red beauty*

  • Mom: Why can't you just trust me?
  • Me: trust isn't the issue one the table here.
  • Mom: then why can't we watch tv together?
  • Me: cuz you're as straight as a pencil and I'm too gay to function.
  • Mom: I thought you were ace!
  • Me: I still think girls are cuter than guys!

Hey you all,

a year ago I did a femslash-fans survey for my bachelor thesis. So many of you helped me and filled out the questionnaire. Again: THANK YOU!

Today I wanted to share the results with you. There aren’t a lot of studies out there that research femslash-topics but I do think it’s an important topic. I focused my study on cyberbullying of femslash-fans and its emotional consequences. I asked people if they witnessed bullying of other femslash-fans or experienced it on their own.

Just to be clear: I only asked about cyberbullying from outside the femslash-community. This does not mean that everything is “rainbows and unicorn stickers” inside the community. And I’m also aware that not all femslash-fans are saints, some cyberbullying goes the other way around too.

And yeah of course I knew that there is a lot of cyberbullying going on but I was still shocked to see the results.

Why this is so problematic: Femslash-fans see their community as their safe-space. A lot of LGBT+ people need safe-spaces because life outside the internet is sometimes cruel. So some find a safe-space (like a femslash-community), were they can speak freely and openly. BUT even in this place they are not always safe.

If you have further questions, don’t hesitate to ask me :-) My bachelor thesis is in German or else I would publish it for you guys.

Things that cause me pain, May 2017 Edition...

Jane and Maura (Rizzoli & Isles)
Regina and Emma (Once Upon a Time)
Xena and Gabrielle (Xena: Warrior Princess)
Korra and Asami (The Legend of Korra)
Lexa and Clark (The 100)
Shepard and Liara (Mass Effect)
Kate and Maggie (Batwoman)
Nyssa and Sara (Arrow)
Amy and Karma (Faking It)
Peggy and Angie (Agent Carter)
Myka and Helena (Warehouse 13)
Tamsin and Bo (Lost Girl)
Mulan and Aurora (Once Upon a Time)
Ruby and Belle (Once Upon a Time)
Alex and Maggie (Supergirl)
Kara and Cat (Supergirl)
Sara Ryder and PeeBee (Mass Effect Andromeda)
Hope and Shelly (Wearing the Cape)
Laurel and Nyssa (Arrow)
Waverly and Nichole (Wynonna Earp)
Kim and Trini (Power Rangers)
Jessica and Trish (Jessica Jones)

i am so tired of het ships i am so tired of being expected to care about het ships i am SO TIRED of having to watch media abt men and het ppl just to find femslash material


CLEXA (please be endgame)

CAMREN (wish they’re real but they said they’re not lesbians so chill) bruh. DELUSIONS! They’re separately single! they are real!

FLEURMIONE (OMG please read their fanfics they’re so compatible)


BRITTANA (ENDGAME BITCHES! where the hell is the spin-off?)

HEYA (”maybe” there’s something going on before. I dunno ask their trailer.)

ACHELE (they we’re real at some point. Do not argue with me.)

FABERRY (should’ve happened. they made a mistake.)

BECHLOE (ugh. please let them happen already geez don’t you feel the sexual tension?)

KAYLOR (again. same as Camren they are not lesbians. *cough* wish they were *cough* ugh they’re so fuckin’ cute!)

COPHINE (ah the puppy and the geek monkey. hon hon hon baguette croissant moot moot)

SWAN QUEEN/SWEN (there’s so much potential here. Do not let it go to waste. ugh. So frustrating.)

HOLLSTEIN (soy melk, yellow pellow, jawlines, the baeman, the black cat, murder her for christmas!)

SLEEPING WARRIOR (where the heck are they?! we need more!)

RED BEAUTY (ah. so adorbs! the bookworm and the big bad wolf. who wouldn’t ship them? They’re the real Beauty and the Beast)

SPASHLEY (yes. spashley, <3)

TILLOW (y’all let’s not forget the lesbians in the late 90′s! where’s the respect?!)

RIZZLES (lesbian subtexts subtexts subtexts subtexts subtexts)

GAILLY (yass. yass. yass.)

SANSAERY (QUEENS! nuff said)

VALKUBUS (suck me dry. k. bye. )

DOCCUBUS (let’s play doctor. oooh kinky!)

KARMY (*playing in the background* what if we were made for each other? born to become bestfriends and lovers? -what if by: colbie caillat)


CALZONA (oh yeah!!!)

LUCE & RACHEL (imagine me and you. piper and lena; so perf. so perf!)

TALA AND LEYLA (i can’t think straight. too hot. HOT DAMN!)

EMISON (*whispers* shayley *disappears into the night*)

VAUSEMAN (hotness overload. RUIN ME!)

.JONISS (we all know who Katniss wants. bruh.)

#feel free to add #disclaimer #gifs not mine #they belong to their respective owners #got them all from google btw