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I feel like almost all of the guys who’ve had an unreciprocated thing for me developed it because I listened to them and was emotionally supportive, etc., but they themselves never thought to do the same for me. Which ended up with this weird situation where I knew them super well but they literally had zero idea about who I was as a person other than “listens really well and is emotionally supportive.”

Like, they didn’t know the first thing about what was important to me, my beliefs, my family, my work, how I spent my time when I wasn’t with them. Because not a single one of them wanted  to know. They would just… never ask, or they’d ask politely and when I started to answer they’d show extreme disinterest and change the subject back to themselves.

But they still thought they loved me, because to them that’s all love is - being emotionally supported by someone. It did not even occur to them that the support could ever go both ways, and they were always bewildered about why I never loved them “back” - even though all they gave me to love was a person so self-obsessed that he couldn’t see me at all.

Emotional labour is so, so important to be aware of in relationships. It has to have some kind of balance, or the person performing it will just burn out. And a relationship consisting only of one person demanding and demanding and never giving back is not love. Love is not a demand. It can accept, and it can ask, but love listens, love cares about how its requests affect the beloved. Love wants to give back.

‘’Κάθε φορά που ακούω την φωνή σου , όλες οι νότες μου φαίνονται στείρες. 

Κάθε φορά που φιλιόμαστε στο στόμα , αισθάνομαι την μεγαλύτερη ψυχική διέγερση .

Κάθε φορά που κοιτιόμαστε ,ο χρόνος σταματάει . 

Και τότε καταφέρνω να σ’αγαπώ ,πιο πολύ κι από ζωή .’’



°Sinnerman || Nina Simone

°Sittin’ on the Dock of the Bay || Otis Redding

°Venus In Furs || The Velvet Underground & Nico

°Losing My Religion || R.E.M.

°Float On || Modest Mouse

°Wonderwall || Oasis

°Some Unholy War || Amy Winehouse

°Love Will Tear Us Apart || Joy Division

°Creep || Radiohead

°On Your Own || The Verve

obiwanton-deactivated20160420  asked:

but the difference between saying shield and hydra are the same and hydra is a nazi organization is that shield's ultimate goal is to protect civilians?????? hydra and the nazis' goals were, in the end, to create a world of mindless sheep, essentially, and they went about doing it by killing anyone who is different. so yeah, hydra is a nazi organization.

To paraphrase Arnim Zola: Hydra is a PARASITE.

They made use of the money and the man-power they got from BOTH the nazis and from SHIELD, and when either organisation was no longer useful to them, they tried to destroy that organisation.

Quote one of the nazi officers sent to take down the Red Skull’s Hydra division (shortly before the Red Skull disintegrated him):

GENERAL: And I supposed you still aim to win this war through magic?

RED SKULL: Science. But I understand your confusion. Great power has always baffled primitive men. HYDRA is assembling an arsenal to destroy my enemies in one stroke, wherever they are, regardless of how many forces they possess, all in a matter of hours.

GENERAL: Your enemies?

RED SKULL: My weapons contain enough destructive power to decimate every hostile capital on Earth. Quite simply, gentlemen, I have harnessed the power of the gods.

GENERAL: [Looking at map of hostile cities.] Berlin is on this map!

RED SKULL: So it is.

And yes, HYDRA has a LOT in common with the nazis (and not so much with SHIELD), as I’ve said in the previous post…but “similar” is does NOT mean “same”.

Point in case: other cases where someone tried (or is trying) to “create a world of mindless sheep, essentially, and they went about doing it by killing anyone who is different“:

- The genocide in Rwanda, where the Hutu slaughtered the Tutsi and any Hutu moderates they could get a hold of

- North Korea today

- Russia during the Stalin era, where any dissenters were sent to Gulags and worked to death.

So yeah….Hydra is evil, but they are no more nazis than the Hutu or Kim Jong Un or Stalin.