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`Umar radhiallahu `anhu said :

I swear by Allah, nothing is more beneficial to a man after Islam, than a woman who has the best of character , who loves (her husband) much and (who could) bear more children (from him).

And I swear by Allah that a man who commits shirk with allah , does not benefit anything thereafter but among the worst (of things) he gets is a woman who is bad in character and harsh and By Allah from among them some women are like shackles around the neck, for you can’t redeem (free) yourself from them and some are so good who can’t be replaced

[Ref: Sunan al-Kubra lil Bayhaqi (13480); Saheeh]