remember who you love

simalienn  asked:

I ❤️ you Molly! You’re one of the most kind & caring people I know. You go out of your way to help people & try to create a safe & happy place for other simblrs to get to know each other! I can’t even count the number of times you’ve been there for me & I could never thank you enough for being such an amazing friend! Please remember SO many people here love & admire you & anyone who says anything different is just jealous and unhappy with their own lives. I LOVE YOU MORE THAN PUGS, BB! 💕💕💕💕

Originally posted by takeaway-hearts

You are an angel and I seriously love you with my entire heart. ♡ I could thank you all day every day for being my friend, and it still wouldn’t be enough. I love you more than every pug! ♡

fromtheasheswewillrisetogether  asked:

Well, all I want to say is that I would miss you around here! You are the nicest person that I follow, always so kind, smart and funny. Whatever is going on in your life right now, don't give up. It will get better and I'm pretty sure you will find someone who will value the amazing person you seem to be! Most importante of all, believe in yourself, remember who you are, do whatever the hell you want and love and be proud of yourself! You are important! Keep fighting! =)

I really don’t know what to say because “Thank you” doesn’t seem to be fitting for the feeling of gratitude I want to express. Your message means a lot. 

And I’m crying again but now it’s because I’m moved by your words and your kindness instead of being drowned and suffocated by the wave of negative feelings that overwhelmed me a few times today.  


Thank you for your message, for lifting my spirit, and I appreciate it that you took the time to tell me all of this. 

Originally posted by diane-jefferson

If you remembered to take care of yourself today, reblog this post.

If you need this reminder to go take care of yourself; whether it be to relax, breathe, or eat something nourishing, reblog this post.

We all need a little reminder every now and again.

So please, take care of yourself.

Reminder: It’s okay to break off toxic friendships. It’s okay to break off toxic relationships. You have to do what’s best for you, and can’t always worry about hurting the other person. You don’t deserve to be belittled, you don’t deserve to be abused. If you are in a situation that is unhealthy for you, you have the right to get out. Please stay safe, and remember you deserve someone who treats you with love and respect.

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ʜᴀᴘᴘʏ ʙɪʀᴛʜᴅᴀʏ ᴋɪᴍ ɴᴀᴍᴊᴏᴏɴ — 19940912
A man who is Nurturing, Appreciative, Mature, Joyous, Observant, Openminded & Noble deserves only the best. Happy birthday our leader ♡ Thank you for being the catalyst and the beginning of the world’s best team. Thank you for being a person who thinks deeply, who reminds us of the world’s beauty amongst its hideousness. Thank you for showing us what’s worth and for guiding us in the direction of your heart. Thank you for being a sturdy leader, an unwavering soul and an emotional companion who inspires the people around him to do better. We respect you a lot and have a million ‘thank yous’ to say that cannot be put into words :’) Happy birthday our leader. We love you ♡.

Take care of your family, take care of your friends, but also take care of yourself, for one cannot pour water from a cup that is already empty.
—  Nicole Addison @thepowerwithin | Instagram
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Andy BTS of 5x15 (ง •̀_•́)ง

Regardless of what anyone else thinks; you are your own self. Your body was born to turn out a specific way, naturally, and you must allow it to do its own thing. There is no ‘perfect’ body. There is only a body, which is beautiful in its own right. You only have the one that you’re currently living in, remember that. Try to respect it and take care of it, for its amazing and is your sacred temple! It doesn’t matter what others think; your health is FAR more important than getting satisfaction from others.

Shower Dysphoria Tips

Okay, this is about to be a long list but I hope it helps someone.  Being genderfluid myself, I just showered for the first time in several days because of my disabling dysphoria.  I always see tons of tips about clothing, hair, behavior, and even makeup, but I don’t see a lot of tips on here about dealing with shower dysphoria.  Some of this is going to be aimed at trans*, genderfluid, and genderqueer individuals specifically, and some of these tips are for agender and other nonbinary individuals, but most can be applied to all of the above.  Let’s get started!

- If possible, listen to music.  Whether it’s on a phone, laptop, or portable radio, listen to music you enjoy, and listen to it as loudly as you’re able.  It helps me to have something else to focus on while I go through the motions of showering, even if it’s my own horrible singing.

- Use shower products marketed towards the gender you identify with. Since I’m genderfluid, I keep both “male” and “female” bodywashes, shampoos, and face washes in my shower so that however I’m feeling, I’ve got the products available to reduce dysphoria as much as I’m able.

- Have your clothes ready inside the bathroom with you. I always make sure that my clothes are completely prepared for me to throw them on as quickly as possible after my shower.  My dysphoria is increased significantly when I’m undressed, so not wasting time turning my clothes right-side out, or searching for clothes helps.

- Keep a mental list of the steps you need to complete during your shower.  1. Prepare clothes 2. Turn on water 3. Get in shower 4. Shampoo hair; ect. Having a mental list of specific steps you need to complete helps break the process down so it isn’t so overwhelming, and you’ll be able to keep track of how close you are to being done.

- Use genderless shower products.  Unfortunately, it’s pretty hard to find shampoos and body wash that aren’t marketed a specific way.  The best brand that I’ve found is Lush products.  Almost all of their products aren’t targeted to any gender at all.  Unfortunately, if you don’t live close to a store (the closest one to me is over two hours away) it can get pricey buying online once shipping and taxes are applied.   One that has been suggested a couple times is Trader Joe’s brand, but I’ve been told it mainly pertains to the west coast. Also, a more widespread brand is Head and Shoulders! If anyone knows of any more common, genderless brands, feel free to add on or message me and I’ll edit it in!

Unfortunately, for those of us with dysphoria, showering is probably always going to suck at least a little bit. If anyone else has helpful tips, feel free to reblog with your additions.  If you’re not comfortable with that, message me on here and I can edit it in.

Above all, just remember that:

Your dysphoria does not define who you are.

You are valid.

You are loved.

You are not a body, but instead you are a soul. You simply own a body. It is this body that you currently inhabit that you use to navigate this world. You only get one. There’s no rewinds or trade offs. So please, nurture your soul, and take care of your body.
—  Nicole Addison @thepowerwithin | Instagram

taurus, virgo and capricorn are so underappreciated like they are stable, down to earth and will listen to you and tell you the truth without unnecessarily hurting you??? and as lovers and friends (especially if they have earth venus too) they are so supportive and gentle i cry just thinking about it. They are also like the ultimate Loyal™ friend???

They are not boring just bc they want structure and real shit in their lives you know, they are the ppl that stick with you through thick and thin and help you remember who you are in tough times i love them. They got their flaws but they are some of the most real people out there.

Some keep their thoughts to themselves. Others have the tendency to share them with others. Which ever way you may prefer, make sure that it genuinely sits well with you. Do not keep things bottled up, nor should you purposely try to be noisy. Just do take at works for you.
—  Nicole Addison @thepowerwithin | Instagram 

Dear you

Hi…it’s me I know you don’t care to listen to anything I have to say but I have so many things on my mind, so many questions.

Could we just rewind our time together and pause at the exact moment where we went wrong. or where I went wrong?

I can’t sleep without thinking, what did I do so wrong to make you hate me or love me less? What happened to us against the world? now it’s you against me..

Please tell me why you can’t stand to hear my name or treat it like it  is a forbidden word in your secret language in which I thought I understood but these days it has become questionable.

Do you remember the promise we made to one another? the one about never leaving each other behind? well I guess that was nothing more than a phrase to you which had no meaning to you but did you know it meant everything to me?

I cried every single day helplessly begging for you to just reach out to me or throw me a life jacket but instead you abandon me and left to drown because I couldn’t keep myself afloat.

Call me naïve but I really believed you were on my side, call me pathetic for thinking you truly loved me. call me whatever you want but just know despite the bitterness you were the sweetest love I ever knew.

Hey….I know you remember me because you told me you will never forget me but I hope you remember me as the only one who loved every part of you even though you tore me apart and left me with emptiness in my heart and soul.

One last thing please love the next person the way you couldn’t love me, you at least owe them that.

sincerely
me

—  Tenari Ioapo Excerpt from a book I may write.
Markiplier's live show

Dear @markiplier @crankgameplays Bob, Tyler, and @lordminion
I just go done seeing Mark’s live show. It was really amazing and funny. I would go and see it again in a heart beat. They had a mix of every thing and it was truly amazing. The entire cast did a wonderful job. The Fan interaction was great. If they were to do this again, I would enjoy everybody to go and watch them. It was great experience that I somehow to make an impact as a fan just attending can make. Thank you Mark, Wade, Ethan, Bob, and Tyler. Your show was incredible and a night to remember.
Thank you again for amazing night.
Love,
A fan who lives in Detroit

P.S. The cake is never worth it

And one day, I’ll fall in love again. Someone will come and they’ll fill up the spot you once took. It’s hard, but it’s not impossible. Besides, you’re the very person who taught me that remember? I loved someone who shattered me, but when you came along, you erased every bit of pain that I had stored inside and you built me up again. You taught me that, I can love again. I mean, they’ll never be a complete replacement for you, but I’ll learn how to love them, just like I loved you. Maybe I’ll even be a better lover. And for that, thank you. Thank you for having loved me.
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                              Happy Pride Month of 2017!

Be happy. be proud. remember that you are valid. loved and amazing.
never doubt yourself and never let others dictate your life and who you are.
Be there for those who been there for you and remember that no matter who we love we will always stay us.

(Love you lil cupcakes♥)

oh yeah also @pale-silver-comb had one of her usual cute idea where Stiles buying pride sheets for him and Derek.

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