anonymous asked:

(Pls tag as s931) I experience sexual attraction, but I'm also sex repulsed and want nothing to do with it. When k learned about lithsexuality, I was wondering if the "not wanting reciprocation" part could be a conscious choice rather than a feeling. Even so, what if I can't tell the difference between a choice and a feeling? Would it still be ok for me to identify as lith? Thank you!

Anon, if lithsexual is what feels like the best label for you, then go with lith. You’re the one who gets to figure out what label is best for you, Anon.

However, if you don’t feel comfortable identifying as lith because you’re not sure if you fit the label… then maybe grey asexual will feel better? Grey asexual is also used for people who feel sexual attraction but don’t want to act on it.