSE CHEERING HER UP IS MORE IMPORTANT I JUST

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I can’t share this on my FB/Twitter/IG yet, but I’m so flipping excited from this I need to share!! My friend is having a Harry Potter themed birthday in NYC next month (which happens to be my bday weekend too!), and I saw this cool Etsy store for a customized HP shirt!! You pick your house, Quidditch position, name, and your favorite number, and they make the shirt to your order! I was so excited over the ones I made her and @some-guys-schlong, I made one for myself!!! I can’t wait to wear it soon and share this awesomeness!!!

TalesFromTheFrontDesk: A tale of lust, infidelity and deception (stolen from a good friend)

Alright, First things first, I stole this from a friend that worked with me at my first property. It is not my story and is pretty much copypasted from her FB, but she doesn’t have reddit and I’m pretty sure you guys will love this.

Some nights I love my job and some nights I hate it. This happens to be one of those preferred nights. Not only does a woman call (on a blocked number) saying that she just drove by and saw her husband’s car in our lot and that he’s here with her boyfriend, but this bitch was stupid enough to tell me that she was going to come and raise hell in my lot. So naturally, I called police to be on standby just in case she was actually stupid enough to show up.

The first officer shows up and I shit you not he says “Okay, so by what the dispatcher said, it sounds like we’ve got some Jerry Springer shit going on up in here. Can you clarify some things for me because the information from the dispatcher was…a little jumbled.” So I tell him what she told me with the equal amount of missing information that would have helped greatly in this situation. “Wow, must be some boyfriend if they both want a piece of him. Maybe we should call Muarry.” The second officer showed up in just enough time to hear this and promptly corrected his pronunciation of the daytime show host. These two have had me in tears for about ten minutes now and I honestly couldn’t be happier with how this night is turning out.

So far, my plan has worked to deter this woman from making a bigger ass out of herself than she already has. You really know how to pick ‘em lady, maybe you guys should just share this wonderboy and carry on with your lives.

By: _Affexion_

A friend of mine who just (re)opened a bar saw my fb post about DJing at freeform and offered me a weekly slot at Tonic Lounge!!!

r u ready for DJ Astareth goth night, Portland?!?!?

B) B) B)

anonymous asked:

omgomg tell me all about the guy ur crushing on !!! did u meet him on tumblr ??????

aAAaaAhhH yes sure thing!!! actually he’s from the same school but different branch??? like our school is a system and there are several branches all over the country??? and i knew him because of my friends who think he is cute!!! so i kinda added him on fb a couple of months ago and u know this notification on messenger when ur newly friends with somebody?? yep, that one!! and apparently he messaged me 2 years ago about our earth science project (bc we’re asked to look for partners from another campus/branch) but i never saw the mssg bc we weren’t friends until that time!!! and then we kinda started chattin and stuff but i highly doubt i matter to him tbh HAHHAHAHA and we’re rlly just kinda friends i guess??? nothing more than that :—( yike!!! sad truth but thats ok!!

kitty9661  asked:

Hi hope you're having a good day! This is something that's bothering me even if it sounds dumb 😳.. I'm like always ignored on FB.. people don't like my posts., pics of me or wtv.. I thought I was friends with them.. no one asks how I'm doing.. I'm always left out.. a friend is pregnant & I saw a pic of the baby shower I wasn't invited.. I would have been happy to go.. yet people over post baby pics & get 100s of likes when it's the same thing over & over! I'm not jealous, feel like they hate me

Friends like that aren’t worth keep around, they are fakes and as u move on with life you will find real mates xx

anonymous asked:

Hello, person with a crush on you here! even though i want you all for myself there's an app called "her" and you can sign in with Facebook or Instagram but they don't post anything on there at all! I like it a lot so far. There's also "just she" which i haven't tried but it doesn't use Facebook! hope this helps!! ps: i have short hair and i saw that you were into that, just wanted to let you know!! 💓💓

Oh gods you are literally the cutest!! Really sweet! Thank you so much, but this her app will show my fb in it? Or if one of my friends have the app it show to me? Why it is connected to my fb? Gods I live in a small town and really don’t need my homophobic part of the family knowing i m using it. But really thank you! Thinking about people actually having crushes on me is so crazy, thank you so much 💕

purplemoonflower  asked:

I first found about about you when I was looking for Heneral Luna fan arts on DeviantArt. After that, I saw your FB posts on my News Feed from friends and I started to follow you, then eventually followed you to Tumblr as well. Great job po! :) You guys make me so happy, really.

(( Oh gosh!!, XD dem hen lunas xDDD Thank you so much for following us here too ! ;u; !!, ))

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For years i have been collecting evidence lol jk. I’m just going to be spamming you with a lot of experiences that occurred to me this past year.

This first one is when i first found out about Dean, i tell you fam i was obsessed. So i began following him on all his social media. Later on i saw his tour video from his youtube page, and found out he had come to chicago. So out of just curiosity i hit him up on the DM, just kidding on FB messanger. Asking when he will be coming again, and i almost died he replied in minutes!~ Fast forward guys we talked for 2 days, but i knew he was busy i only asked simply questions. I wanted to rap it up, with a thoughtful message in Korean. So i asked my Korean guy friend to translate what i ended up writing in English anyways because he gave me the wrong translation saying “i like to eat sh*t“ and more cant remember. Fam let me tell u i was so embarrassed, it wasn’t even about wanting to die, i was dead. I only realized my mistake when i had sent it and reread it, thanks to my limited ability to read and understand Korean. I rarely curse, but this day i cursed him out so bad, ah still makes me angry thinking about it. But the weird thing Dean laughed his so down to earth guys. In conclusion i ended up killing the conversation, but ladies u never know try hiting him up with a relevant question, not a random one lol. Alright will be back later to share with yall 💖💖

KM & BW: Lmao!!! that’s so funny omg, but Dean is so sweet, you’re so lucky!!

there was supposed to be a color my college type thing at ecu over fall break but they changed the date bc of hurricane matthew and the flooding and it was TODAY and the person i was gonna do it with couldn’t do it bc of an orchestra concert so i was like well shit so i completely forgot until i got on FB and saw my old roommates’ pics from a color run and i was like “hey that looks like it would’ve been fun” and then i was like “SHIT I PAID MONEY TO DO THAT COLOR RUN” but i didn’t know they were doing it (or if they even still like me) so even if i DID remember it was today i would have had a whole emotional ordeal about doing a thing in public by myself so who knows if i would have gone anyway?

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Aaron Tveit (with Michael Greif ) at The Music Box Theatre for the Premier of Dear Evan Hansen
Sunday, December 4, 2016

📸: My Screen Shots of Broadway World’s Live FB video feed!

cuzicu replied to your post “wait ok I i saw an ask about school tomorrow and i s2g my math teacher…”

Ok in general i agree but my 8-10th grade maths teacher was the coolest dude ever (very wierd and got in trouble with the pta a lot for his “methods”) it was sort of accidental that he became a teacher in the first place but man i miss that guy im still friends with him on fb and he’s wild

you’ve been luckier than me tbh

oh wait i had an okay one of my first year of middle school but all my other teachers were awful (except the English one as well) so i kinda always forget this year rip

I don’t know why being single is seen as such a terrible bad shameful thing, like, the implication is that you’re somehow not good enough, or to be pitied, or whatever… no. Just no. I’m plenty good enough. The reason why I’m single is that I haven’t met anyone yet who’s good enough for me.

If all I wanted was a boyfriend, I could have that. Pretty easily. It’s not like there aren’t guys around who’d want me. But it’s not about what they want, it’s about what I want. And I’m not going to settle for a compromise just because of some ridiculous social expectation. I don’t need a boyfriend or “other half”, I’m a complete person all by myself. So unless someone comes along who actually manages to impress me, I’m going to stay solo.

I don’t see what’s so terrible about that.