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Hollaback! has created some great info graphics about street harassment and how to take action to end it. A lot of time we don’t know what to do when we see violence on the streets. This is a step by step guide to take action!

My guy friends often say they don’t know what to do or how to be an ally. This is a great thing to share with them to start a conversation about harassment. Want to take it a step further? Tell them how to #ringthebell and make a promise to take one of these actions the next time they see street harassment happen! 

-Bethany

Ring the Bell for Bank of America!

Thanks to Bank of America, Kevin Curry and Rob Giunta for their support of Accion and small business in Arizona!  Pictured left to right is Associate Underwriter Kris King, Kevin Curry, Tucson Lender Lydia Duron-Kari, and Rob GIunta. We will Ring the Bell in recognition of this support!  

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Sharing for @busybeebuddies - Just a reminder that Cassi will be teaching a Tricks 101 class at @zoomroomphilly on Sundays at 1pm in June! If you’ve never been to #ZoomRoomPhilly, you’ll need an evaluation to place into the class. Learn “Ring It!” along with Bang!, Take a Bow, Spin, Twirl, Say Hi! and many more! This is also one of our entries to the #MayTrickDogContest, hosted by @aussieoverload, @sarahbelli2 & @breezethebordercollie!! #busybeebuddies #kentuckycatdog #ringit #ringthebell #positivereinforcement #lovemymutt #partytricks #phillydogs #dogsofphilly #dogsofinstagram #friskyinphilly

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Peter Gabriel - Wowee! PETER GABRIEL calls on men to end violence against women! His #ringthebell vi

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RING THE BELL (Official Lyric Video by Derrick Belcham and Casey Dienel)

Ring the Bell for Bank of America!

A loud Ringing of our office Bell for Bank of America’s generosity in Las Vegas, NV through president, George Smith and Dan Giraldo with the check!  Also in the photo is our very own, Erin McDermott and next to her Carla Jenkins is the COO for Accion client Sumnu Marketing along with her daughter. Sumnu Marketing just won the SBA Family Owned Business of the Year award and they will be celebrated tomorrow at a luncheon!  

Thanks to all our partners at Bank of America as many check ceremonies are happening with our staff in different states with different incredible Accion clients or at our home office in Albuquerque in the next few weeks!  With appreciation for Bank of America and their support with lending capital and operational capacity support!  

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I rang the bell tonight. 2RM tempo’d back squats. At 170lbs, I’m 15lbs away from my previous 1RM. Looks like I might have a new 1RM. #crossfit #backsquat #PR #ringthebell #rxddifference #nutrishopbrea (at Crossfit Rxd)

It may be a layday but didnt stop the pro’s such as tatiana (@tatiwest) from going out this morning. Catching a few waves with a spectacular sunrise.
Hopefully tomorrow will bring the compatition.
Follow @awakenthetraveler and feel free to share :) #sunrise #sunset #ripcurlpro #rip #ripcurl #ripcurlpro2015 #bellsbeach #ringthebell #tatiana_weston-webb
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RingTheBell Series: Make some noise

This is a special series in support of the global #RingTheBell (BellBajao) campaign to end violence against women. The author of this guest post has chosen to remain anonymous.

I was 14, walking back from school, alone. It was routine to walk home from school as it was a mere 500m distance from my house. It was a hot, sunny day, and I just wanted to get home.

I saw a man walking towards me - he was tall, looked like he was in his late teens, and was quite presentable. Of course, I took one long glance at him and ignored him and continued to walk home.

And then, out of nowhere, I felt a hand grope my chest.

Shocked, I stopped dead in my tracks and wheeled around. This presentable young man was now walking briskly, still looking at me, with an almost evil smirk plastered across his face. No guilt. No remorse. No effort in even escaping the scene, as I was what, a 14-year-old school girl.

He then just turned and walked away like it didn’t mean anything. I didn’t know how to react as somehow, my body was confounded, and frozen to the ground. I felt disgusting, and I just wanted to get out of there. And I remembered what my Dad told me “If anyone misbehaves with you, and you’re in a public place, don’t let him go. Make some noise.”

So I ran after this guy, and upon noticing my chasing him, he sped up as well. I threw my only weapon, a 500ml nearly-empty plastic bottle of water aimed right at his head. My aim was clearly horrid, and since he kept looking back at me and running, he ended up tripping on my bottle and falling down.

I wasted no time. I gathered a crowd. I started screaming and wailing loudly. I stopped cars. At the same time, I kept kicking him repeatedly in his groin, and enjoyed watching him writhe in pain. People came up to me and asked me what had happened. I narrated the incident and 3 - 5 men, along with a couple of guards from a nearby army club beat the living daylights out of this man. They then asked me whether I wanted to file an FIR, but having been educated solely on Indian movies at that point and understanding that women would have it tough with testifying and filing a complaint, I decided not to. 

The man was beaten black and blue, and he was in tears. Did I regret it? No. I felt zero compassion or any kind of sympathy towards him and thought he completely deserved it. If this happened to him for having misbehaved with a 14-year-old, I knew that he wouldn’t attempt it again on any other girl. That’s one less pervert in the world.

My advice to all women is at times like these, when something happens, when someone misbehaves with you/sexually harasses you, don’t be silent. It doesn’t matter if you’re in a movie theatre or a restaurant; it doesn’t matter if it’s a random stranger or a close male friend. You HAVE to act on it. Slap him, punch him, a kick in the nuts always works. Learn a few self-defense techniques, carry pepper spray, don’t put up with anyone’s ugly behaviour. If a friend tried to slap your butt at a party, and everyone tell you to let it go because he was drunk, don’t do so. Slap his face hard and tell everyone what happened. If your friends still think it was excusable, leave them. You can always find new friends.

Every time you remain silent about that man who groped you on the bus, about that friend whose hand brushed your behind, about a colleague who is ‘accidentally’ touching you, you are sending a message to these douchebags that this kind of behaviour is okay because you’re not doing anything about it. It just means that they can try that on some other girl too. You need to stand up and raise your voice. You need to tell him that it’s not okay. You need to slap/punch, do whatever it takes to ensure he doesn’t repeat it.

You need to make some noise.

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If you would like to contribute a guest post as part of the #RingTheBell campaign, please email us at hello@wooplr.com

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Have you seen this? The Everyday Sexism project aims to highlight the staggering amount of sexism that women face on a daily basis. Laura Bates, the founder, started it to address a problem that she felt was largely ignored or dismissed. The volume of tweets and submissions to the website show the need for some significant cultural changes so that nobody has to suffer intimidation or harassment as they go about their daily lives. 

-Mihika