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Sangwoo and the guy from the gay bar

I still keep thinking about why Sangwoo picked up that guy from the gay bar. It can’t be simple blood lust that has driven him.

I’ve seen people say that he did it to check his sexuality and maybe prove himself that he’s not really attracted to men (like a bisexual in denial). That’s why first he went out to flirt with girls and have sex with one of them eventually. He was still able to get it up. Then he visited the gay bar and hooked up with that married guy, but didn’t seem much interested. His faked his smile and his eyes looked pretty dead to me when they were kissing. But maybe that’s just because Sangwoo picked a middle aged man. I wonder if Sangwoo decided to take him home just after the guy tried to force him into oral sex or if he has planned it from the beginning. (I mean, if he just wanted to check whether he’s attracted to men wouldn’t he have chosen a guy his age that is more attractive? Or even a guy similar to Bum, just in case that he has a type?) So what if Sangwoo also wanted to teach Bum a lesson? Because physical punishment doesn’t seem to be enough. What if he wanted to tell Bum that he is replacable? Sangwoo could simply go out and pick up another guy to fool around with. That’s why he picked a particular man at the bar. One that is cheating on his wife. One that is quite old and lusting after much younger guys. (Even though he said that he never had a guy as young as Sangwoo. But this could be pretty much a lie because he doesn’t want to come across as someone who’s frequently hooking up with young men. That might make Sangwoo wary.) So Sangwoo would have a good excuse to justify killing him. He was a nasty old man after all, right? I mean it didn’t really work out in the end because Bum still thought he’s special to Sangwoo (jokes on you). But Sangwoo never really planned to kill Bum anyway, he just tried to scare him and fuck with his mind. Maybe that’s the reason why he picked that particular guy at the bar.

*skateboards in

because im bisexual my parents desperately hope ill one day end up marrying a woman but *kickflips* im really fucking gay and i love men 

*skateboards out*

Journal 3 is awesome for a number of reasons, but one thing I think is really cool is how open to interpretation Ford’s sexuality is. Like, oh, you think he’s pan and got a crush on the tortilla chip from hell? Well:

“…I am always eager and ready for the next time he wishes to bestow his rare insights on my mind.”

“Sometimes I cannot believe how lucky I am to have come across my blessed Muse.”

“I can think of few times I have known such gratitude–it was almost as though he had read my mind! He held out his hand and I gladly accepted.”

“I know my true friend. It is my Muse.”

“This nightmare in disguise will seduce you with never-ending flattery until he gets what he want…”

Maybe that’s not your thing though. Maybe you think Ford is gay as hell and totally had a thing for Fiddleford  F:

“He is the only person I trust enough to share in this undertaking.”

“I am overcome with emotion. The sight of my old classmate up on my doorstep this morning filled my heart with such joy and gratitude.”

“The past few days have been the most energizing I’ve had since I first came to this town! I don’t think I realized just how isolated I’d become until F arrived, and his brilliant mind and amusing quirks have made this task infinitely more enjoyable.”

“Not only is this man’s mind superior to mine, but he has one of the biggest hearts I’ve ever seen.”

Or maybe you don’t like the idea of Ford with anyone. All of his relationships appear to be strictly platonic after all. He seems like he could be somewhere on the aro spectrum:

“Why not publish now, settle down, maybe meet someone and start a family? I laughed at the thought. Romance was far more baffling to me than the greatest mysteries of the universe.”

“She also said that my extra finger did indeed make me special, and that if I wasn’t doing anything later, maybe we could get some drinks? She was flirting with me! That clinched it. I grabbed my things and got the heck OUT of there.”

“…Dad’s suit, which he gave me after graduation. He thought I’d wear it for my wedding. I thought I’d wear it to accept an award.”

So yeah. I just think it’s really cool that they purposefully didn’t try to step on anyone’s headcanons and even actually gave us evidence to support them with. :)

have i mentioned how great jake gyllenhaal is? i mean not only is he a very attractive man, i mean look at him

but he is like super sweet all the time. he gave kirsten dunst a kitten for her birthday, had his bar mitzvah at a homeless shelter, is active in multiple charities and groups aiming for social change, as well as a campaign to make youth more aware of how their vote can make a difference.

not to mention this

“You know, it’s flattering when there’s a rumor that says I’m bisexual. It means I can play more kinds of roles. I’m open to whatever people want to call me. I’ve never really been attracted to men sexually, but I don’t think I would be afraid of it if it happened.” (Details, December 2005)

also this shirt

seriously, he deserves more credit

girls are told not to talk about how hot male hockey players are to impress male hockey fans. Basically we’re not allowed to watch hockey only for the men because it makes men uncomfortable. am i the only one who thinks this is super fucked up?

If you don’t know how deep bi erasure runs, I have known without a doubt that I’m BISEXUAL for nearly 10 years. 10 entire years. 

Yet, without fail, I will have moments where I’m like “i’m so gay.. i am sooo gay.. but i’m also really attracted to men.. i don’t understand..” COMPLETELY FORGETTING THAT I DO UNDERSTAND BECAUSE I’M FUCKING BISEXUAL!!

i forget my own sexual orientation sometimes. Me! My own sexuality!

Rhett would know. (x)