reblog this and make me feel good

anonymous asked:

Random question, I came from redhoodshood blog and she said it hurts when she reblogs thing and people don't participate or interact with her. Is it true that it hurts or stings a little? I'm curious because she said that it does. Sorry if this is weird

You aren’t bothering me at all and to answer your question, yes. 

I cannot speak for exactly how she feels, but when I consistently reblog things and no one responds to it, it kind of sends me this message like “hey Jo we aren’t interested in you, we just want the fics/HCs/ships you write for us” which, coupled with the lack of responses, kind of makes it feel like maybe 10 (on a good day) of the 1,200+ people actually care and listen to me.

Sorry if I sound like I am ranting or complaining, but to be fair you did ask.

anonymous asked:

Honestly I love your blog. I Can see where you're coming from about the DA fandom cause I agree with most of your points and honestly I feel a little scared to voice them myself sometimes because of how hateful the fandom can be. But anyway I really do hope you feel better. You've always seemed like a really nice person to me and honestly no-one deserves to feel that bad. (I'm really sorry if that doesn't make sense. I'm not so good with words today)

i try not to bring discourse onto this blog. when i reblogged the unpopular opinions post i thought there might be no harm in a little fun talking through some issues. i should have known that getting into certain kinds of mess would bring about negativity. i never wanted that, ive always wanted this blog to be positive.

but im happy you think that of me. this fandom is definitely one of the…worst ive been in for this sort of thing. but thats not to say there aren’t a lot of good people here. all of you who have been sending messages this morning, my delightful discord chat (especially @nireos @fenris-sexual @gothic-princess-witch @a-simple-bean @hennigreygoose @fenhawkk @melancolicoo love u guys) and several others who regularly message me here, are all wonderful and keep me around <3

Good Things that Happened in 2016

·         New chemotherapy breakthroughs have increased the 5-year survival for pancreatic cancer from 16% to 27% (and is getting better)

·         Scientists figured out how to link robotic limbs with the part of the brain that deals with intent to move so people don’t have to think about how they will move the limb, it can just happen.

·         Child mortality is down everywhere and it keeps going down.

·         Thanks to the ice bucket challenge the gene responsible for ALS has been found, meaning we are closer to an effective treatment. Let me rephrase that: we are close to getting a treatment for a very bad disease because a lot of people (including really hot celebrities) got wet.

·         A solar powered plan circumnavigated the world.

·         Michael Jordan donates 2mil to try and help bridge connection between police and the community.

·         Tiger numbers are growing.

·         And manatees.

·         And pandas.

·         Pakistan has made strides toward outlawing honor killings.

·         70,000 Muslim clerics declared a fatwa against ISIS.

·         Pokemon Go players went insane with placing lure modules near hospitals for sick kids.

·         California is now powering over 6 million homes with solar power, a record in the US (and that is the tightest shit)

·         Volunteers in India planted 50 million trees in 24 hours.

·         Apparently world crime as a whole has drastically declined as a whole in the last couple of decades.

·         Coffee consumption has been proved to help curtail cancer and suicide rates.

·         Speaking of coffee Starbucks figured out how to donate perishable food in a food safe way.

·         500 elephants were relocated to a better, safer and bigger home.

·         We made massive strides in Alzheimers’ prevention (my grandmother literally told me that scares her more than getting cancer this is very good news)

·         The ozone layer is repairing itself and all the work we did to get rid of those aerosol chemicals was actually worth it.

·         A new therapy developed in Israel could cure radiation sickness.

·         The Anglican church resolved to solemnize same-sex unions the same as opposite-sex unions which required a super majority of all three orders of the church (lay, clergy, bishop).

·         The Rabbinical Assembly issued a resolution affirming the rights of transgender and non-conforming individuals.

·         Precision treatments for cancer are hitting clinical trials and WORKING (as someone who’s had relatives with cancer this is the best news)

·         Dentists are once again providing free care to veterans who need it.

·         The Orlando Shakespeare Festival showed up with angel wings to block funeral-goers for the Orlando Pulse victims, view from anti-gay protesters

·         Rise Women’s Legal Centre opened

·         Death by heart disease has decreased by 70% in the United States

·         Two brothers saw color for the first time thanks to specially-designed glasses

• Portugal ran its entire nation solely on renewable energy for four days straight

·         A retiree is launching a project to transport 80 endangered rhinos to an Australian reservation to save the animals from poaching

·         An Afghan teacher has been delivering books via bicycle to villages that lack schools

·         Harriet Tubman is going to replace Andrew Jackson on the $20 bill.

·         200 strangers attended the funeral of a homeless WW2 veteran with no family

·         A teen battling cancer married his sweetheart

·         Bank firm pays for college tuition for the children of employees who died in the 9/11 attacks

·         New medicine has been shown to increase melanoma survival rate to 40%

·         Over 800 Boko Harem Hostages were rescued by Nigerian Army

·         Toys R Us is Offering Quiet Shopping Hour for kids with autism this holiday season

·         Volunteers made special tiny Halloween costumes for NICU babies

·         A 4-year old befriends a lonely man and helped him heal after losing his wife

·         Families grew

·         People survived c ancer

·         People overcame depression

·         Any kind of victory, even if it affects only one person,  is a victory

·         Now for the pop culture good news

·         LEONARDO DICAPRIO WON AN OSCAR! EVERYONE READING THIS LIVED LONG ENOUGH TO SEE LEO FINALLY GET WHAT HE DESERVED

·         There’s a new Harry Potter book

·         And a movie

·         Harry Potter has no plans on vanishing with time

·         This sweet father gave candy to passengers on a flight so his little girl could trick or treat on Halloween

·         LET ME TALK ABOUT ALL THE KICK ASS MOVIES WE GOT THIS YEAR OH MY GOD

·         Kung Fu Panda 3, this franchise is still going strong despite that its about a panda played by Jack Black

·         Jungle Book. The amazing remake none of us saw coming

·         Finding Dory. I haven’t seen it yet but I’ve heard good things

·         Kubo and the Two Strings. Haven’t seen that yet as well but its Laika so I know it’s a masterpiece

·         Deadpool. The beautiful and super accurate R-rated marvel film

·         Captain America: Civil War. Seriously is the best marvel movie yet in my opinion I need more.

·         Zootopia. Oh don’t mind me I’m just a movie that tackled the issue of racism and not only game changed animated films but also made a billion dollars

·         The Hamilton Mixtape is coming out. Which is a bunch of artists singing songs from the musical (Sia, Usher, Regina Spketor, etc.) I’m excited.

·         A personal victory for myself, I joined Tumblr and met angels in blog form so…that’s uplifting.

·         And I met my favorite voice actor at a con which was a bucket list accomplishment.

Good Things that have yet to happen this year

·         Birthdays

·        Thanksgiving

·         Black Friday

·         Moana

·         Christmas

Good things that have nothing to do with the year but will hopefully make you feel better

·         Puppies

·         Chocolate

·         Rainbows

·         Rain (I like listening to rain it’s one of the most calming sounds)

·         Cartoons

·         Kissing

·         Music

·         Friends

·         FF: If you are a religious person you are an imperfect masterpiece

·         FF: If you are not then you are a splendid coincidence

·         Any year spent with loved ones be they family or friends is a good year. Trust me.

·         ”A laugh can be a very powerful thing. Why, sometimes in life, it’s the only weapon we have” –Roger Rabbit

#NeverForgetTheGood


*Plz feel free to add other good news (even if it’s something small like you ate cheesecake THAT is good news)

*at the end of the year I plan to remake this list with new things, fixed mistakes and links but will be posting from my side blog @iamrainbow
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Things Harry Styles did on this day to make me feel good about myself:

  • Sat on his heels when talking to me so that I didn’t have to look up the entire time from my chair.
  • Asked me lots of questions about my art and how I’d made it.
  • Asked me to write something in the artbook I gave him so he could remember. (Even though my name was already in there.)
  • Hugs. Kisses. All of it.

I usually repost or reblog things about this day when I’m having a particularly bad day. Sorry if it’s annoying. It makes me feel better. 

I'm not your meme source

I’m not your meme source, I love rebloging memes but it’s so disheartening when I reblog one and then EVERYONE on my dash starts rebloging it from me and I don’t get any back. Yes, some memes you can’t send back; but if it’s a headcanon symbol meme, a munday meme, a fmk, or even a ‘tell me what you like about my rp style’ SEND IT BACK TO ME FOR THE LOVE OF GOD! It makes me feel like you don’t even value my interactions when you just use me for ask memes. And lemme tell you how that feels: not good.

Hi! I am an autistic LGBT+ person who is currently unemployed because of my disability, so my only source of income are these beanies and headbands I make for autistic people like me. They’re basically comfortable fabric ear defenders that help with overload. I make both beanies and headbands in plain (solid colors), plants/animals/space design, and custom designs! I am trying to get enough money to pay my rent each month, AND adopt this very old therapy dog that is dying and needs a good home. :-3

If you would like to support me or help other autistic people feel stylish and comfortable, please reblog!

Etsy link for Pangeamea, my Etsy

anonymous asked:

Hey rat what where the things that made you stop defending sixpenceee. I did some of my own research but I wanna know what you think

The main two things that I saw all the time and could absolutely no longer defend:

  • sheer laziness in post-making; she didn’t fact-check basic points, she got names/dates wrong, her posts were riddled with terrible grammar and spelling, and she sourced sporadically at best. I couldn’t understand why someone with such an influential blog would spend so little time on it. not to mention a lot of the posts were awkwardly worded and/or just badly written in general.
  • post-stealing; I’ve seen her copy-paste huge chunks of Wikipedia articles, huge chunks of Reddit stories/threads, huge chunks of other bloggers’ posts. she’s even done it to me – I’ve posted something and @’d her in the tag, and she’s taken the post and reposted it to her blog. sometimes she would “credit” me as in saying I found it, but she never reblogged my actual work. god knows how many other people she did this to.

These are the two things I saw constantly all the time, and the laziness and plagiarism just really rubbed me up the wrong way. Some of the other stuff also happened often but didn’t annoy me as much (but I didn’t appreciate it, either), and some of this stuff rarely happened/I didn’t witness myself, but they’re all factors:

  • the money grabbing/constant self-promoing/note grabbing; like, I get it. no one is on Tumblr if they’re not looking for notes, but stuff like “follow for my woke soul” and ““deep”” quotes I used to see on stickers for MySpace profiles were just embarrassing and annoying. not to mention the mall goth shirts and the constant reblogs of her several other blogs. I didn’t follow for that. I followed for creepy content, and I got less and less of that over tie.
  • the art stealing; sixpenceee made shirts out of a lot of art I’m pretty sure she’s not licensed to use, including stuff under copyright law. this is really reckless behaviour and while most of the time I think copyright laws are bullshit I only apply this to massive corporations raking in billions. small independent artists are a different matter altogether. plus the shirts are constantly reblogged and very badly made. it’s just more of the above: she puts no effort in to anything.
  • ableism; I’m going to admit that I haven’t seen as much of this as it’s made out and that was the main reason why I sat on the fence for so long, but the more I read multiple accounts of people saying the same thing the more I can’t turn a blind eye anymore. once enough people are saying it, and for so long, it’s probably wise to take note. also when I sat down and thought about it I do remember several occasions where she’s tagged things mentally ill people have made/gone through as “creepy”, and a lot of the stories she rips off from Reddit do have the cheap ““twist”” of “and then………… he was MENTALLY ILL!!!111!!”
  • harassment/bullying/etc; this was something I hadn’t seen when people first started messaging me about her and for a while I did have the opinion of “well she can’t control her followers” but the more I’ve looked into it the more I’ve seen countless people saying that she either encouraged it or played the victim to encourage it, and several bloggers have been bullied into taking breaks or leaving altogether. she seems to do this to people who speak out against her, or other paranormal bloggers. I get you can’t control your followers but she has so much influence that she could shame them into stopping with one post. I have a fraction of her followers (in the five digits) but even I have had to do it in the past. it’s simple. you just make a post saying you don’t condone it and to stop, and 90% of people do. if people are bullying others in your name, shouldn’t you be ashamed? shouldn’t you want them to stop?

I feel really annoyed that it came to this because sixpenceee did help me out a lot at one point, and while I’m still grateful for that, one reblog two years ago is not enough for me to stay silent about all this anymore. there’s too much evidence against her and this “pay me to be nice to you” idea of hers says too much about her that makes me personally uncomfortable. I followed for good creepy content, not lazy posts, plagiarism, and fraud. everything else I’m more inclined to believe because of that “sixpenceee heals” post, too – and the fact that so many people have messaged me calling me brave for calling her out and saying they’re too scared to do it themselves just proves the other points. it’s a shame, but I can’t pretend it’s not happening anymore. 

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while it’s still april i wanted to make an autism acceptance post !

this post is a shoutout to every autist with a “weird”, “cringy”, and mostly otherwise unknown special interests – and i mean things that actually arent liked by tons of other people like minecraft and fnaf and undertale

im talking about all of you with special interests that no one’s heard about, that have little to no fan content, that are hard to get other people interested in hearing about let alone invested with you

i see you, i support you, and i think your special interest is wonderful and unique. you arent weird or embarrassing or boring, you are passionate and individual and that’s amazing!!

i encourage us all to celebrate each other’s niche special interests. i absolutely adore having seen all my friends speak so lovingly about their special interests and ive been introduced to so many fantastic new forms of media and information !

because the people around me have had the confidence to share their “strange” special interests ive had the joy to discover so many things ??? i never knew wordgirl existed but now i wish i’d watched PBS more as a kid. i’ve learned more about trains and betta fish than i ever thought i would ever. i’ve never thought more about the pixar cars movie, pinky and the brain, and snagglepuss in my whole life and i LOVE IT

ive heard great music, movies, art, and facts all over from the autistic people i follow all about their special interests that to most would be anything but special. i love seeing all of your care and passion and i hope that i never see that end.

everyone is encouraged to reblog this !!

so some dudes have been reblogging my axolotl people and tagging them with “dnd”, and it’s got me feeling inspired! I’m going to draw some of these guys as a few different dnd classes, because the thought is actually pretty cute.

First up, here’s a little axolotl ranger! Like real axolotls, her people don’t have very good eyesight, but what she lacks in accuracy she makes up for in enthusiasm.

(see more pictures in this series in my axolotl tag!)

i hate how shitty the quality of this gif is but hi i’m a real fairy reblog this for good luck ✨✨ or follow my instagram (@yrlocalraccoon) for even better luck ✨✨

(they/them) (don’t remove the caption)

Ya know how we all kinda yell at the attractive people when they show up on our dash being hella attractive? Re: being cute, being sexy, being silly, sleeping, being dirty, being responsible, being carefree, dancing, sing, talking, breaking, etc.
I often wonder about their reactions to our yelling. 

“Jesus fucking Christ, Seb! Stop sticking your fucking tongue out. It makes me think about you eating pussy!” 

Originally posted by minmiin1d


“I swear to God, Christopher Robert, if I see another gif of you touching your own body, I’m going to go up in flames thinking about you masturbating!”

Originally posted by sassyshieldslap


“Tom! For fuck’s sake! Keep your fucking hips still! All I can think of is how good that would feel during sex!”

Originally posted by elisavonwilde

Anyone want to write any of that? Please write it. Please tag me. Please reblog so we can get someone to write some of this. 

I mean, are they aware of it? Would Seb get all apologetic? And then eat you out because he doesn’t want you to be frustrated? Would Chris just get that look in his eye and start rubbing on himself? Would Tom just move his hips closer to yours? 

Wtf? I need a cold shower. 

@mycapt-ohcapt @whostheblondegirl @frostyemma @nenyakj @sad-af1121 @imhereforbvcky @lillianfromaccounting @emilyevanston

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Hey guys! I wanted to show some love to my amazing followers and and my love for Asagao Academy by doing a giveaway of some of my art! I’ve got asked a lot if i can sell stuff, but since i cant here is your chance to nab some prints and some art!

Prints can be chosen from any of the asagao drawings ive done, and the keychains will be your choice of characters from the game! and the custom drawing prizes can be up to 2 characters! ^^

Rules:

1. Must be following me! 

2. No giveaway blogs.

3. All like/reblogs will be counted but be considerate.

Obviously make sure you have asks/ims open so I can contact you if you win.

The giveaway ends March 11!

Thank you all so much for the support so far it really means a lot! ;0;

Good luck and have fun! ^^

giveaway ended! Thank you all that participated!
this is just upsetting

so apparently my art has been reposted?? and i’m telling you it’s not a good feeling… 

why.. why would people even do this?? can’t they empathize with the artists and think how it must feel to steal all their hard work away and just.. do this??

well apparently not. where do they even find this if not from the source???

and don’t even give me the excuse that artists should feel “flattered” because no. this is NOT a form of flattery. reblogging from the source and adding cute tags that is a form of flattery. this just makes me feel upset and there is that feeling of regret in sharing my work.

well i guess it’s time to put in that huge watermark then because i really don’t want this to happen again.

~hiatus extended to [TBD]~

Why I hate Betty from Riverdale since y’all won’t just let it go. 

Disclaimer: most of the time I don’t hold a fandom against a character and/or ship but here it’s somewhat the character’s fault that the fandom is doing this shit so I don’t feel bad about it.

  • She’s really boring. Her characterization is sweet uwu not like other girls (LITERALLY watch that cover girl promo) with a side of ‘crazy alter ego’ that doesn’t even get addressed in the show or is chalked up to anxiety and stress??? That’s literally it. She’s a Mary Sue. There I said it. Her faults are ‘;o; fragile pushover hnnnn’, ‘nosy’, ect and that’s the extent of it (and the show doesnt even treat them as faults). She’s smart, strong, nice, better than other girls, down to earth, sweet, and nurturing. 
  • She drugged, handcuffed, tortured, and almost drowned a man she has systematic power over in episode 3 and the actress and fandom were like lol girllll fuckingggg poweerrrr!!! And Betty faced no consequences for doing this at all! It’s clear they were meant to show this as mentally ill but there was no follow up on that at all and there were no repercussions for what she did. 
  • She’s literally shoehorned into every fucking plot line. It’s annoying. She has more screen time than any other character. I’d be significantly less bothered by her if her plot line consisted of just the Polly stuff. 
  • Coming off that point, she tends to make everything about her. Not her character personally, but the writers. Last week was Josie’s spotlight episode but who was ¾ths of it fucking about??? It’s even worse that she’s supposed to be a main character and never gets anything and when she finally does she has to share it with boring bettys mayo ass???? And next week is Jughead’s spotlight episode and I’m guessing it’ll follow a similar pattern. Hell, if you want to say episode 4 with the Grundy shit even that was half about fucking Betty for some reason???
  • Roberto Aguirre-Sacasa, aka the head of the entire show as the top writer executive producer and show runner, has said before that his favorite character is Betty. She’s definitely a writers pet. This isn’t against Betty but it explains my previous points and hints that this will continue throughout the show. Also, the Betty slant is something that’s in pretty much all Archie canons. Ronnie is constantly vilified to make Betty look good. Even in RAS’ other Archie canon, Afterlife with Archie.
  • Let us not forget the thing that made half the fandom hate archie and call him a “fuck boy”. Betty went all Nice Guy on Archie when he didn’t return her feelings. She acted so entitled to him! And she made HIM apologize to HER?? Also she was all up starting shit with Veronica bc she and Archie kissed. Like she had those two on their knees begging for forgiveness and like..they didn’t even DO anything.
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THANK YOU. For reading, for supporting writers, for cheering us on and interacting with us. For putting smiles on our faces, for making us laugh. For talking to us about our stories, for putting more thought into details than we did. For yelling at us over sad endings and cliff hangers, for squeeing over romance and love. 

Readers don’t get enough love. So this is for you, no matter what type of reader you are.

Thank you to those who read at all. I can’t see you on Tumblr, but I can on other sites. It’s a great feeling to know that my stories are reaching other people. 

Thank you to those who hit the like button. That acknowledgement does not go unnoticed. I see you in my notes and its great to know you enjoyed my story. 

Thank you to those who reblog. You’re helping to expose my writing to more people. I love that you thought the piece was good enough to share.

Thank you to those who write a reply or comment. Your input is so valuable. Incoherent babbling lets me know I evoked emotions. Thought-out comments let me know I provoked thinking. 

Thank you to those who send in asks or messages. It makes me feel so loved to have that personal message and to hear your thoughts. 

Thank you to all readers. Thank you for showing us writers your love, no matter how you do that. If you’re too shy to talk to us, its ok. We see your likes. If you want to comment, but can’t find the words to express your thoughts, it’s ok. We know the feeling. We are so grateful for your support, no matter how you show it!

I say all this because the world of fan fiction takes two to turn: writers and readers. It doesn’t work if one side is rude and ungrateful to the other. It only works if we all support one another and focus on the purpose of fandom, to make friends, to share something we love, and, simply put, to have fun.