I feel very alone and uncared for and I don’t know how that can be changed.
The thing I find so terribly annoying about "well trans and lg aces are welcome in the community!" is that even my transness doesn't make me safe. I'm nonbinary, I'm afab, and I usually present as female. I'd like to look more androgynous, but it's just not safe or possible for me. And I am always afraid that I'm not going to be "trans enough", even ignoring the transphobia that binary trans people face in the community (which as you've said is a lot). (1/2)