Those who reject that place are, conversely, rejected by it as well. This is the nature of systems: the moment you reject them, you are forced to realize that they’re the very ground you’re standing on.
Something still seems off to me about the story we’ve been told, that Rose shattered Pink Diamond. Garnet at the end of Bubbled never says outright that it happened, just that Rose always did what was right for Earth, and her answers aren’t even evasions because Steven only asks why nobody told him about Pink Diamond, not whether it was true or not. We haven’t heard from Pearl yet, and Jasper has been conveniently silenced.
The only firm confirmation we have is from Eyeball Ruby who is dumb as a box of hammers. Not to mention that there’s a giant flaw in her story:
Eyeball Ruby: I saw it with my own eye! I watched the leader of the Crystal Gems, Rose Quartz, shatter Pink Diamond!
Eyeball Ruby: Who cares about her shield!? Her huge sword is what I remember.
Bismuth: It can cut through a gem’s physical form in an instant! Destroying the body…but never the gem.
Eyeball Ruby remembers Rose Quartz wielding the sword that is literally incapable of smashing gems. There’s still something we’re not being told about what happened.