i had a friend who used to do the same thing, actually. it always really frustrated me. like, she’d be complaining about her house and how terrible it is, right? even though she lives in a $200 thousand dollar home, meanwhile i literally had to move in with my grandma bc my parents couldn’t afford to maintain our singlewide trailer. she also had a nice car, and a job, and plenty of nice things but she was always complaining to me. it was just really annoying, but i don’t talk to her anymore, so i don’t have to deal with it, haha.
if you really value her friendship, i’d talk to her about it! who knows, maybe she literally just doesn’t understand. either way, i wish you the best, and i totally understand your pain. <3