EXO Reaction: You’re scared of the other members
Request: Reaction for exo when their gf is afraid of the other members please?(just found yoyr blog, im loving it ^~^)
A/N: Thank you so much @xxwolfpackxx I hope you enjoy this! xx
I think Xiumin would be respectful, of course his band members could be intimidating at first. He wouldn’t force you to hang out with them or anything or make you feel bad, he’d simply take you out for one on one time where you didn’t have to feel anxious surrounded by the other rambunctious members.
As soon as he found out you were scared of the other members, he’d be a little annoyed at them for making you feel that way. Nonetheless he would understand, sometimes making jokes about it to a) make the situation and them seem a little less scary and b) to make you feel better about it and reassure you it was ok.
Kris would find it adorable that even though he was seen as the ‘cold’ and maybe even scary one, you were afraid of the other members. However, he wouldn’t try and make your fear seem invalid, he would just go with it, finding it funny and cute at the same time.
Being the leader, Suho would try and resolve your fear as it could become a bit of a problem. He would calmly introduce you to the other members on a one to one basis, starting off with the calmer members such as Lay and then working up to the likes of Kyungsoo and Chen. Every step of the way he would be there, holding your hand and reassuring you it was ok to back out if you felt it was overwhelming.
I think Lay would take this quite seriously, wanting you to face your fear like Suho so he could be with his members and you without you feeling frightened or uncomfortable. However, he would understand your fear and wouldn’t want you to feel bad so he’d show you videos of the boys being goofballs, having you become familiar with their personalities where you felt comfortable rather than in real life.
Baekhyun would think you were joking at first, wondering how you could be scared of the likes of Chanyeol and Suho. It wasn’t until he saw how serious you were that he would take you in his arms, stroking your hair and telling you it was ok, you didn’t need to feel bad and that like anything, you would work through this and find a solution together.
‘Awww my poor little baobei’ he would tease as he squished your cheeks. When he saw you weren’t joking he wouldn’t quite know how to react. He just cuddled you close, reassuring you that they were nothing to be scared of but that if you wanted, they didn’t have to spend as much time with the members.
‘Me too!’ He’d exclaim. ‘Have you seen Kyungsoo? The dude is scary! But don’t worry Jagi, if him or anyone else comes near you… POW! POW!’ He’d joke, punching the air, making you giggle and immediately lightning the mood as he did so well.
He’d actually be kind of happy about it, it meant you would want to spend more one on one time with him rather than in a group setting, and besides, he’d find it a little bit adorable. ‘Don’t worry Jagi, they’re not as scary so much as they are annoying but if you just want to spend time with me then that’s good too.’
To try and help you overcome your fear of spending time with the boys, he’d send you videos while he was away of him and the boys goofing around, being cute and generally sweet so show you that maybe they weren’t as intimidating as you first thought. No matter what, Tao just wanted you to feel at ease.
‘Oh Y/N what am I going to do with you huh?’ he’d say, wrapping his arms around you strongly as you told him about his fear. Kissing your forehead he’d whisper into your hair ‘well, they’re nothing to be afraid of, they all adore you and so I’m sure if they knew you felt like this they’d try and make you feel right at home.’
Sehun would be so reassuring. ‘Jagi, it’s our relationship, it doesn’t even need to involve anyone else let alone the other members. If you don’t want to spend time around them yet, or ever, then that’s ok. All that matters is that you’re happy’