The first time we spent the night together, we cuddled all night long. We made out, but that’s as far as it went. In all my years of dating, I’d never snuggled with someone who “fit me” like she did. It didn’t matter what position we were in, our bodies were grooved in all the right places. It was one of the best sleeps of my life, and in that moment, I knew I had found the real deal.
—  Anonymous
SEXUAL TENSION+ Meme

Send a symbol for my Muse’s reaction to the following scenario. Add a + to reverse roles!

👖: My Muse witnesses your Muse wearing tight jeans / clothing 
🍸: My Muse witnesses your Muse accidentally spilling ice cold water down their front
💪: My Muse witnesses your Muse coming back from / working out in the gym
🍭: My Muse witnesses your Muse unknowingly(?) eating something in a sensual manner
👐: My Muse witnesses your Muse briefly invading their personal space to get by
💄: My Muse witnesses your Muse applying lipstick/makeup/etc. in the mirror
👙: My Muse witnesses your Muse coming out of the water / shower / bath
👔: My Muse witnesses your Muse succeeding in something with a lot of passion
👗: My Muse responds to your Muse asking them to zip up a dress / tie a tie / etc.
👕: My Muse witnesses your Muse finish up/start changing clothes
👁: My Muse responds to your Muse holding eye contact for longer than usual
💃: My Muse witnesses your Muse dancing / rhythmically wiggling
👱: My Muse notices your Muse’s hair/clothes look awfully…post-coital, even if it isn’t!

30 Signs Of Emotional Abuse In A Relationship

1. They humiliate you, put you down, or make fun of you in front of other people.

2. They regularly demean or disregard your opinions, ideas, suggestions, or needs.

3. They use sarcasm or “teasing” to put you down or make you feel bad about yourself.

4. They accuse you of being “too sensitive” in order to deflect their abusive remarks.

5. They try to control you and treat you like a child.

6. They correct or chastise you for your behavior.

7. You feel like you need permission to make decisions or go out somewhere.

8. They try to control the finances and how you spend money.

9. They belittle and trivialize you, your accomplishments, or your hopes and dreams.

10. They try to make you feel as though they are always right, and you are wrong.

11. They give you disapproving or contemptuous looks or body language.

12. They regularly point out your flaws, mistakes, or shortcomings.

13. They accuse or blame you of things you know aren’t true.

14. They have an inability to laugh at themselves and can’t tolerate others laughing at them.

15. They are intolerant of any seeming lack of respect.

16. They make excuses for their behavior, try to blame others, and have difficulty apologizing.

17. The repeatedly cross your boundaries and ignore your requests.

18. They blame you for their problems, life difficulties, or unhappiness.

19. They call you names, give you unpleasant labels, or make cutting remarks under their breath.

20. They are emotionally distant or emotionally unavailable most of the time.

21. They resort to pouting or withdrawal to get attention or attain what they want.

22. They don’t show you empathy or compassion.

23. They play the victim and try to deflect blame to you rather than taking personal responsibility.

24. They disengage or use neglect or abandonment to punish or frighten you.

25. They don’t seem to notice or care about your feelings.

26. They view you as an extension of themselves rather than as an individual.

27. They withhold sex as a way to manipulate and control.

28. They share personal information about you with others.

29. They invalidate or deny their emotionally abusive behavior when confronted.

30. They make subtle threats or negative remarks with the intent to frighten or control you.

anonymous asked:

How would UT OT and UF grillby feel about having a green soul SO who couldn't handle being yelled at but if anyone hurt their friends they can verbally DESTROY them

Whoops, I misread that a few times. I got it covered now. - Mod Sync

Undertale Grillby

The first time it happens, he’s understandably shocked. You were so sweet and kind, and you were bad with customers yelling at you. And yet, here you are, absolutely roasting (Sans, stop punning) some asshole in his bar because they said something bad about someone you knew. He doesn’t know what to do. If a fight breaks out, he’s jumping in immediately, but when it’s just words, he’s just fretting around behind the bar and Sans stop recording this and help him!

Underfell Grillby

He’s shocked, for all of two seconds. Then he’s laughing his ass off. You were bad at being yelled at, which happened frequently, how were you even still here? But then some jerk says something about a friend of yours and off you go. He’s got recordings of your bests roasts on his phone, and even joined you in a few. However, if a fight breaks out, you might wanna call an ambulance for the real third degree burns the asshole will get.

Outertale Grillby

Like UT!Grillby, he’s pretty dumbfounded, but he’s more slack jawed and staring, because he’s finding out all of those things at once. It’s rarer for people to get angry enough to yell in his bar. So once some asshole starts yelling at you for something, he’s terrified for you, you look like you’re about to burst into tears. He’s about to step in, but then the guy goes and says something about someone else, and suddenly you’re the one with all of the control in the argument. He’s quick to snap out of his stupor should things get physical, but he might need a minute to process everything that just happened.