I hadn’t had the change to reply to some of you guys that left me best wishes for my mother yesterday cause i’ve already left and then i just didnt turn on my computer, so i wanted to also thank you for your messages: @byebyefrost @hideouspumpkin @heurtebizzz @johnlockiseternal @dmellieon @anarcheress @paradoxical-head … i think i’ve replied to everyone else. sorry i didnt do so yesterday. 

anonymous asked:

sometimes when im stressed i just come here and scroll through your blog cos i find your art style so soothing and nice~ i hope you have a good day and i look forward to whatever your next drawing is!

i always get so happy when i hear how my draws help ppl feeling better bc i actually mostly draw to relieve my own anxiety, and it’s just so nice to hear the result can have a soothing effect on others too

Exo Reactions To You Eating All Of Their Halloween Candy

/I do not own any gifs unless stated otherwise/


Baekhyun: *doesn’t say anything because it was just candy, but you can tell he’s a little disappointed that he didn’t get any of it, trying to look pathetic & eating fruits & things on purpose so you’ll maybe buy him more candy*

Chanyeol: *acts like he didn’t want the candy anyway but then sulks for the rest of the day, either resulting in you doing something to make up for it or him breaking out into a long, drawn-out rant about how you owe him*

Chen: *doesn’t care much because he wasn’t going to eat all of it himself, but lectures you about taking it without asking, even though he takes your stuff all the time*

D.O.: *gives you a long stare, not saying anything for what seems like hours & finally just letting it go without a single word because it isn’t anything serious to get upset over*

Kai: *he has no reaction because it’s likely that there wasn’t any candy left after he got done with it, so there wasn’t anything for you to take/eat, just all the wrappers*

Kris: *acts like he doesn’t care, trying to make you think he wasn’t interested in eating it anyway, but you catch him scowling about it whenever he thinks you aren’t looking*

Lay: *doesn’t realize until you tell him, because he totally forgot about it, but he doesn’t really get upset, just kind of confused about how exactly you managed to eat all of it by yourself, a little bit impressed & even slightly concerned*

Luhan: *goes on a huge rant about how you’re selfish & disrespectful for eating all of it without asking or telling him, but totally avoids the fact that he’d eaten all half of your candy too while you weren’t looking*

Sehun: *doesn’t care because he’d already eaten all of his own candy & secretly took yours to replace it, so you just technically ate your own candy, which he never tells you*

Suho: *just nods & accepts it, though there’s a little twinkle of sadness in his eye, he lets it go & makes a mental note to himself to just buy more next time he goes to the store*

Tao: *on the verge of crying because he had his heart set on a specific candy & didn’t even get a single piece of it, acting like you killed his dog for the rest of the week*

Xiumin: *literally gives no fucks since he gave you all of his candy in the first place because he didn’t really want it all anyway, not seeing it as something to be upset about since he could have asked for some or kept some if he wanted it*

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((I probably can’t do it Halloween weekend, BUT...))

((…how would people feel about a belated-Halloween livestream?

I’m thinking about doing “Pirates of the Carribean: Curse of the Black Pearl”

It’s a spooky enough nautical film, right? There’s curses, skeletons and mutiny.

How about Tuesday, November 1st? The day after Halloween? It’s never too late to get your spook on.

I know timezones are weird for people, and some people haven’t been able to make my livestreams because of it, so this time I created a poll. I’m gonna have you guys vote on what time works best for ya. The times on the poll are in Central USA time, so translate as needed. I’ll check the poll results in a couple days and post a time.

MarineJoot’s livestreams have been really fun and successful so far, and maybe I should just do this bi-monthly or something. I’ll get to that when I get to it. Anyway, see ya scurvy dogs there hopefully!))

"You choose to have sex, you live with the consequences.”

So: what if you don’t want children?

I can’t believe you fucking assholes expect that I shouldn’t be allowed to have sex because I don’t want to have children.

FYI I’ve never had unprotected sex in my life. Seven years of the pill PLUS condoms (seriously, just ask any of my exes, I still made them wrap it), then condoms still when I went off the pill due to the depression it was causing me. Every. Fucking. Time. No chances taken. Then one day, a break. A complete accidental break. Follow-up with a morning after pill, resulting in three days of painful cramps and guess what? At the end of it — still pregnant.

So I could either choose to stay pregnant, which would harm my professional career (which had only just begun) by having to go to constant medical appointments, feel sick and exhausted all the time, and have to deal with the family stigma of being pregnant and then giving it up (have I mentioned that my mother, who now knows about my termination, has occasionally said “I would have insisted on taking care of the baby after you had it until you were ready,” which is the exact opposite of what I wanted). Buying maternity clothes, having to take time off of my job as a dance teacher (oh, and explaining to MY DANCE STUDENTS that I wasn’t keeping the baby I would birth?), having my body become a piece of public property? No. I did not want that.

Answer this question: do you think I should have been punished for mechanical failure?

Answer this next question: do you think I should have gone on to punish my lack of wanting children with celibacy?

Interestingly enough: my partner, whom I’m marrying in 2017, had a vasectomy earlier this year, and just recently had his follow-up appointment to get the confirmation that he was “shooting blanks.”

We have the same family doctor. I have endometriosis (a condition that not only makes my periods incredibly painful to the point where I have to miss work, but can cause people to miscarry, which is what happened to a relative of mine). The only real option besides hormonal treatment (which is hardly effective, and I have a bad history with this) is endometrial ablation — which, of course, would render me probably-infertile. I’ve made it clear to my doctor I don’t want children, and he was the one who referred my partner for a vasectomy.

He won’t agree to ablation for me because I’m “too young to decide that [I] don’t want kids.”

My partner could get a vasectomy, but I can’t get a procedure to make my goddamn life easier and less painful and, yes, not have kids. And at this point, getting the procedure isn’t even about fertility (since my partner is officially infertile), it’s about my goddamn quality of life.

But even then, I ask, what do you want me to do?

If you think I should remain celibate unless I decide I want to have children, then please take your condoms off and have sex until you procreate, or else take a vow of celibacy yourselves.

arata-na-kaishi  asked:

Hey, I was drawn to your blog by your profile picture, It looks just like me right now as I'm currently in the testing phase for breast cancer and the biopsy has left me with an awful bruise. I'm 17 years old and working towards getting into university, the likelihood of me having breast cancer is very strong and I'm awaiting my results any day now. I was wondering how you managed to get through all this and if there's any tips you could pass on to me or anyone else in my position, thanks :)

Honey, I’m sorry. That is such a tough place to be. Waiting on tests is rough. I hope your biopsy comes back negative, but if it doesn’t … just keep putting one foot in front of the other. I never once thought cancer would kill me, but surviving it is hard work. It’s overwhelming at first. Just do whatever has to be done that day. 

There are different kinds of cancer, and the treatments are different. I have a friend who had surgery, but she didn’t have to have chemo or radiation. My cousin had another, which required different chemo from what I got. 

Take care of yourself and let others care for you. Don’t be afraid to ask for help. People will want to help but they won’t know how so let them know. I wanted to sit on the porch and read so I put a post on facebook that I wanted a lounge chair and within two hours a former co-worker had dropped on off for me. That may not seem like much, but trust me every little kindness matters. Do what you can for yourself, but accept help.

Eat well. Make every calorie count. If you have to have chemo – and you may not – your appetite will likely be affected. I didn’t get nauseous but I did get acid reflux. I ate small amounts often – Greek yogurt even baby food. Smoothies are good – gets some veggies in there. Beets make them an appetizing fuchsia color ;) But remember, if you’re getting chemo, your immune system is compromised so be very careful with raw fruits and vegetables that they are cleaned thoroughly.

Drink lots of water, if you get chemo. Flush that out of your system. A friend who had been through this before me advised me to get IV fluids the day after and it did help. Get a lot of rest. 

Coconut oil is your friend. Chemo can dry you out, and coconut oil is a great moisturizer for lips, nails, skin … anywhere really.

Most important, remember that everyone is different. How your body reacts will be different from mine or others, and different people handle the journey differently. There’s no right or wrong way to do it. Feel free to message me anytime. 


where everything is the same except that everyone is the annoying dog…

bonus nasptadoog, mad doggy and dogster:

Well kids, 18 years of compulsory education are over.
18 years of being told to sit down and shut up.
18 years of being told to speak when you’re spoken to.

18 years of being intellectually measured and placing your value and self-worth on a series of arbitrary and meaningless tests.

18 years of government ideologies being implemented through textbooks and subliminal curriculum changes; I bet you can tell me how many apples Kumar Rajesh The Third bought, but I bet
you can’t tell me who Mary Seacole was. Without Googling her.

18 years of conformity, take off the suit or the shit school jumper
or the blouse or the knee-length skirt, ain’t no pervy teacher
gonna get all offended; even though it’s their lack of self-control
and inability to control their sexual desires and the bullshit belief
that the victims are the ones responsible for all sex crimes performed on them. (Here’s something they don’t teach you at school: there are no excuses for raping someone. None. Zero. Nada. Don’t fucking do it. No means no means no means no means no.)

18 years of useless bullshit, goodbye Golgi Apparatus, hello money!
Time for loans and jobs and bills and I bet they never taught you
about exchange rates and how to get the most out of changing
your money. At least you can work out a Triangle’s hypotenuse…

18 years, trying to get you to behave, get you in a nice little line
so you’ll be a dutiful employee, a simpleton, normal, the same,
a cardboard cut-out of everyone else, a follower of the status quo.

Well kids, after all of that, all 18 years, I hope you’re still you.
I hope you’ve found joy in your own company and the company of others. I hope you have a dream, a vision, a belief, something to stand for. I hope you’re happy; well, happy enough after being mentally tortured for 18 years by the most flawed institution ever created.

I also hope you know just how goddamn beautiful you are, and I fucking mean it. I hope you realize there’s more to life than fly-by-night popularity and that crushes are little more than dust in the wind and that you are not defined by any of the tests that you take.

18 years now, wipe the slate. Start over. This is not the end, failure is not fatal and success is not final. This is only the beginning. It’s a big beautiful world out there. Trust me, I didn’t believe in it either.

Well kids, that’s the bell; your 18 years of hell are now finally over. Breathe in. Relax. And remember; this is only Chapter 1…


You Are Not Defined By Exam Results (Spoken Word)

By Ryan Havers

(If you want to read this and record it and post it, do. And also please send it to me or direct me to it!)

a mix of 70 songs that Luke has tweeted at some point.

1. living louder by the cab. 2. nothing by lewis watson. 3. ocean avenue by yellowcard. 4. can you feel my heart by bring me the horizon. 5. if you don’t know by 5 seconds of summer. 6. sex by the 1975. 7. please take me home by blink 182. 8. whatever by hot chelle rae. 9. everlong by foo fighters. 10. 3 am by matchbox 20. 11. stop this train by john mayer. 12. give me one good reason by blink 182. 13. waiting for the end by linkin park. 14. chocolate by the 1975. 15. stuck on you by new politics. 16. machines by biffy clyro. 17. i’m a mess by ed sheeran. 18. astronaut by simple plan. 19. the man by ed sheeran. 20. baby you don’t wanna know by sum41. 21. basket case by green day.22. superman by goldfinger. 23. black chandelier by biffy clyro. 24. social casualty by 5 seconds of summer. 25. young girls by bruno mars. 26. wayward son by kansas. 27. can’t stop by onerepublic 28. science & faith by the script. 29. emotionless by good charlotte. 30. shove by angels & airwaves. 31. vegas skies by the cab. 32. the end where i begin by the script. 33. terrible things by mayday parade. 34. all the same by sick puppies. 35. hold onto me by mayday parade. 36. walking disaster by sum41. 37. pursuit of happiness by kid cudi. 38. i’ll take you there by sleeping with sirens. 39. something i need by onerepublic. 40. all that i’ve got by the used. 41. what i like about you by the romantics. 42. awakening by yellowcard. 43. i must be dreaming by the maine. 44. nourthern downpour by panic! at the disco. 45. if only they knew by a rocket to the moon. 46. nine in the afternoon by panic! at the disco. 47. sad by maroon 5. 48. ever after by marianas trench. 49. hey there delilah by plain white t’s. 50. obviously by mcfly. 51. honestly by hot chelle rae. 52. UNI by ed sheeran. 53. king for a day by pierce the veil. 54. postcards and polaroids by sleeping with sirens. 55. girls and boys by good charlotte. 56. break your little heart by all time low. 57. fix you by coldplay. 58. can’t be saved by senses fail. 59. latch by disclosure. 60. champagne supernova by oasis. 61. canals by all time low. 62. st. patrick by pvris. 63. i still haven’t found what i’m looking for by u2. 64. escape (the piña colada song) by rupert holmes. 65. where did the party go by fall out boy. 66. shake tramps by marianas trench. 67. i can talk by two door cinema club. 68. hallucinations by angels & airwaves. 69. super rich kids by frank ocean. 70. amnesia by 5 seconds of summer.




Kakashi shows up and jokes about his cute little team congratulating him  on his Hokagedom with a hug but DOESN’T EXPECT THEM ALL TO ACTUALLY HUG HIM. Sasuke is giving him a stealth!hug from behind. If Kakashi turns around he’ll jutsu outta there. Sakura got in there first tho’ she was super fast like ‘aww yeah excuse to hug da sensei’. Naruto’s trying to steal his hat. :)

The Valentine’s gifts that Kentucky Googles more frequently than other states are ‘couples tattoos’ and 'songs to f___ to.' 

Honorable mentions:

Mississippi:  'pearl necklace’ and 'mixtape’

Texas: ‘discount sex toys’ and ‘plus-size lingerie’

California:  ‘ heart-shaped sunglasses’ and ‘bondage kit’

Missouri:  ‘ Hallmark cards’ and ‘vejazzling’

Iowa: ‘tandem bicycle’

Wyoming: ‘vibrator,’ ‘mail-order bride’ O_O