realist and the dreamer

DREAMERS VS. REALISTS
  • I live in a dreamland, but I will continue to work hard until my reality reaches actuality: Aries, Cancer, Leo, Libra, Pisces
  • I'm a realist, I try to see things for what they are and improve based on that: Taurus, Gemini, Virgo, Scorpio, Sagittarius, Capricorn, Aquarius
She looked at him and said, “We’re all the same. We are all human. We all want to be successful and have jobs and spouses and families. And eventually, we will all die. We aren’t that different from each other.” He looked at her with an expression of disbelief. How can she believe that? Maybe he was just a dreamer and she was a realist and they saw the world in different ways, but he couldn’t believe they were all the same.
“But I am me and you are you and we are both made up of our own losses and triumphs, our happiness and sadness, our life struggles. And nothing is more beautiful than that thought. We are different, not by the way we look, but because we have all endured different battles. We have all overcome a different demon.” She was quiet as she thought about that. He had a point, and God he was beautiful when he spoke of something he was passionate about. She had always struggled with herself. Always so cautious to believe in anything that couldn’t be seen, like God or love. She saw the world in black and white. But this boy who had a fire in his heart, he made her see the world in color, and he made her want to believe in love.
There are dreamers and there are realist in the world. You’d think the dreamer would find the dreamers and the realist find the realist, but more often than not, the opposite is true. You see, the dreamers need the realist to keep them from soaring too close to the sun. And the realist? Well, without the dreamers, they might not ever get off the ground.
The signs as "ALL MY FRIENDS ARE DATING WTF"
  • Aries & Aquarius: Weird dweebs who make nacho baked potatoes while playing final fantasy, they act like friends.
  • Taurus & Pisces : "we are just friends" YA OK, and I'm the president of the universe.
  • Gemini & Aries: sporty cute couple where u use half of their names and refer to them both as such.
  • Cancer & Taurus: they are still your friend, they just don't leave the house, like ever, thanks to amazon.
  • Leo & Gemini: beautiful socialite power couple who knows everyone's secrets. Every. Ones.
  • Virgo & Cancer: the whole relationship is a battle of who can spoil the other more.its sweet, it makes you sick to ur stomach.
  • Libra & Leo: the beautiful socialite couple that talks shit about everyone. Not even their mothers are safe.
  • Scorpio & Virgo: one criticized your outfit and style, one criticized your soul. Then. They traded. You're traumatized but they seem happy.
  • Sagittarius & Libra: they ditch plans together and communicate exclusively with memes. Goals?
  • Capricorn & Scorpio: they will be our Supreme Overlords™ one day, but today they make oogley eyes at each other over sushi dates
  • Aquarius & Sagittarius: super casual but yet they are always together.
  • Pisces & Capricorn: classic dreamer/realist vibes, plot twist tho. Pisces is the realist and Capricorn is the dreamer.
BTS ships to explain types of love relationships irl
  • NamJin: successful arranged marriage
  • SugaMon: supports each other to achieve their dreams but are much more self/work orientated
  • NamSeok: supports each other to achieve their dreams and are passionate for each others work
  • MinJoon: unexpected love rising from bickering and accidentally being too cute
  • VMon: older and younger brotherly love where they support each other as equals
  • KookieMonster: older and younger brotherly love where they support each other as one looks up to the other and the other looks after the other
  • Sin/Yoonjin: ultimate comedy couple
  • 2Seok: stay at home boyfriends who will cook and make each other smile on rainy days
  • JinMin: realistic dreamers who look to create more in the world
  • TaeGi: love growing from pretending to look down on someone but then realising they really just care about you
  • JinKook: love from the need to look after a piece of your heart that’s in another person
  • Sope/Yoonseok: so supportive, sunshine and clouds, basically opposites attract theorem
  • YoonMin: dark and light, hard and soft, hell and heaven, equilibrium on earth
  • SugaKookie: love built on respect and loyalty
  • JiHope: a relationship that is soft sunshine and brings hope to the world
  • VHope: looks happy and are totally in love but have heaps of problems that they’re hiding
  • JungHope: companionship to the max
  • VMin: love that grows from amazing life long friendship
  • JiKook: the strong need to protect those smaller than you (by age and height if you know what I mean)
  • TaeJin: visual kings constantly lifting each other up to reach for the stars
  • TaeKook/Vkook: young puppy love and discovering more about each other
Ask The Astrologist
  • Aries: What's your biggest passion?
  • Taurus: What's your favorite feature (about yourself obviously).
  • Gemini: What policy/morale do you have that you forego the most often? Why?
  • Cancer: What form of media makes you cry?
  • Leo: What are you a leader of?
  • Virgo: What's your aesthetic?
  • Libra: What do you look for in a partner? (Facial Feature and Personality wise).
  • Scorpio: Are you a virgin? If not: Weirdest sex story?
  • Sagittarius: Best adventure you went on?
  • Capricorn: Dream Job/Life?
  • Aquarius: List conspiracy theories you believe in.
  • Pisces: Best dream you've had?
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  • Conjunction: What's something you will never have an opinion on / rather stay out of?
  • Opposition: Something you will ALWAYS argue about with people.
  • Square: Do you ever do things just to get into fights? Like play Devils Advocate?
  • Semi-Square: Are you salty, petty, or savage?
  • Trine: What do you love about the world?
  • Sextile: What do you aim for in 2017?
  • Semi-Sextile: Have you ever done something to get your way, and not have to face karmic debt?
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  • Sun: How's your ego? Are you prideful or insecure?
  • Moon: How empathetic are you?
  • Mercury: Favorite thing to talk about?
  • Venus: Best relationship / Ideal relationship?
  • Mars: Most passionate moment?
  • Jupiter: Luckiest moment?
  • Saturn: How do you feel about commitment?
  • Uranus: Time you got caught doing something you shouldn't?
  • Neptune: Day-dreamer? Vivid dreams? Idealist, or realist?
  • Pluto: How interested in the occult are you?
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  • Chiron: What event in your life hurt you, but you learned from?
  • Pallus: How do you feel about the opposite sex as a whole?
  • Ceres: How do you feel about your parents?
  • Eros: Ideal Partner?
  • Vesta: With whom do you feel the most secure/comfortable with?
  • Juno: How do you feel about marriage, and who is your ideal marital partner?
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  • Rising: Describe how you feel you come off.
  • Midheaven: Your most "honorable" trait?
  • Second House: What do you usually spend your money on?
  • Third House: How do you prefer to communicate? By calling, texting, or in person?
  • Fourth House: Dream home?
  • Fifth House: What is your "type" when it comes to dating?
  • Sixth House: Whats your daily routine?
  • Seventh House: Would you marry for money?
  • Eighth House: Freebie! Ask any question you'd like - I'll answer if comfortable.
  • Ninth House: What religion/philosophy do you follow?
  • Eleventh House: How big is your squad?
  • Twelfth House: What is, in your opinion, the worst way to die.
There are dreamers. and there are realists in this world. You’d think
the dreamers would find the dreamers and the realists would find
the realists, but more often than not, the opposite is true.
You see, the dreamers need the realists to keep them from soaring
close to the sun. And the realists? We
without the dreamers
they might not ever get off the ground.
—  Cameron Tucker, Modern Family
fifty totally random character development questions:
  • 1. Do they prefer to wear headphones or earbuds when listening to music?
  • 2. What do they do when they're feeling tired and need to stay awake?
  • 3. Do they usually eat mild, medium, or spicy salsa?
  • 4. Pizza, McDonalds, or Chinese take-out?
  • 5. How do they react to finding out someone has a crush on them?
  • 6. How do they feel about unrequited love?
  • 7. How would they fare in a zombie apocalypse?
  • 8. Gold, silver, or copper jewelry?
  • 9. How much ice do they put in their drinks?
  • 10. Do they use Instagram, Facebook, or Tumblr? If so, how much/often?
  • 11. What's their desktop background?
  • 12. How are they at taking care of plants?
  • 13. Did they have any phases? (e.g. emo, punk, scene...)
  • 14. How did they do academically in high school?
  • 15. Are they the big spoon or the little spoon?
  • 16. How do they like their eggs?
  • 17. How do they like their toast?
  • 18. Queso or guacamole?
  • 19. What are they like as a neighbor?
  • 20. How do they behave when confronted with deadlines?
  • 21. What's the weirdest thing you're likely to find in their room?
  • 22. What fictional character do they relate to the most?
  • 23. Do they like raisins in their pastries? If no, will it stop them from eating it?
  • 24. When forced to do a group project with other people, what role do they usually play?
  • 25. Does your muse listen to vinyl records? Do they use iTunes? Do they legally or illegally download music?
  • 26. How would your muse do at taking care of a goldfish?
  • 27. Is your muse a dreamer or a realist?
  • 28. Android, iPhone, or other?
  • 29. What's their Subway order?
  • 30. Trendsetter, trend follower, or trend ignorer?
  • 31. What about themselves do they usually not tell people? What are they embarrassed of?
  • 32. What's their ideal vacation?
  • 33. White, red, or rose wine?
  • 34. Are they outdoorsy? Do they enjoy hiking, camping, etc.?
  • 35. What's their Starbucks order?
  • 36. What colors make up most of their wardrobe?
  • 37. Do they believe in any conspiracy theories? Fear a zombie apocalypse/AI overtake? How do they think the world will end?
  • 38. Do they play video games? If so, which ones?
  • 39. What would you see if you looked through their trashcan?
  • 40. What kind of videos do they get recommended on YouTube?
  • 41. Are they an exhibitionist? Do they ever change in front of windows? Have sex when they know people can see/hear?
  • 42. How do they feel about astrology?
  • 43. Why do people usually call them on the telephone? To complain? To ask for advice? To ask them to do something for them?
  • 44. Have they ever had any pregnancy scares?
  • 45. Lord of the Rings or Harry Potter?
  • 46. Do they meme? Enjoy memes? Create memes? Find them horribly annoying? How about shitposts?
  • 47. How do they go about asking someone out or confessing their feelings about someone to them?
  • 48. When do they usually go to bed?
  • 49. In the "sleep vs. grades vs. social life, pick two" situation, which two do they pick?
  • 50. What do they think is the meaning of life?
Zodiac OTPs

Aries x Libra 


Distance isn’t an issue for these partners in crime. Opposites attract in this wild pairing.


Taurus x Cancer


The hopeless romantics. Both are looking for a fairytale ending, even if they’re too afraid to admit it. 


Gemini x Aries


‘If she doesn’t scare you she isn’t the one.’ They’re both so perfect until one of them leaves.


Cancer x Scorpio


Love is always worth a bit of risk.


Leo x Aquarius 


The sign of self and the sign of others. Love is not simply reserved for the traditionalists. 


Virgo  x Gemini


Always so amazingly compatible for people so stereotypically incompatible. 


Sagittarius x Leo 


And so the lion fell in love with the… archer. Never a dull moment between this pair. Both love to travel, socialise and to be having a good time. 


Capricorn x Pisces


The realist and the dreamer. It would seem they come from different worlds, but they’ll end up meeting halfway.


Scorpio x Aquarius 


Aquarius always ends up so besotted with Scorpio, inwardly the Scorpio feels the same. When they make it, they can stand the test of time.


Pisces x Aries


Take the path less travelled.

Unlikely Duos

This was requested here.

Aries and Capricorn:

A beautiful rebellion forged by the rules and the ones who break them coming together. They create a middle ground of doing your work, and rebelling against it. They allow each other to find a new “them”.

Taurus and Sagittarius:

The realist, and the dreamer. They encourage reachable dreams within each other. They give each other a safe place to relax. Sagittarius teaches Taurus of the world, and Taurus teaches Sagittarius of the heart.

Gemini and Scorpio:

They both act like they don’t care, but care a lot inside. Some of the kindest and biggest hearts in the zodiac, they create peace and harmony. Deep conversations come to conclusions and solutions with these two.

Cancer and Aquarius:

People say they are the enemies of the zodiac, but really they are great for each other. They both know how to be light-hearted, but harsh when needed. They have long conversations and shy PDA.

Leo and Pisces:

They are the old couple who bicker and fight, but know it’s all just fun. They both offer big love, and generosity, which makes them perfect as reciprocation comes naturally to these lovers.

Virgo and Libra:

Here is the duo of private romance, strong support, and everlasting emotions. They are helpful and hate to fight each other, and even through all the little silly arguments know their love is true.

Judgement - Capricornus@dustandhalos

Setting Priorities - Efficiency - Practicality

Capricornus, (Capricorn), is one of the most ancient constellations. Astronomers from Babylon and Assyria saw Capricorn as a formidable sea-goat. Capricorn rules the tenth house, the house of social status. At first glance, class and rank may not seem to be of utmost importance to methodical, rational Capricorn, but they spend a fair amount of time considering the practical side to their place in society. To Capricorn, working toward an impressive title is not about achieving celebrity levels of success, but a marker of progress in Capricorn’s sure-footed journey up the mountain of life.

Capricorns are interested in keeping things straightforward and simple. They tend to give primary importance to realistic goals and efficient execution. Capricorns are not dreamers, they are planners. They are great at being able to avoid drama and have little to say in terms of gossip. While on the surface they may appear unemotional, these people just prefer to sort it out internally rather than making a scene. They have a great ability to organize priorities for themselves and others.

anonymous asked:

Hi guys! You are the best and you help me get my sterek fix. I was wondering if you could rec any fics where sterek wears each others clothes? Preferably Stiles wearing Derek's clothes and Derek just being dumbstruck by that. Thank you so much! I love your blog!

Yes! And we have a tag for it here. - Anastasia

Originally posted by clinicallymoi

Baby by Little Spoon (JaydenNara)

(1/1 I 1,246 I Mature)

When Stiles was fifteen, he dubbed Derek Sourwolf, and unfortunately for Derek, the name stuck. In retrospect, Derek didn’t really mind all that much, especially if it was a breathless whimper in his ear.

Funny thing is, Derek didn’t have a pet name for Stiles.

Scent Marking For Dummies by Hatteress (goddammitstacey)

(1/1 I 8,824 I Teen)

Stiles is almost used to being chased around the school by werewolves at this point. Having to share a bed with Derek freaking Hale, on the other hand, is just needlessly complicating his life.

Knot if You Don’t Knock by jsea, marguerite_26

(1/1 I 13,737 I Explicit)

Stiles never expects to present as an omega – that’s something that happens to people like Greenberg, not him. He is so wrong.

His life only gets stranger when Derek Hale mistakenly bursts through the door of his exam room during a doctor’s appointment. What happens next is a complicated series of events, including freshly baked cookies, book-carrying and surprise heats.

Alone Together by asocialfauxpas (fuzzytomato)

(1/1 I 16,277 I Explicit)

Derek has lost his pack. Stiles has lost his pod. They find each other on the high seas.

A Californian Werewolf in New York by dancinbutterfly, knight_tracer

(1/1 I 16,311 I Explicit)

When Derek finally realizes that there’s nothing left for him in Beacon Hills, he goes back to New York, gets a life, falls in love and finds his home.

Electricity In the Contact by ladyblahblah

(6/6 I 27,067 I Explicit)

In which Derek has been invited to the Greater Pacific Northwest Alpha Symposium (that’s not what it’s called, Stiles, stop saying that), and showing up unattached would mean an arranged marriage. When the rest of the pack objects, he agrees to let Stiles come along to pose as his mate. Derek is reasonably sure that he’s not going to make it out of this weekend alive.

Like Lullabies, You are forever in my Mind by possiblywonderful

(4/? I 47,944 I Teen)

To be honest, Derek’s words from last Tuesday are still echoing through his ears every three to four minutes.

Stiles had asked him if it’s okay for Derek to take a cone instead of his usual cup that day as they were out of cups because the delivery has been delayed. Apparently, the one warehouse where all the ice cream cups for the northern Californian area were being stored had a leakage. Luckily, the paper cups soaked up most of the water which, yay for the warehouse owner. But not so yay for all the ice cream shops in the area.

Derek said it would be fine, though and when Stiles offered him the tiny plastic spoon, Derek had said he would go without a spoon too. He liked licking things.

Stiles nearly choked on his spit. And Derek, that fucker, totally saw it and did nothing but happily smile to himself while licking at his scoop of ice cream.

The Dreamer and the Realist by ThePredator

(13/? I 61,003 I Mature)

Laura and Derek’s childhood was perfect, two loving parents, a baby sister that they both easily got along with, cousins, uncles, aunts, and a large family that was full of love. Despite all of that, here they were covered in blood and salty tears.

Sometimes horrible things happen to good people, but pain and suffering makes you stronger.

Already on My Knees by secondstar

(14/14 I 61,909 I Explicit)

Contention arrives to Derek’s bar & microbrewery when a werewolf wants to buy him out, but Derek refuses. He and Stiles’ relationship is tested by distance and Stiles’ new job in Sacramento.

The New Normal by midnightcas

(27/27 I 63,392 I Teen)

After Stiles gets hurt…again, Derek puts him on the metaphorical supernatural bench. Meanwhile, Stiles tries to have a normal life and make normal friends. But when a new pack comes to town and the Hales start getting threats, things start to get a little….not normal.

Never Let Go by SuperfluousEmi, Winchesterek

(10/10 I 84,803 I Explicit)

Derek shot his hand out and grabbed Stiles’ wrist. “Stiles, stop,” he snapped. He could see someone that he recognized as one of Stiles’ neighbors curled up on the ground in front of the mailboxes. The neighbor’s heartbeat was rabbiting out of control and the smell of blood was coming from him.

“Derek, what -” Stiles turned to look into the lobby and froze. “Oh my god. Tyler!” Stiles darted off towards his neighbor. “What happened?! Fuck. Derek call an ambulance!” Stiles stood there staring, blood everywhere on the floor around his neighbor.

“Stiles, don’t touch him,” Derek barked. “He smells sick and you don’t know if it could be contagious.”

between the click of the light and the start of the dream by thepsychicclam

(10/10 I 105,192 I Explicit)

A twig snaps, and then Stiles hears breathing and the rustle of leaves. He strains to get a better glimpse into the darkness, but it’s pointless. There’s nothing but a black void.

It’s Stiles’ senior year, and he’s trying to concentrate on normal things - like the lacrosse championship, spring break, prom, graduation (and definitely not Derek) - when he starts having nightmares and waking up in the middle of nowhere. Oh yeah, and he’s being haunted by a hag. Great.

there are dreamers and there are realists in this world
  • You'd think the dreamers would find the dreamers and the realists would find the realists, but more often than not the opposite is true.
  • You see, the dreamers need the realists to keep them from soaring too close to the sun: Pisces, Aries, Gemini, Scorpio, Cancer, Leo
  • And the realists, well, without the dreamers, they might not ever get off the ground: Virgo, Libra, Sagittarius, Taurus, Capricorn, Aquarius