Anyway i’m really late on this but the thing with Joe wondering why Barry didn’t ask for permission to propose bothered me? That’s ridiculous. He doesn’t need your permission? Iris is the one who chooses whether to marry him or not? The only person he needs to ask about it is her.

I mean. I think it’s just some tradition that he expected. I don’t think he really meant anything by it but? idk if someone I was dating wanted to propose I would not expect them to get permission from anyone?