Tony Stark officially wants Peter to be better than him. Which means Tony is still looking down on himself for his mistakes. But Peter looks up to him anyway. Tony has never ever had anyone look up to him like this before.
After his godmother’s death, Tony starts drinking again. While watching old reels of her to deal with the grief, he stumbles upon a video she left for him when he was a baby (because Howard isn’t the only one to leave hidden messages)