rant on the tags

Get it together kids.

Pray tell, why must there be an overwhelming amount of people who do not understand the concept of tagging? Specifically when it comes to kpop groups. I get that half of these people are 12 (and no I’m not pulling the “everyone younger than me is 12 card” there’s hella young people on this site) but chillllllll. I don’t care for your relatable kpop memes. That, and whatever other nonsense you’re tagging incorrectly. You tag the groups you’re actually talking about and we can all live in a slightly less hellish tumblr world.

The hardest part of Season Six for me wasn’t Strdia being canon or Scott be sidelined, it was what happened to Stiles Stilinski.

I watched the show in a dark time of my life, when I’d lost a ton of my best friends and I just needed something. I connected to Stiles almost straight away, he was just like me; funny, sacrastic, but a little broken on the inside.

Season 1,2,3,4 - he was amazing, every season when by and I loved him more and more, I can say now the best thing to happen to that boy was Malia, she helped him deal with the aftermath of Void Stiles. I loved him and he was my favourite character.


Then Season 5A, it was darker than usual and it was nice to see a darker side to Stiles, but it was a cheap trick having him not tell Scott about Donovan and the fallout was BS, also Stiles beating Scott up on season 5B - I was shocked and actually slightly hurt by it.

I ship Stalia, but even I know Sciles is the main relationship of the show, bromance over romance anyday. Stalia and Sciles was tip-top in episode 17 to 20 and we had the good old blessed Stiles back.

Sometimes season 6 makes me cry, because they took this character, who made me laugh and feel special in a way and and turned him into a fuckboy and dick. They ruined Marrish, Stalia, Sciles…Etc and they’re not even sorry.

The only part of season six I liked was when Scott and Malia had flashbacks to sweet memories of Stiles….lovely Stiles. And maybe the Sciles hug, but it was all tainted by Mayonnaise Stilinski and Snake Martin.

So yeah, thanks Teen Wolf for ruining my favourite character.

i feel like i really have no trust in people at the moment, like the fact that you’ll never know someone’s true intentions really fucks me up

To everyone on mweor that bashes the mod team: We have like. Three active mods. With that small of a team it’s natural shit’s going to take some time. Calm your tits and dicks and take it up with Kah. 

Got an issue with how rarely things get settled? Ask for more mods. Got an issue with inactive mods? Ask for them to be replaced. Don’t go hating on the only mods that are actually trying to do their god damn job.

anonymous asked:

I get the feeling that Ingo and Matt were once the "unwanted children" so them fostering kids like that is making me emotional

Perhaps Matt, Ingo and by extension Emmet all aged out of the foster care system. Matt eventually found the family he always wanted through Team Aqua whereas Ingo thankfully always had his twin. 

When Matt and Ingo began to talk about possibly starting a family there is not a doubt in their minds that they want to make sure that they can give many children the chance at a stable, loving family. 

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I was tagged by the lovely @misakiiss to do this! It was very fun thank you n_n

Feel free not to do this if you don’t want to xx

@sou-samaaddicted // @kisanobaai // @jr-sih-trash // @miki8073 // @elliut-cota // @britishgirlonagrandpiano // @maliere // @inukadang // @umadosedefanta // @loorsin

If i tagged you and we never spoke before it’s cause I went through my followers list and chose blogs from there ✨

Shadowhunters

If people want to complain about Shadowhunters can they please not tag it as ShadowHunters as the tag is full up of negativity.

You can rant and rave all you want but when I go to the tag all there is, is negativity.

I just want to see pretty gifs and cute stories and see people who actually aren’t just ranting and raving about the same DAMN THING.

So PLEASE, PLEASE! Don’t tag negative stuff in the shadowhunters tag

From 'My Hero' to 'My Kryptonite'

I just saw the latest episode of Supergirl. [S2Ep13: Mr. And Mrs. Mxyzptlk] The episode just aired here so I’m a bit late to the #KaraDeservesBetter tag. I really need to rant this out cause this episode made me cry, since… so many things are wrong here.

The Luthor’s episode gave shine to Kara Danvers’ faith, her own heroism and not so on the Super part (that epic flying out of the smoke of Kryptonite had me on the edge of me seat though).
I know what y'all are probably thinking
“Great another bitter Supercorp Shipper who can’t understand that Karamel is canon”
But this is not about Supercorp anymore in fact it never really was with Mon-El. I mean yeah sure I saw that Lena and Kara would make a pretty cute couple than Karamel since they actually have chemisty and they understand each other’s pain in a deep sense that they know and lived that pain that the other felt, plus we get it they are not canon, Sanvers is.

What got me crying is the fact that, in just a span of an episode Kara went from
‘Being a Hero’ to ‘Being a Kryptonite’

And that is just like the biggest slap in the face. To call Kara/Supergirl a Kryptonite. Kara who is always trying to find the good in people, Kara who is Supergirl that gives other people Strength, Kara who believes like no one else because she knows that everyone is a hero, Kara Danvers who is scared of being the cause of someone’s pain and Kara who is scared to be feared. To call someone who deserves to know that she is a Hero, that she gives people the strength and hope to become the Hero she knows they are, a kryptonite. To call someone who pushes her own feelings aside for the sake of other people, a weakness. That is just, a big fucking slap in the face.

See me problem isn’t that Kara isn’t picking Lena, no me problem is Kara picking Mon-El when she so clearly deserves better. I kid you not when I say that I think even Cat Grant’s youngest kid suits Kara better. This is not about one ship over the other, if you guys still think, even after the latest episode, that Karamel is a good ship then go ahead, don’t fucking care. I’m just sayin that, Kara’s struggles as Supergirl/Kara Danvers and how she overcomes it, is like a reminder that ‘yeah shit happens and it really knocks us down the curb but at the end of the day, you can just wash the shit away and try better tomorrow’. She overcomes her troubles without a guy, without anyone Defending Her Honour because she doesn’t need to.

Mon-El treating Kara as if she couldn’t break him in two with her own hands without breaking a sweat is just fucking hilarious and frustratingly annoying. Him treating Kara like some kind of Damsel in Distress that couldn’t think for herself that couldn’t defend herself is just straight up disrespectful to the Girl of Steel.

Me problem is that Mon-El is not seeing how strong Kara is and how she doesn’t need a babysitter or someone to ‘objectify her’ but she needs someone to understand and be the rock when being Supergirl becomes overbearing, be the source of her strength like the Superfriends is to her and how she is to the rest of National City.

I’m not saying that she deserves to end up with Lena, cause at this point I think that I’d rather just see her do so well without the love drama or guy, and prove to Mon-ew’s narrow-minded brain that Supergirl is a force to be reckoned with, either with or without a guy. Like seriously, I’d rather see Kara be totally bad-ass and show to Mon-hell’s face that she isn’t useless. Now that I think about it… that’s kinda what she does everyday, so maybe just more Alex Danvers passive aggressively shooting comments about Kara being a kick butt lone wolf whenever Mon-El is around. I don’t like Karamel because Kara is so far from being a Kryptonite.

Kara Zor-El was, is and will always be the Girl of Steel. She’s Supergirl with or without the suit and emblem. She’s Kara Danvers, and Kara Danvers is a Hero

so last night i was rereading house proud by astolat, aka the best harry potter fic there ever ever was, & then i started having Thoughts about hp wizards being the descendants of the fae cuz it just makes!! so much sense!!!

i am perpetually disappointed by so much of jkr’s world-building but this in particular bothers me so much cause like

she placed so much emphasis on blood lines & ~purity but the only ever used it as a shite allegory for racism

u know who gives a thousand shits about blood lines? the fae. u know who goes to great lengths to exist separately from humans? the fae. u know whose society is split into groups based on personality? the fae!!

the evolution of wizarding society makes so much more sense!! if u interpret them as being fae adapting to the changing world!!!

im sick of people being so ignorant abt asian people and asia in general. we are not!!! all!!! the !!! same !!!!! some kid today claimed that the japanese and chinese languages “are basically the same” right in my face !!!!! why do ppl think racism against asian people doesnt exist!!! why is everyone so ignorant??? why are we never discussed in the media?? why r racist jokes against us a casual funny thing?? why r we basically lumped in w white ppl.. FUCK your model minority idea!!! fuck the idea that only east asia exists and there is only ONE ASIAN CULTURE. just one?? do ppl not understand that asia is fucking huge. there r so many cultures and languages and ppl and yet we r all lumped into one and our women r treated like were all fair skinned small eyed black haired delicate girls and we r fetishized and sexualized so much. treated like were exotic creatures, objects for white men. r representation in the media is shit and r problems r never discussed and im just. sick of it

if you’re stressed about your grades/future: “you are young and you will take your damn time.”

A few days ago I had an emotional breakdown about my future (surprise lol.) It’s not as though this doesn’t happen daily, but it’s dawned on me that I couldn’t even discern my true desires from what my lack of self confidence was trying to feed me.

I allowed self-deprecation to get the best of me, and it turned an erroneous decision into one that seemed the most “right for my situation.” I had a plan. But I was not confident nor happy with that plan, so I fell apart. 

Parked in front of my dad’s house, I voiced the concern that–although I thought was a result of flakiness–actually stemmed from an acute source of insecurity. 

My dad then turned around and told me something that I’m positive will stay with me forever. 

“Don’t you dare feel like you have limited options based on your past mistakes. You are not limited and you will never BE limited. Don’t rule any opportunity out right now. You’re not running out of options, you just haven’t found all of them yet. You have so much power left.

I asked him what power a teen/young adult could have, and he looked at me with so much conviction and said, “Youth. You have youth, and youth itself holds so much power. You’re only 17. I wish I were 17. I wish I had that much more left in me, but I don’t. You are 17, you are young, and you will take your damn time.” 

I initially interpreted this as a projection of his own regret. But now, I interpret it as empowerment. I think about it whenever I feel completely overwhelmed by all that I have left to do. Why should I consider quitting now? I’m only 17. Many of you are also of high school, college, or graduate school age, and we have such a long way to go. We’re only so young, and compared to our parents–people who have so many decades of experience under their belt–we don’t know the half of what life has to offer us. And that’s ok, because we have so much left to experience. 

In college, I want to explore different courses. I want to find something that’s right for me, but in order to do so, I need breadth of experience rooted in thoughtful discussion and exposure to a range of things. Although I love art, I want to obtain a liberal arts education as well. And finally having said this, I realized that whatever I thought was “right” was only only a thinly veiled attempt to evade my insecurities.

Records don’t matter. Grades are trifling in the grand scheme of things. My future job is only a portion of what will comprise the best days of my life. Bad teachers, vague assignments, tough environments–I can trudge through the difficulties and I will prosper, because that’s what I can do as someone with youth on my side. This isn’t to say that someone who is older doesn’t have the same privilege. My dad wants to continue to program, and all the more power to him!

But that only exemplifies how much time we have as people who are so young. We have a leg up, and I’m certain that we need to utilize the extra time, stamina, opportunity, and youth that we have to make decisions based on our own situations–not on what other people expect of us, and certainly not according to what our stress and anxiety wants us to believe. 

(The last bit is incredibly difficult, I know. But it’s a process!) 

This isn’t to say that I’m not going to worry and stress. I will! Hell, I’m stressed right now just writing this. But I’m improving. 

Ironically, this studyblr doesn’t thrive in standardized education. This studyblr struggles not with content, but with structure. This studyblr is really nervous about the coming year. But even then, I still have so many choices that it’d be insulting of me to become my only limitation. Obstacles are not impenetrable–not when I have so much power on my side. 

i thought that the clip where sana and isak fight about whether the answer is A or D was kind of unnecessary but now i see the importance of it. it reminded us how strong sana’s opinions are and how confident she is in them. how when she sets her mind on something nobody can stop her. she is so sure she is right that she doesn’t even want to check the right answer from the internet when isak suggests it. but now. now sana has gone and googled homosexuality + evolution. she has done some research and educated herself. sana admits that she was wrong and tells isak, because she is a good person who wants her friend to feel safe and comfortable around her.

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“we shall select the most beautiful of young men and teach them morality and how to enjoy the arts. we shall train them to be great men of Silla - Hwarang.”

COME ON GUYS

Aight don’t get me wrong here, y’all can’t ship what you like. Idc whatchu ship as long as you be safe and don’t fall into rarepair hell.

BUt if you do fall into the abyss, the one ship you should board is Kenhina. I mean, LOOK at when Hinata saw Kenma

HE DIDN’T EVEN KNOW THS PUDDING CAT AND HINATA JUMPED TOWARDS KENMA WHEN HE SAW HIM

I KID YOU NOT, HIS FEET CAME OFF THE FREAKING GROUND

ALSO

KENMA REGULARLY CALLS HINATA “SHOYO” AND WHEN THEY WERE AT THE TRAINING CAMP KENMA ASKED WHERE’S SHOUYOU

AND ANOTHER THING
KUROO SAID THAT MAYBE KENMA WOULD BE MORE MOTIVATED IF SHRIMPY WAS ON THEIR TEAM

Okay, I’m done now

if someone disagrees with you on an issue regarding race, that does not automatically mean they are racist.

if someone disagrees with you on an issue regarding feminism,  that does not automatically mean they are sexist.

if someone disagrees with you, that does not mean the other person is a terrible horrible person. 

Why do cis straight couples insist that without them there will be no population growth and we will all die out?? Like… bisexuals and pansexuals exist, trans and nonbinary people exist??

Being what you’ve conditioned everyone to believe is the “norm” doesn’t mean youre the only way we, as a species, can survive??? Take a step down and chill maybe??

i can’t stop thinking about how fucking ridiculous periods are like

we have an internal organ that squeezes out its own lining once a month and we just like

take a painkiller, stuff a wad of cotton up our vagina, and go on with our daily lives

is that badass or what