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Protip: Don’t tag an artist’s work with backhanded compliments. “I dislike/hate X but I like the art/etc.” is a backhanded compliment. The artist drew X because they like X. So to see people reblog their work of X saying they hate X is annoying and unwanted.

To the people who I’m quite sure took a picture of my back while I was on the train and laughed: fuck you. 

Yes, my dress has an open back, and you can see my bra, and quite a bit of skin. Yes, it is low-cut. Yes, I have thunder thighs. But I goddamn like myself so much more than I used to. I’ve lost 40 pounds, and counting, since January, and on the hottest day of the year so far, I took a chance, and wore I dress that I would not have worn a year ago. If I were not meant to wear this, it wouldn’t come in my size. 

And your mean-spiritedness will not impede my progress, will not lower my self-esteem like it might’ve a year ago. Because clearly, if you feel the need to make fun of someone looking this fly, you have more problems than I do. #selfconfidenceflow2k17 #greeneyesandthunderthighs

A LIST OF WILD BABY PLOT IDEAS !!

  • a rlly fucked up age gap plot where a girl is giving up her baby ( 18 / 19 ). she goes through an adoption agency to find a couple. she ends up falling for one of the parents ( could be f/f or m/f ). lots of angst and sneaking around and freaking out when the due date gets closer because they want to be together. cold feet about the adoption. YES.
  • a married f/f couple decides they want to have a baby. they get their best friend to be the sperm donor. poly ? maybe ? angst ? 
  • everyone thinks she’s the perfect good girl but guess what ? she’s fucking her dad’s best friend. and oh uh, she’s pregnant. congrats. maybe her dad’s friend is married with kids already …
  • one last age gap … my wife and i have been trying to get pregnant for years and it’s taking a toll on our marriage. the cute intern at work seduces him. and as the title suggests, they make a baby.
  • i love you so much and i’m so glad we finally got together ( childhood friends ? exes who finally get back together ? ) … but i’m 12 weeks pregnant and we only started sleeping together a month ago.
  • the sweet angelic girl gets pregnant by the local bad boy. a classic. 
    • BONUS ROUND ! he’s a high ranking gang member and she becomes a target. oh the pain , the angst ! BONUS POINTS .. if she has no idea that he’s in a gang ..
  • the opposite … the local bad girl gets pregnant by the perfect golden boy .. he’s got a full ride for soccer and she couch surfs. they meet a party and she gives him some drugs and they end up fucking in the bathroom.
  • i told you i was having an abortion so we stopped talking. you run into me a year later with an infant that has your nose …
  • i gave up a baby as a teenager and i tracked them down to meet them and their dad / mom is so hot i’m sweating …
  • i didnt know i was pregnant ! TM .. we’ve been together for years and we’ve kinda decided we don’t want children. you rush me to the hospital when the weird pains get too unbearable and oh god there’s blood. “you’re in labor” the nurse says. “what?”

i’m really uncomfortable with bi/pan people describing their sexuality as “i don’t fall in love with genitals, i fall in love with people” or “hearts not parts”. because it’s contributed to:

1. cis bi and cis pan people attempting to distance themselves from their transphobia (always pinning transphobia on cishets or blaming all intracommunity transphobia on cis gay people).

2. cis bi and cis pan people ignoring.. hetero trans and gay trans people? do they also fetishize and fall in love with only genitals? 

3. cis bi and cis pan people implying that, in comparison, hetero and gay people fetishize genitalia and are therefore incapable of loving a trans person who’s gender doesn’t match what society labels their genitalia.

4. this toxic, deeply embedded idea in my head (and probably other trans people’s heads) that bi and pan people are the only ones who will ever truly look past my genitalia and love me as a human being, convincing myself that cishets and cis gay people will never find my body appealing let alone acceptable. 

look, a hetero girl is just as capable of loving me as a bi/pan girl. a gay boy is just as capable of loving me as a bi/pan boy. please stop telling me otherwise. 

y’all: how dare rick riordan forget about grover underwood. we want wlw in the riordan-verse

the dark prophecy: grover underwood is going to be a major character again and here are two lesbian moms who run a house for wayward kids and raise griffins together

y’all: …

y’all: so anyway how about we talk about solangelo instead and bitch and whine more about how rick riordan forgot about grover underwood and is the sole cause for the lack of wlw representation in the fandom

no guys you don’t understand ben platt just……must get dehydrated after every deh show. he spits like a fuckton, like i was orchestra left row C and i was in the fuckin splash zone like ,i got spat on by benjamin schiff platt. and he’s crying by for forever like he’s literally full on tears and boogers and that’s when you’re finally like, this show is gonna kill me. then it just gets SO MUCH WORSE like in good for you he’s crying for real, and at the beginning of words fail he’s crying so much he screams the first lines. i just. love ben platt. so much.

When you see the moon and say ‘lovely’, your words find company with those who came before. Find comfort in the shared stardust between your words, your legacy of wonder. When you pause in the sun, arms slack and hands cupped towards the sky like you could pool light in your palms, don’t you feel the tug of memory? Your sister, your father, your cousins a hundred times over have known the same bone-deep comfort of the sun’s healing touch. When you hear the night’s gentle song, sit still, and listen for the echo of a bated breaths and stilling steps, the thousand laughs and cries andh whispers of your ancestors, saying look up, look up, look up at the stars. Smile as you mouth along. 

psa i better not see that “het people calling themselves gay” post cross my dash 1 more time because YES it is directed against ace/aro people and YES it takes less than one minute  to go op’s blog and see that he’s proudly called himself an acephobe, is in no way remorseful, and calls ace/aro support and positivity posts “manipulative”. i already had to tell 2 of yall and i dont want to have to do it again #bye

just a lil rebloggable masterlist for those on mobile. enjoy!

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Min Yoongi 민윤기

- amok: threesome!au (feat. jeongguk)

- diaphanous: mafia/cockring!au

- possessive: mafia!au (completed series)

- put in work: doctor!au

- somebody else: breakup!au

- temerity: domestic!au

- transcendence: vampire!au (feat. jimin & jeongguk)

- water under the bridge: gambling!au (ongoing series)

Jung Hoseok 정호석

- coffee: college!au

Kim Namjoon 김남준

- distances: breakup!au

Kim Taehyung 김태형

- arduous: ceo!au

Jeon Jeongguk 전정국

- equanimity: phonesex!au

Other

- 100 reasons why: soulmate!au (ongoing series)

- reverence: aftercare!au

- wings: dystopia!au (completed collection)


thank you for reading! love, july