relationship advice

Find yourself a boy who rubs your legs, even when they’re prickly. Find yourself a boy who plays with you hair, even when there are knots all through it. Find yourself a boy you can binge watch Netflix with, in your underwear, and you haven’t showered since the day before. Date the boy who looks at you at midnight after a McDonald’s run and tells you how beautiful you are and that he can’t fathom why someone as perfect as you would even think about being with someone like him. Date the boy who squeezes your boobs and rubs your butt in the most innocent way possible. 

Date the boy who gives you headaches. The boy who is so damn stubborn it frustrates you sometimes. Date the boy who is damaged because he gave his heart out a little too quickly a few times too many. Date the boy you are terrified to lose, the boy you are terrified to love sometimes. The boy that gives you goosebumps and calms your butterflies all in one moment.

—  Date the boy that makes you so uncomfortably comfortable. 

Remember, it’s not your job to keep everyone else happy. It’s okay to give yourself attention too.


I made this last night with @pleading-eyes

oh god why did i make this

everything will be okay, okay?

Just remember. None of us have any idea what we’re doing either. No one chooses to exist. You just do. You’re gonna be okay.
A relationship is meant to be a duet, two people coming together and putting equal amounts of work into creating something beautiful.
There shouldn’t only be one person putting in the effort.
This kind of love isn’t meant to be a solo.
—  Maxwell Diawuoh, Once A Day (234/366)