reminds me of tumblr

seokjinandtonic  asked:

monsta x, 4 and 11

4. An unpopular opinion I have of this group.

  • uhhh the only one i can think of is that i didnt like fighter…. uh OH and also i this is more of a no.mercy thing but i didnt think gunhee wouldve have been good in the group and im glad he didnt make it

11. A tumblr blog that reminds me of this group.

  • literally all yall

Rape tw

I’m trying to decide if it’s helpful that lately I’ve been conceptualizing PTSD as less of an illness, which is something that just kind of passively happens, and more of an injury. For some reason that reminded me this morning of how one time on tumblr someone had the nuclear hot take of “why are all these women with blogs using ‘trauma’ to mean ‘rape’ don’t they know trauma is about PHYSICALLY TRAUMATIC INJURIES like from a car crash or whatever” and at the time I don’t think I fully allowed myself to comprehend how dumb that was especially as someone whose abuser once “accidentally” pushed her down a flight of stairs.

This has led me down a rabbit hole of thinking about all the ways people communicate the assumption that rape is not violent. There’s always this assumption that if you’re raped and you weren’t also murdered it wasn’t physically damaging! That the primary problem for victims following sexual violence is purely about our silly emotions, which is inherently meaningless to people who think that “””logic””” and emotion are separate and the former is always desirable over the latter. Few of these assholes will just come out and say “I just don’t think rape is that bad a thing to experience” but they will say: rape is distinct and different from PHYSICAL trauma. Not all rape is equally harmful. PTSD is a mental illness and who knows why some people are mentally ill and others aren’t.

  • expectation at age 13: will grow up to become the extroverted, witty, and enchanting elizabeth bennet
  • reality at age 22: has grown up to become the introverted, awkward, and stressed out fitzwilliam darcy

Just a reminder that I’m an Adult™ and if that makes you feel uncomfortable feel free to:

  • unfollow me
  • ask me to unfollow you
  • block me

I won’t get mad or anything. It’s important to make sure you feel comfortable and secure.

Send me an emoji!

💌: I’d love to send you more messages and asks but you make me nervous!

😊: You’re sweet. You’ve made me smile before.

🙏: I’m a little afraid that you’ll unfollow me.

🔪: I’d hate to get on your bad side.

😶: I’m honored that you’re even following me tbH.

👾: Your theme is awesome!

🌄: GO TO BED.

💉: Talking to you or seeing you on my dash makes me feel better.

😐: I don’t understand half the things you reblog but I support you anyway.

🌑: You come off as cold, impersonal.

👒: You come off as very friendly!

🌃: I’d like to spend more time talking to you.

🎭: You sure do get into a lot of drama…

😄: I can always count on you to like/reply to my personal posts.

🍥: Your aesthetic is very streamlined. It’s clear you’re picky about the stuff you reblog.

🍬: You’re sweet, but I feel like I know very little about you as a person.

🐟: Your blog isn’t quite my “type.”

😅: I often worry about upsetting you or scaring you off.

😇: Every single interaction we’ve had so far has been positive.

🐱: You’re cute‼︎

🌱: I’d love to get to know you better.

☔️: You seem unhappy.

😃: I love seeing you in my notifications!

🐸: You act goofy.

💻: Are you ever not online?

❄️: Your BYF struck me as kind of harsh, but I followed you anyway.

😆: You’ve made me laugh out loud before.

💔: You’ve disappointed me before.

📺: We have similar interests!

🔈: We have similar tastes in music.

🌊: You have a lot of personality.

😀: I would consider us friends.

🎀: We have similar aesthetics!

🍳: This is an egg in a frying pan!

🎉: I get really happy when I see positive personal posts from you, even when I don’t fully understand the context!

😈: I know your secret~

🌴: I’m jealous of you.

: Could you, like, chill a little bit maybe? Like in general? Please?

🎶: I associate you with a specific song or musician.

👟: I feel as though you’re out of my league.

🐚: I find your blog very calming.

👀: I’ve vagued about you before.

🍰: I might recognize you if I ran into you on the street.

😂: I’m comfortable around you.

🌈: Sometimes I see your selfies and think to myself: “I’m gay.”

🌹: I wouldn’t mind going on a date with you.

😓: I’ve talked to you before and it made me a little nervous!

👑: You’re vain.

📝: I know a lot about you just from following you on Tumblr.

🌙: You’re beautiful.

🍓: You remind me of someone…

😒: I honestly don’t know why I’m even still following you at this point.

😳: I’ve learned things about you that have surprised me a lot!

🐭: Please be kinder to yourself.

😑: -__-

👔: I think you’re someone who takes themself very seriously.

🍉: I wish we lived closer to each other.

🍭: You confuse me.

😮: I wish I could give you some advice.

💐: I have a crush on you.

😁: You’re a little awkward, but I find it endearing.

💕: I love you‼︎

👍: I like you. Just, in general. I think you’re a genuinely good person.

I’m afraid to tell you that I miss you because I know you won’t say it back.
—  💜

🐰 Sweet Dreams Usagi 🐰

And if I have to slaughter to keep the world safe for you, to keep your guard down and not having to look over your shoulder every single time you can, that is what I will do. I will do whatever it takes to keep you safe.
—  Lukas W. // Keep you safe
we’re all killers.
we’ve all killed parts of ourselves
to survive.

we’ve all got blood on our hands.
something somewhere had to die
so we could stay alive.
—  if memories could bleed, if dreams could scream | m.a.w