anonymous asked:

hey! I've been questioning for a while and now i see theres a convo about it so i thought i'd ask but for me im not sure if im ace or if I've just learned to accept that im not really attractive enough for anyone to want me. & i don't mean that people are ace bc they aren't wanted or whatever at all but for me idk if i'm genuinely not attracted to people or if i've just learned to live with and accept that no one wants me and i've closed myself off from that part of my brain. any advice lol

I mean I feel you so hard. Sometimes I still poke at that corner of my brain and think ‘is it or isn’t it’?

Ok but hey let’s talk about it.

Let’s start with aesthetic attraction. Do you think someone is good-looking? That’s aesthetic. For allosexuals, this is usually intricately intertwined sexual attraction. They look at someone, think they look good, and think ‘wow I’d fuck that’. Straight women generally have a better understand the sexless version of aesthetic because society doesn’t look down on them if they see another woman and think ‘wow she’s pretty’ without wanting to have sex with her. Another way of thinking about this is looking at a painting. Does it look good? That’s aesthetic attraction. You don’t want to fuck the painting, I hope. 
Aesthetic attraction for allosexuals (and some asexuals) is also intertwined with romantic and sensual attraction. What are those, you ask? 


Sensual attraction? Think about your favorite, fuzzy, blanket, and being cuddled up in it. Now think about hugs you give your friends. Do they feel like that fuzzy blanket? Yes? That’s sensual attraction. It’s a desire to have non-sexual touch with people. America in particular is pretty bad about that because we over-sexualize everything so it’s hard to pull apart sexual and sensual attraction. (And the word sensual just sounds sexual). Basically, it’s platonic puppy piles on the couch, watching a movie, making your soul feel happy.

Romantic attraction! This one is easier to explain. Do you want to date this person? It has nothing to do with sex. Do you want to go on moonlit walks with them? Make dinners with them? Grow old together? Get married? Go to prom? Get sappy on anniversaries? That is romantic attraction?

You can be asexual and experience any and all three of these attractions.

Sexual attraction is when you look at someone and think ‘wow, I want to fuck that’. 

Now if you’ve never looked at someone and truly felt that tug in your belly or gotten a hard on from looking at someone and thought ‘damn i wanna do the nasty with them’ then, yeah, you’re probably asexual. If you’ve looked at someone and only after many, many conversations and becoming friends did the sexual attraction creep up on you, then you’re probably demisexual.

I can’t obviously jump into your head and be like ‘mhm, mhm, ticked off all these boxes, this person is ace!’. Only you can decide that. It took a while for me to get there. A lot of reading. It’s okay.

PS all my stuff came from AVEN

Mytic messenger first year anniversary

Warning: Spoilers of the anniversary chats, Sappy.

Note: I haven’t gotten ALL of the anniversary chats, so this is just based on the ones I have gotten.

It’s the one year anniversary since You have joined and the RFA decide to throw a party for just you all to celebrate. 

Unfortunately, no could stop Jumin from buying a building for the occasion. 

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Daria Episode Asks
  • Season 1:
  • Esteemsters: How's your self-esteem?
  • The Invitation: What's the last party you went to?
  • College Bored: What are your college plans?
  • Café Disaffecto: How do you take your coffee?
  • Malled: Describe an unpleasant experience you had at a mall.
  • This Year's Model: What's your opinion about the modeling industry?
  • The Lab Brat: Describe the worst group project you ever participated in.
  • Pinch Sitter: Describe your last babysitting experience.
  • Too Cute: Are looks important to you?
  • The Big House: Have you ever sneaked out or stayed out way too late?
  • Road Worrier: Talk about your favorite road trip.
  • The Teachings of Don Jake: Talk about a camping trip you've been on.
  • The Misery Chick: What really makes you think?
  • Season 2:
  • Arts 'N Crass: Did you ever scare your teachers with something you turned in?
  • The Daria Hunter: Describe your worst field trip ever.
  • Quinn the Brain: How do you feel when someone takes your "role"?
  • I Don't: Describe your worst experience at a wedding.
  • That Was Then, This is Dumb: How do you feel about your parents' friends?
  • Monster: What's something that you think is superficial?
  • The New Kid: Have you ever hung out with the new kid?
  • Gifted: Were you ever the smartest kid in school?
  • Ill: Talk about a time you were in the hospital.
  • Fair Enough: Have you ever been to a school fundraiser?
  • See Jane Run: Were/are you on any sports teams?
  • Pierce Me: Do you have any piercings?
  • Write Where it Hurts: Are you a writer?
  • Season 3:
  • Through a Lens Darkly: Do you need glasses/contacts?
  • The Old and the Beautiful: Who's your favorite old person?
  • Depth Takes a Holiday: Describe your favorite holiday memory.
  • Daria Dance Party: Have you ever been to a dance?
  • The Lost Girls: Are you "edgy"?
  • It Happened One Nut: What was your first job? What's your dream job?
  • Daria! The Musical: What's your favorite musical?
  • Lane Miserables: How is it for you when family visits?
  • Jake of Hearts: When did you first come to terms with your own or someone else's mortality?
  • Speedtrapped: Do you have a bad driving story? (What is it?)
  • The Lawndale File: Do you believe in aliens?
  • Just Add Water: Have you ever been on a boat?
  • Jane's Addition: How did you meet your last significant other?
  • Season 4:
  • Partner's Complaint: Have you ever used your resources to gain an advantage?
  • Antisocial Climbers: What does it take for you to apologize to your friends?
  • A Tree Grows in Lawndale: Talk about a bad decision you've made.
  • Murder, She Snored: What's the weirdest dream you've ever had?
  • The F Word: Are you afraid of failure?
  • I Loathe a Parade: How do you feel about parades?
  • Of Human Bonding: How's your relationship with your parents?
  • Psycho Therapy: Have you ever needed a psychological examination?
  • Mart of Darkness: What's your weirdest experience in a store?
  • Legends of the Mall: Do you know any good ghost stories? Care to share?
  • Groped by an Angel: What do you believe in?
  • Fire!: Have you ever had a house fire?
  • Dye! Dye! My Darling!: Have you ever cheated on someone or been the person someone's cheated with?
  • Is it Fall Yet?: Talk about your favorite summer.
  • Season 5:
  • Fizz Ed: What's your favorite soda?
  • Sappy Anniversary: Have you ever forgotten an important date?
  • Fat Like Me: Have you ever tried to lose weight?
  • Camp Fear: How well do you handle organized activities?
  • The Story of D: How well do you deal with rejection?
  • Lucky Strike: Talk about your favorite substitute teacher.
  • Art Burn: How much do you value originality?
  • One J at a Time: Do you date around, prefer a single partner, or neither?
  • Life in the Past Lane: What's the weirdest experience you've had with someone you've dated?
  • Aunt Nauseam: Do you get along with your extended family?
  • Prize Fighters: Have you ever been passed over for something for something you wanted because of a reason you found to be ridiculous?
  • My Night at Daria's: Have you ever stayed out too late with a significant other?
  • Boxing Daria: What's a childhood memory that shaped who you are today?
  • Is It College Yet?: What are your plans for the future?

On this day in 2016, one year ago to this very day, a beautiful and fantabulous creation was born; Breezango!!! 🎊🎉 Breezy and Dango have been such an incredible tag team over the last 12 months. They’ve brought us all so much joy, and getting to witness their growth as a team has been a privilege. Their chemistry has been on fire from the moment that they first put a beating to the Golden Truth. Their teamwork in the ring has improved tremendously, they just work so cohesively as a unit. They’ve faced some tough obstacles and setbacks, but have overcome them all. They’ve proven a lot of doubters wrong, they’ve shown their worth and their talent, in the ring and out. And more importantly, they’ve worked their asses off to become number one contenders for the tag team titles. This last year has been amazing, but if they can win those tag team titles at Backlash, it will be the pinnacle of everything they’ve achieved together. I am so so proud of them both and anxiously excited for their match against the Usos. I sincerely hope they capture the tag team titles, cause nobody else deserves it more right now. Thank you Breezango for being you, and thank you for everything you’ve given us so far. Go capture those titles, you beautiful bastards!! 💙💙💙

SufficientlyBBC Life: Anniversary Edition

It’s time for me to be extremely sappy:

Happy anniversary, @sufficientlylargen! You’re the best partner anyone could ever ask for, and nothing I could say or quote could do justice to how much you mean to me.

Thanks for seven wonderful years of marriage, for fifteen (!!!!) glorious years of being together, and for all the years to come.

I love you! <3 <3 

anonymous asked:



Who asks the other on dates: Sappy
Who is the bigger cuddler: Honey
Who initiates holding hands more often: Sappy
Who remembers anniversaries: Maybe both???
Who is more possessive: Both
Who gets more jealous: Both
Who is more protective: Honey
Who is more likely to cheat: Neither
Who initiates sexy times the most: I don’t think they both know what is sexy time?
Who kills the spider: Sappy (He’ll stab the fuccer)
Who asks the the other to marry them: Both? 
Who buys the other flowers or gifts:Both
Who would bring up possibly having kids:neither? 
Who is more nervous to meet the parents Siblings: Honey ( he got nervous meeting Kinky for the first time since he popped out of now where xD)
Who sleeps on the couch when the other is angry: Honey??
Who tries to make up first after arguments: Sappy or Honey
Who tells the other they love them more often: Both :’)

//their both lil pyscho beans :’)

spicedupdruid  asked:

vaxlan 11-15 18 23-25

11. Do they celebrate holidays? Anniversaries?

Just the usual holidays, like Winter’s crest and the like. These ridiculous sappy boys? Celebrating anniversaries? But of course they do, and they are the sappiest saps about it to. Scanlan always does some really over the top romantic gesture, while Vax does something that’s relalt nostalgic and sentimental and always nearly brings Scanlan to tears.

12. Is there a wedding? What was the proposal like? Any kind of honeymoon?

There was a wedding, but it wasn’t exactly the most conventional. It was a really small, spur of the moment thing, in that they were both drunk off their asses after one them nearly died in battle and just mutually agreed ‘yes, let us get married now before one of us actually dies’. They went to the Raven Queen’s temple in Whitestone to do it and Pike officiated it. The rest of Vox Machina was there, and they were also really drunk. They didn’t go on a honeymoon exactly per say, but when they had the time, they took the time for Scanlan to take Vax to his old home village.

13. What do they do for fun? Do they have a favorite activity or do they like to switch things up?

Fighting? Getting drunk? Playing pranks? Those are the sort of things they do for fun together usually.

14. Anything they both dread?

Loosing each other; but in different ways. Vax has become more accepting of death from his time serving the Raven Queen, but his understanding of his deity is the very reason he’s scared of Scanlan dying, because it means he knows for a fact that, if the resurrection ritual fails, that it was meant to be and that there’s nothing he can do. Scanlan is, obviously scared of Vax dying, but he far more dreads Vax discovering what an awful person he really is and deciding to leave.

15. How adventurous are they?

Despite their lifestyle, not that much. They’re both actually rather content to settle down somewhere.

18. What are their dates like? How long do/did they date? Do they ever feel the need to take a break from each other?

Getting drunk, pranking people around Whitestone, going on small little adventures into the woods or mountains to do something stupid. Nothing all that high key, surprising since Scanlan is involved. They dated for like a year before deciding to get married, after spending a year before that sort of mutually pining over each other. Sometimes Scanlan gets really insecure and worried and needs time to be by himself, and Vax understands and waits patiently for when he’s ready to come back.

23. How do they hug? Kiss? Tease? Flirt? Comfort?

Hug: Vax usually wraps himself around Scanlan and holds him tight while Scanlan just sort of lets himself be held, he’s not much of a hugger. Kiss: Sometimes it’s really intense and passionate, with both of them grabbing onto each other and pulling hair, but mostly they’re small, giggly/smiling pecks when they get the chance. Tease/Flirt: They’re teasing is their way of flirting with each other, and it’s just like in canon. Vax teases Scanlan for how tiny he is and for his ‘reputation’ as a ladies man, while Scanlan teases Vax for being so dark and brooding and really moody. Comfort: They both need different things when it comes to comfort. Vax needs to know that he’s not alone and that Scnalan is safe, so Scanlan will gently nudge him occasionally, just to let him know he;s there, or hold his hand, and always takes offered healing/health potions to ease his worries. Scanlan needs to know that he’s loved and wanted, so Vax will just hold him and tell him over and over again how much he love shim and how wonderful he is and just overall make him feel loved.

24. Any doubts about the relationship?

Mostly from Scanlan, with his insecurities and self-deprecation. He doesn’t think Vax really wants him, and Vax is always fighting against that mindset, though he’s pretty patient with Scanan.

25. How much time do they spend together? Do they share their feelings, or hold things in?

They spend quite a lot of time together, pretty much any free time they get. Ya know, if it were a while ago I would have said that they hold things in, but after their genuine open talk last week, I get the feeling that, maybe at first they’d be standoffish about opening up, but as they relationship progressed they’d open up more and more.

Daria Masterpost

Season One

1x01- Esteemers

1x02- The Invitation 

1x03- College Bored

1x04- Cafe Disaffecto

1x05- Malled

1x06- This Year’s Model

1x07- The Lab Brat

1x08- Pinch Sitter

1x09- Too Cute

1x10- The Big House

1x11- Road Worrier

1x12- The Teaching’s of Don Jake

1x13- The Misery Chick

Season Two

2x01- Arts “n” Crass

2x02- the Daria Hunter

2x03- Quinn The Brain

2x04- I Don’t

2x05- That Was Then, This is Dumb

2x06- Monster

2x07- The New Kid

2x08- Gifted

2x09- III

2x10- Fair Enough

2x11- See Jane Run

2x12- Pierce me

2x13- Write Where It Hurts

Season Three

3x01- Through A Lens Darkly

3x02- The Old and the Beautiful

3x03- Depth Takes a Holiday

3x04- Daria Dance Party

3x05- The Lost Girls

3x06- It Happened One Nut

3x07- Daria!

3x08- Lane Miserables

3x09- Jake of Hearts

3x10- Speedtrapped

3x11- The Lawndale File

3x12- Just Add Water

3x13- Janes Addition

Season Four

4x01- Father’s Complaint

4x02- Antisocial Climbers

4x03- A Tree Grows In Lawndale

4x04- Murder, She Snored

4x05- The F Word

4x06- I Loathe A Parade

4x07- Of Human Bonding

4x08- Psycho Therapy

4x09- Mart of Darkness

4x10- Legends of the Mall

4x11- Groped by an Angel

4x12- Fire!

4x13- Dye! Dye! My Darling

4x14- Is It Fall Yet

Season Five

5x01- Fizz Ed

5x02- Sappy Anniversary 

5x03- Fat Like Me

5x04- Camp Fear

5x05- The Story of D

5x06- Lucky Strike

5x07- Art Burn

5x08- One J at a Time

5x09- Life in the Past Lane

5x10- Aunt Nauseum

5x11- Prize Fighters

5x12- My Night At Daria’s 

5x13- Boxing Daria

5x14- Is It College Yet

anonymous asked:

bokuteru headcanons pls ??

Ok, cool!

BokuTeru Headcanons:

  • Terushima has been punched in the face more than a few times over the course of his high school career, but only one of them was during a match. This happened during a practice match with Fukurodani because he wouldn’t stop picking on Bokuto. The person who actually punched him, however, was Akaashi. 
  • Bokuto can do push ups with Terushima sitting on his back, but never more than 20. Not because he’s not strong enough, but because Teru usually starts playing grab-ass after 15 and Bo can’t concentrate
  • They tried to start a band together once. It ultimately failed, not due to a lack of musical skill, but because they couldn’t agree on a name. So, they started dating instead.
  • Bokuto turned up outside of Terushima’s window at midnight on their 1 year anniversary playing sappy love songs on a portable speaker because romance, but Teru isn’t home bc he’s in tokyo doing the exact same shit in front of Bokuto’s house
Only Fools Rush In

Summery: One story may be over, but the song doesn’t end. A series of sequel one-shots set in the ‘Vindicated’ universe.

Rating: K

Pairing: Hollstein

Note: Some “I love you” fluff for you Vindicated fans to soothe your Hollstein wounds. Also a bit of commentary on Laura’s hesitance to use those words in canon.

AO3 link

Wise men say: only fool’s rush in, but I can’t help falling in love with you…

Silas held two concert series a year. The first was in the fall as a welcome back block party in the quad. The second was an end-of-year concert, also in the quad, that usually got a lot more attendance with the weather balmy and the sun shining.

Laura did not attend the fall concert, too busy in the library with a midterm paper and helping LaFontaine organize some data set for a lab project. However, when April finally rolled around and the stage was in the process of set up, Laura was buzzing with excitement.

Carmilla had been a last minute decision by the student committee in charge of the event. They’d apparently been fighting over some hipster ska band or some band that opened for Ed Sheeran and the middle ground was reached in Carmilla Karnstein, should she accept, which evidently they weren’t to keen about but Laura couldn’t blame them either and was fairly convinced the only thing that swung her to the yay side of yay or nay was Laura pouting over Skype that she hadn’t seen her in a month and something about that Rollingstone cover just not doing it for her…

Carmilla emailed them back within 2 minutes. And they thought Carmilla was the ladykiller in the relationship.

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anonymous asked:

If you haven't already been offered Soriel for the ship meme thing, I'm here to help.


  • big spoon/little spoon: I’m just sayin’ it’s a good thing Sans has no skin, ‘cause boss monsters are 1. large, 2. fire-elementals and 3. big spoons by heart, all of them, every single one. He sleeps enveloped in a fluffy furnace.
  • favorite non-sexual activity: honestly, I swear these two just hang around eating gross sugary food and watching dumb movies and sharing memes with each other, they have the most low-maintenance relationship you can imagine
  • who uses all the hot water: Toriel, she’s got a lot of fur to get shampoo out of, the poor lady
  • most trivial thing they fight over: Sans’ eating habits, considering he’s a skeleton with no need for anything but the most basic of energy to burn. He could live off fruity loops if he wanted to. Toriel still insists he should at least try to be nice to himself and eat better food.
  • who does most of the cleaning: they’re about equal, Sans is home more often, but he’s also incredibly lazy. he only does his part ‘cause he knows Toriel likes a clean house and he doesn’t want to be a burden.
  • what has a season pass on their dvr/who controls the netflix queue: Definitely Sans, Toriel isn’t super up-to-date on technology after having spent a century isolated in the Ruins.
  • who calls up the super/landlord when the heat’s not working: Toriel is the only one out of the two who’s capable of noticing.
  • who steals the blankets: Sans is convinced that building pillow forts is totally a grown-up thing to do. Toriel usually finds him and Frisk snoozing in the middle of one if she leaves them alone for too long.
  • who leaves their stuff around: Sans forgets things in weird places all the time. Bad habit from when Papyrus was around to pick up after him.
  • who remembers to buy the milk: Toriel. She also remembers to buy milk for their friends. She is everyone’s mom.
  • who remembers anniversaries: Sans has a thing with dates and calendars now that the resets aren’t happening anymore, he needs the reminders, and happy anniversaries are a good way to keep track of time. He marks anniversaries for the smallest things, just for the joy of knowing that he’ll get to celebrate them in the future.
  • Who cooks normally?: Again, they both do! Toriel is more efficient, she’s got more practice, but Sans really enjoys it, so she’ll let him have the kitchen to himself pretty often. They also cook together a lot.
  • How often do they fight?: Not too often, but it does happen. They’ve got really different ways of tackling serious situations and it often leads to unfortunate misunderstandings. Sans is also shy of conflict, while Toriel is pretty confrontational. They’re good at staying constructive in their arguing and talking things down, though. It never, ever becomes malicious.
  • What do they do when they’re away from each other?: Toriel spends a lot of time reading. She needs a little more alone-time than most people, she isn’t used to being around others for long stretches of time anymore. Sans naturally has a ton of friendships he needs to maintain, so it’s all good.
  • Nicknames for each other?: Sans figured that since Asgore used to call Toriel “Tori”, he’d just go for the other half of her name and call her “’Ellie.” Y’know, just out of respect. Toriel likes Sans’ name, so she sticks to that.
  • Who is more likely to pay for dinner?: They take turns. Toriel is the most well off, but Sans gets insecure about leeching on her money, and she figures he’s an adult who’ll tell her if he really can’t afford it at any point.
  • Who steals the covers at night?: Sans steals the covers and friggin flings them over the side of the bed without mercy. He semi-sleepwalks. He doesn’t stand up, he just sits up and does weird shit with the pillows and covers in his sleep. They usually end up on the floor.
  • What would they get each other for gifts?: Books. So many books. They’d get each other books that they enjoyed themself so they can get to know each other better. Toriel gets surprisingly into science fiction.
  • Who kissed who first?: Toriel smooches everyone on the head, but with Sans she just kind of ever so slowly went lower on his face with each one. It’s not really possible to smooch a skeleton on the mouth, but the sentiment was there!
  • Who made the first move?: They both kind of did? There wasn’t some big moment that really cemented their relationship, they just slowly settled into it. But Toriel was the first to call Sans her partner in casual conversation. She wondered afterwards if it was the wrong thing to say, ‘cause he heard her and he immediately had to go outside for fresh air, but a few days later, he bought the two of ‘em those matching t-shrits with “GF (goat friend)” and “BF (bone friend)”, and that’s the closest the two of ‘em ever get to a wedding, so it’s all good
  • Who remembers things?: Sans remembers all the sappy stuff. Anniversaries, her favorite books/movies/food, etc. Toriel remembers practical stuff.
  • Who started the relationship?: Again with the didn’t-really-start-it-just-kind-of-happened. Everyone just accepted it as A Thing from the beginning ‘cause it was so obvious after they first met.
  • Who cusses more?: Definitely Sans, you bet yo arse Toriel sets up a swear jar when he moves in with her.
  • What would they do if the other was hurt?: Sans would be the levelheaded one who would get Toriel to safety, she’d flip her shit and roast whatever dared to threaten her 1HP bone friend