ruining this family

ashfkdkh167  asked:

Tell your opinions all about feyre please 😊💙🌌

Thank you so much for asking for my thoughts !! I really appreciate it.

So! My thoughts on Feyre. She’s my favorite character in the ACOTAR series and the one I relate to the most.

I found her experience with familial abuse to really resonate with me, and to be very relatable. I didn’t find her reactions to it later on and in different books to be relatable to me personally, but I’m sure it was relatable to others. There are a lot of survivors who don’t really understand what they suffered was abuse or that they will excuse their abusers behavior out of love or many different reasons. So I think Feyre would be relatable for them, and I’m glad for that. But I wish it had been more relatable for me. I wanted to read how it hurt and hurt and kept hurting, how betrayed she felt by the ones who are suppose to love and care for her, and how angry and bewildered their behavior made her feel. And I wanted to read her overcome that. And become a better person than them. And be successful in spite of them. And show them how she doesn’t need them, and can rise above how they treated her. And I wanted to read her live her life without feeling like there was still a family shaped hole inside. And I wanted to read her forgive them, but only after they deserved it. After they realized how they treated her was wrong, and they apologized, and changed. I wanted to read the closure I haven’t been able to have. So on one hand I was really happy with how family abuse presented, but I guess not entirely happy on how it was handled.

I loved reading her fall in love with Tamlin. Not because I loved them together, but because she loved a man who was so wrong for her, and how long it took her to realize it. I found that to be incredibly relatable. I did love how partner abuse was handled in the first two books. I like how it reminded us how easy it is to fall for abusive partners. Or the wrong kinds of men. I loved reading how she tore herself apart for him, she gave him everything she had, and when she had nothing left, she gave herself. How many of us have done that? Given all we had for men who wouldn’t do the same? Or women- depending on who you’re into. I loved reading her slowly realize something was wrong, but she wasn’t sure what. She slowly realized they weren’t right for each other. And it wasn’t until after she had left him that she realized he was abusive. I think that’s incredibly relatable. How many of us have been in harmful relationships, and we love our partner so we stick it out, but the whole time there’s this nagging feeling that something is wrong ? And sometimes it isn’t until after we had the courage to leave that we realized exactly what, and how wrong it was. I enjoyed reading how Feyre handled it, and how similar it is to experiences readers have had.

Most of all I loved reading her fall in love with the right man for her. I loved reading her realizing she deserved more, she deserved better. I loved reading her find someone who would love and cherish her the way she would him. And I enjoyed the internal conflict she had when falling in love. How she felt disloyal to her past love, even though it had been wrong, and at the same time knew that this connection was what she wanted.

I loved Feyre. And I loved reading her story. I loved reading how she learned and grew and overcame all the obstacles thrown her way. I’m saddened that there will be no more books from her perspective, because I loved reading how she thought and felt.

Can you imagine how different (and better) Teen Wolf would have been if it had been Derek’s story? 

Just imagine that Teen Wolf was a series about Derek, starting from when he’s a young teenager trying to deal with his powers, wanting to learn the way his mother and Laura did but eventually having to rely on Peter’s manipulative teachings to twist his emotions. Imagine getting the full story of him falling in love with Paige and then losing her.

Originally posted by thealphaofmultifandoms

Imagine the story of him living every day in fear of hunters, constantly watching his back because everyone knows who the Hales are, but he knows no-one.

Originally posted by exist-in-mind

Imagine the full story of Kate abusing him - no brushing over it, but giving the abuse the attention it needs and showing people its not okay, not sexualising it by having Tyler stripped bare and chained up but showing that he was sixteen or seventeen years old when Kate started abusing him.

Originally posted by sherrykinss

Imagine getting the full story of the Hale house fire and all the emotions that come from it. Imagine Derek feeling so alone, knowing that he only has a comatose uncle and Laura left. Imagine seeing Derek’s reaction when he finds out that Laura was torn in two by his uncle.

Originally posted by foreskinz

Imagine him spending years on the run and hiding away int he ruins of his old family home as he tries to hold onto the memories of his family while fearing that every firework or poacher’s rifle could be a hunter coming after him.

Originally posted by stilessderek

Imagine getting his side of the story when it comes to Scott being a bloody idiot: ignoring his advice and dating an Argent.

Imagine seeing his perspective as he falls for Stiles and finally reaches a point where he feels comfortable and safe enough that he can open up to someone and let himself love again.

Originally posted by tweenw

Originally posted by alina-horanx3

Imagine everything that could have been and cry.

Cas in this picture...

So… my dear friend @sassy-pistachy was looking at this picture and…

She told me “isn’t Cas like… really REALLY tall in there?

And well, she’s right… if we take their heights…. something is off

So… I guess this is canon

Rhys: Feyre’s at that very special age when a girl has only one thing on her mind.

Tamlin: Boys?

Feyre: Homicide.

me, nudging my gf at 3am: it’s pretty fucked up that people only blame lydia bennet for almost ruining her family when she was a 15 year old girl who spent her whole life with parents who were equal parts disinterested and enabling and was preyed upon by a man who was quite literally twice her age all because he was trying to get back at his former childhood friend for not letting him extort the guy’s much younger sister lydia bennet was a child babe a child and

  • Amren: *points to broken coffee maker*
  • Amren: Who broke it? I’m not mad, I just want to know.
  • Elain: ... I did it, I broke it.
  • Amren: No. No, you didn’t. Cassian?
  • Cassian: Don't look at me! Look at Rhys!
  • Rhys: What? I didn’t break it!
  • Cassian: Huh, that’s weird. How’d you even know it was broken?
  • Rhys: Because it’s sitting right in front of us and it’s broken!
  • Cassian: Suspicious.
  • Rhys: No, it's not.
  • Feyre: If it matters, probably not but… Nesta was the last one to use it.
  • Nesta: Liar! I don’t even drink that crap!
  • Feyre: Oh really? Then what were you doing by the coffee cart earlier?
  • Nesta: I use the wooden stirrers to push back my cuticles! Everyone knows that, Fere!
  • Elain: Let’s not fight. I broke it. Let me pay for it, Amren.
  • Amren: No. Who broke it?
  • Cassian: Amren, Azriel and Mor have been awfully quiet-
  • Azriel and Mor: Really?
  • Cassian: Really.
  • Everyone: *screaming*
  • Amren: I broke it. It burned my hand so I punched it. I predict in ten minutes from now they’ll be at each others throats with war paint on their faces and a pig head on a stick… good. It was getting a little chummy around here.

Punkle’s first mohawk for a sweet Anon. 

The Court of Dreams right before going to a life-or-death meeting
  • Cassian: Twenty gold marks says there's a fight in the first hour.
  • Mor: Thirty, and I say within forty-five minutes.
  • Azriel: Fifty, and I say within thirty minutes. Started by Autumn.
  • Rhys: Try not to look like you're all gambling on [the other courts]. And no cheating by provoking fights...A hundred marks on a fight within fifteen minutes.

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Adoption AU? 

Where Allura and Shiro are a young couple who decided to adopt children and they adopted these dumb boys

on a side note, i really like the idea of how keith would wear red capes and act like a hero, allura and shiro think it’s super adorable and lance would find a way to get their attention to him lol

also lance is a rude butt

I’m sorry we let you boys down..

I’m sorry no one noticed your cries for help. I’m sorry that no one stuck up for you when you needed them to the most.

I’m sorry that you felt the only way you could get people to listen was to cause harm and I’m sorry that you felt you had to cause harm because of how these people made you felt.

What you boys did wasn’t okay, I’m sure you know that by now. You’re probably looking at me right now thinking I’m just like the rest of them.

Dylan, Eric, I wish you had realized that if you held on for a couple more months everything would have been better for you, but I’m sure you realized that.

I’m sure you knew that well what if you had graduated? Would it stop? Oh no, you were too far into the plan by now. You couldn’t just get rid of all the bombs you had made and the guns you acquired. You went too far.

Dylan, you were excited for college. I know “another few years of the torment”, I know it just meant more school and more bullying but it could’ve been better for you, we can all see how much potential you had and that isn’t a lie. You were a handsome young man with potential to be something big, you would be so proud of how computers are now!

Eric, you were bright too. You had potential just like Dylan did and there’s a new Doom game out, funny right? I bet you didn’t realize your Doom levels would have so many views and so many people playing them. Does that make you happy? 

You boys left such an image on the world, you helped everyone recognize bullying, you helped bring up the conversations about school violence and mental health. You boys had so much potential but you threw it away for what? A little revenge on people you didn’t even really know?

Dylan, Eric, you were selfish. You shouldn’t have been bullied so badly, but what you did wasn’t okay and I’m not going to tell you that you did something good because you didn’t. You ruined families, you hurt the community, the country, the world. You hurt your friends. 

Your friends, you know the people who were there for you. You guys felt so alone but you didn’t realize you both had friends and you both had each other. You were so strung high on having friends that you didn’t realize how strong of a bond you both had, that was what was important.

I believe you should have suffered for what you did, I don’t think forever, but you should have had punishment. I hope by now the punishment is over and you’re smiling together playing Doom and watching all of us make fools out of ourselves. 

I hope you’re in your paradise, you have your freedom and you have your peace.

Rest easy.