red velvet cake on a first date

Red Velvet Asking Prompt
  • Happiness: Which Red Velvet member smile do you like most?
  • Be Natural: Which Red Velvet member do you think will act the most natural around their crush? Do you act natural around your crush?
  • Ice cream cake: Have you had your first kiss?
  • Automatic: Which Red Velvet member would you most likely date or want to date?
  • Somethin Kinda Crazy: Have you had your first love yet?
  • Stupid Cupid: How many times have you been confessed to? Ever rejected any?
  • Take It Slow: Which Red Velvet member would you want to be a younger sibling to? Which member would you want as a younger sibling?
  • Candy: If you and your bias in RV used a piece of candy as a way to show affection, what candy would it be?
  • Dumb Dumb: What's a mistake you have done that made a relationship weaker or end? (Any kind of relationship)
  • Huff N Puff: Describe a dream place where you would want to be with your bias in Red Velvet.
  • Campfire: What move would you make on your RV bias(or your boyfriend/girlfriend) at a campfire: a hug, wrapping your arms around their shoulders/waist, a kiss on the cheek, a kiss on the lips, a kiss on the forehead?
  • Red Dress: For each member, what would you call them: sexy, cute, or pretty?
  • Oh Boy: Write a pickup line you would say to your boyfriend/girlfriend(or a Red Velvet member).
  • Lady's Room: Do you make a nickname for your crush with your friends?
  • Time Slip: What's the weirdest/sweetest/most memorable dream you had?
  • Don't U Wait No More: What's something you have said/done when you got annoyed/impatient?
  • Day 1: Which member do you think you would click right away with when you first meet them?
  • Cool World: What do you do when a close friend is sad?
  • The Red: Do you like the red or the velvet side of Red Velvet?
  • Irene: How would you take care/show affection to each member?
  • Seulgi: What's your favorite song from Red Velvet?
  • Wendy: Whose voice do you like the most in Red Velvet?
  • Joy: Which Red Velvet member relates to you the most?
  • Yeri: Which Red Velvet member would you want as your celebrity friend?
things I want to do with you

1. Build a fort under my dining room table with fairy lights and drink wine and watch movies
2. Go for walks through fields and along the beach, sharing headphones and listening to our songs
3. Buy groceries
4. Help each other decide what to wear in the mornings
5. Wash my hair and I’ll wash your beard
6. Disney film duvet day marathon
7. Buy a savings jar for our holiday fund
8. Make a scrapbook with all our train tickets, receipts, photos and little souvenirs
9. Go halves on a Polaroid camera
10. Take a blanket to a hidden field, have a picnic, drink kronenbourg, play music and dance together as the sun goes down
11. Buy a train ticket to a station we’ve never heard of and spend the day exploring
12. Make ‘our playlist’ with all our favourite songs and all the songs that remind us of each other
13. Sunbathe
14. Moonbathe
15. Hand write each other letters to post each other while we’re apart
16. Share clothes
17. Obsessively watch a season of our favourite TV show together in bed
18. Walk barefoot along the sea shore, hand in hand talking
19. Take pictures in photobooths
20. Sing in the shower together
21. Give each other back scratches and massages
22. Write a travel bucket list of all the countries we want to visit together in our lives
23. Ride around on the tube all day
24. Buy ingredients and cook a candlelit dinner together, no matter how messy or terrible it ends up being
25. Go out for dinner at a restaurant which overlooks the sea
26. Get drunk and film ourselves while you play guitar and I sing
27. Sit in Greenwich park all day
28. Light incense in your room, then out all the lights and cuddle in bed
29. Go to museums and art galleries together
30. Try on clothes in the changing rooms when we’re shopping and give each other our opinions
31. Find a comedy club to spend the evening in
32. Get matching onesies and have Mexican/pizza/sushi/Chinese nights in with a good movie
33. Hire out pedal boats in the sunshine
34. Laughing over a DIY sophisticated wine tasting with a cheese board
35. Wander around a food festival together, filling up on all the free samples and discovering new things
36. Go to a theme park and ride all the rollercoasters at the front
37. Take a sleeping bag to a park and kiss for hours while we’re stargazing listening to our songs
38. Cuddle under a blanket at an outdoor cinema in the summer
39. Go swimming in the sea when the moon is up
40. Watch the sunset
41. Watch the sunrise
42. Go for a long bike ride around the countryside together
43. Build snowmen, make snow angels and go to an outdoor ice skating rink in the winter
45. Draw and paint each other, despite how terrible we’ll be at it
46. Spend an entire day in bed holding hands and play fighting
47. Choose a book to read together and then call each other to talk about it
48. Explore Camden together, go shopping, get shisha and drink overlooking Camden lock
49. Go on safari and to the aquarium and invent names for all the animals and fish we meet
50. Dress up extremely smart; I’ll wear heels and a dress and you’ll wear a shirt and your blazer and we’ll meet at a posh restaurant and pretend it’s our first date
51. Make each other flower crowns and bracelets
52. Bake red velvet cake together
54. You write the music, I’ll write the lyrics to a song
55. Go camping in the woods, just us, and we’ll make a fire and toast marshmallows and dance and cuddle and listen to our songs together

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First Date Tips

First dates.  My immediate reaction upon reading those words:  stomach drops, chest tightens, nerves hit me, there is so much that could go wrong!  My second reaction: stomach drop turns to fun butterflies, I take a breath and the nerves turn to excitement, there is SO that could go right!

I know what you are thinking, “No Chrissy, first dates are always scary and you’re from another planet if you think it’s a piece of cake.” Okay, maybe you didn’t think that exactly, but I bet I wasn’t too far off, maybe you prefer red velvet cake to my bread, but I am telling you that it doesn’t have to be scary,  promise.              

First date jitters come from putting too much pressure on yourself and your expectations of the date.  Remember, you aren’t going in for a life saving surgery or to take an exam, it doesn’t have to turn out perfectly to be “successful” or for you to have a blast.

Here are some tips to help you get ready:

  1. Smile.  - You are going on a date - that’s something to be excited for, you’re getting to know someone new and whatever happens, it’s a new story for the memory books!
  2. Think fun. - If you can help it, try to plan an activity for a first date, it’s easier to break the ice and relax around someone when you are having fun.  Not that an hour long dinner in a  restaurant with nothing to do but talk isn’t “fun”,  I just think putt putt, frisbee in the park, arcades or horseback riding (I couldn’t help myself) sound like much more enjoyable first date options.
  3. No pressure. - It’s not a presidential address, take a deep breath and relax.  You deserve to enjoy yourself.  Put on your favorite outfit and remember what makes you great.  You are adventurous, interesting, lively and fun.  You want to share that with your date.
  4. Laugh. - Silly things are bound to happen: tripping up the steps, getting lettuce in your teeth, accidentally talking about the fabric of life when telling a story about yourself as if you sew (yes all have happened to me and I think my fabric is polyester).  Laugh when they do! Make light of it and don’t take yourself too seriously, you are much more attractive that way.  If your date disagrees, then hopefully that’s your last date because uptight people like that are missing some good laughs in their lives.
  5. Be curious and open. - You are unique and have many special qualities that make you you.  Share them with your date!  Learn about theirs and enjoy the process of getting to know them.  Think of some interesting questions the two of you can ponder and talk about on the date in case you don’t know what to say. (ex. Why are zebras black and white? What’s your favorite place you’ve visited and why? If you could time travel, what period would you go to and why?)

Hopefully these tips help you when getting ready for your first date and keep the jitters where the belong: in the recycle bin with lid on tight so they don’t follow you on your awesome adventure.  Tell me in the comments what you think and any first date tips you would like to add.  I’m excited to start blogging and sharing more with you all. Big kiss. Big hug. Big love!

-Chrissy-

P.S. Much thanks to my friend who shall remain anonymous for sharing her first date nerves with us and inspiring me to write this post <3

Jealous (Taehyung Fluff)

Lately, things haven’t been the same. Your boyfriend has been spending a lot of time with your best friend. They would talk like you two did when you first started dating.

Making little inside jokes, talking about the weirdest things imaginable, at one point you two would have argue about whether fish had feelings. But not today.

She’s always had a crush on Taehyung before you started dating him. Sure you knew she wasn’t going to try and steal him away. But that thought of her at least trying kept popping up. You didn’t say much but it was starting to bugging you.

“This is way better, trust me!”

“No way! This is the best!”

“You’re telling me Red Velvet is better than Ice Cream Cake! There is no way! It’s ice cream and cake in one!”

“Red velvet is smooth and it’s the best of chocolate and vanilla.”

“You know what, let’s ask Y/N.”

They both came up to you, pleading the case for which type of cake is better.

You snapped at your friend, upset she’s taking away Taehyung from you slowly but surely.

“Just leave me alone, please.” They both stopped talking and you grabbed your coat and left.

You didn’t make it too far out the building to feel Taehyung hug you from behind.

He always did this when you’re upset, knowing you didn’t like when he saw you like this. It hurt him as much as it hurts you.

“What’s wrong, baby doll?”

“I’m going for a walk.”

“Great, we’ll go together and you can tell me what’s wrong.”

He took your hand, walking with you down the busy street. You didn’t look at him and just stayed silent.

“Are you going to talk to me, baby doll?”

He pulled you along, stopping in a empty park. Your eyes never left your shoes and he tilted your head up, making you look at him.

“Just talk to me, baby doll.”

“Just go back to F/N.”

“Are you jealous~”

Usually, you would find his playfulness adorable and play along. You two would act so cute with each other but now it seem like an annoying distraction from your jealous demeanour.

“Are you serious right now? I can’t believe you!”

You turned your heels, prepared to walk away from him when he grabbed your arm to force you in his embrace.

“Let go of me.” You hit his chest, wanting to walk away from him. It hurt you to see him seem so happy with another girl, let alone your best friend.

“I chose you.”

You stopped struggling, knowing he had more to say and he wasn’t going to let go until he finished.

“Can’t you see I love you?”

“It doesn’t feel like it.”

“I left our apartment to follow you, I didn’t bring a coat because you’re more important. I won’t do that for anyone else.”

“Don’t say things like that, idiot.” Your voice quivers, not wanting to cry at something so silly.

You were jealous of your best friend and your boyfriend. The two people who wouldn’t betray you like that. You were so blinded by jealousy , it was embarrassing.

“But I’m your idiot.”

“How could I not see that?”

“It’s okay to be jealous, baby doll. It just means you love me.”

We can get through this, right?”

“Of course we can get through anything.”

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[TRANS] 150711 SNSD talks about Red Velvet on Sunny’s FM Date Radio

Sunny: Is there any hoobae group or singer that you’re paying attention to lately?
Sunny: I’ll answer, I like Red Velvet. It’s because the came on our first broadcast. I was touched.
Tiffany: That’s right. Ice cream cake~
Sooyoung: Wendy personally made cookies
Tiffany: With our names written on it
Sunny: We didn’t know that she made it but she said she made it herself.
Taeyeon: She’s good in baking!
Seohyun: I like Red Velvet and Apink because when I see them, I see ourselves during those times and I feel like I want to take care of them.

Trans. by: @redjuhye0n

First Date Tips

First dates.  My immediate reaction upon reading those words:  stomach drops, chest tightens, nerves hit me, there is so much that could go wrong!  My second reaction: stomach drop turns to fun butterflies, I take a breath and the nerves turn to excitement, there is SO that could go right!

I know what you are thinking, “No Chrissy, first dates are always scary and you’re from another planet if you think it’s a piece of cake.” Okay, maybe you didn’t think that exactly, but I bet I wasn’t too far off, maybe you prefer red velvet cake to my bread, but I am telling you that it doesn’t have to be scary,  promise.              

First date jitters come from putting too much pressure on yourself and your expectations of the date.  Remember, you aren’t going in for a life saving surgery or to take an exam, it doesn’t have to turn out perfectly to be “successful” or for you to have a blast.

Here are some tips to help you get ready:

  1. Smile.  - You are going on a date - that’s something to be excited for, you’re getting to know someone new and whatever happens, it’s a new story for the memory books!
  2. Think fun. - If you can help it, try to plan an activity for a first date, it’s easier to break the ice and relax around someone when you are having fun.  Not that an hour long dinner in a  restaurant with nothing to do but talk isn’t “fun”,  I just think putt putt, frisbee in the park, arcades or horseback riding (I couldn’t help myself) sound like much more enjoyable first date options.
  3. No pressure. - It’s not a presidential address, take a deep breath and relax.  You deserve to enjoy yourself.  Put on your favorite outfit and remember what makes you great.  You are adventurous, interesting, lively and fun.  You want to share that with your date.
  4. Laugh. - Silly things are bound to happen: tripping up the steps, getting lettuce in your teeth, accidentally talking about the fabric of life when telling a story about yourself as if you sew (yes all have happened to me and I think my fabric is polyester).  Laugh when they do! Make light of it and don’t take yourself too seriously, you are much more attractive that way.  If your date disagrees, then hopefully that’s your last date because uptight people like that are missing some good laughs in their lives.
  5. Be curious and open. - You are unique and have many special qualities that make you you.  Share them with your date!  Learn about theirs and enjoy the process of getting to know them.  Think of some interesting questions the two of you can ponder and talk about on the date in case you don’t know what to say. (ex. Why are zebras black and white? What’s your favorite place you’ve visited and why? If you could time travel, what period would you go to and why?)

Hopefully these tips help you when getting ready for your first date and keep the jitters where the belong: in the recycle bin with lid on tight so they don’t follow you on your awesome adventure.  Tell me in the comments what you think and any first date tips you would like to add.  I’m excited to start blogging and sharing more with you all. Big kiss. Big hug. Big love!

-Chrissy-

P.S. Much thanks to my friend who shall remain anonymous for sharing her first date nerves with us and inspiring me to write this post <3