Ricky and Amy

Is anyone else sick of people saying that the only reason people like Ricky and Amy together is because they have a child? It’s more than that you dumbasses it’s because they’ve actually had development thanks to each other and they actually seem genuine when they’re together and they truly seem like they love each other. John is just their child they conceived one night at band camp that’ll forever keep a bond between the two. But the bond they share together as two people seems like more of a reason to ship them rather than them just having a child together. The people that keeps spatting that bull shit please shut the fuck up and grow the hell up!

colestclair  asked:

I think Ricky likes to put Adrian completely out of his mind and heart because he feels too much for her. And Adrian does the same but she's more in denial about their relationship. It's heartbreaking. Hopefully all this will be worth it!

I agree. After he nearly cried when he found out she was pregnant with Ben’s baby, I think he just compartmentalized his feelings for her and focus on Amy. (Actually, I feel Amy did the same thing. She was so happy with Ben, but then when she found out Adrian was having his baby, she decided it would be easier to settle for Ricky.) But the fact that they know each other back to front and they were so passionate about one another can’t be hidden, no matter how “comfortable” Ricky wants to be. Comfort in this context is code for settling and I hope that’s not how the show ends their lives.

10 questions about Secret Life Of The American Teenager

1. The first character I first fell in love with:

Amy Juergens. I was totally rooting for her in the first season.

2. The character I never expected to love as much as I do now:

Adrian Lee. That flawless bitch is my favorite character now, but during the first few episodes I kinda hated her.

3. The character everyone else loves that I don’t:

Amy Jeurgens. lol. I totally contradicted my first answer, but I fucking hate Amy now. Her character has been ruined for me. All she does is whine and complain about how terrible her life is. And I feel like she’s just using Ricky, tbh. Plus, she thinks she’s hot shit now just because she’s a mom, but she acts more childish than anyone else on the damn show.

4. The character I love that everyone else hates:

Adrian Lee. Like I said before, I love that flawless bitch. She’s too incredible. Everyone needs to calm the fuck down with the hate on her, she’s amazing and you all just need to accept it.

5. The character I used to love but don’t any longer:

Amy Jeurgens. Ugh. Honestly can’t stand the bitch anymore.

6. The character I would totally smooch:

Ricky Underwood, that beautiful fucking BAMF.

7. The character I’d want to be like:

A combination of Adrian and Ashley because they both don’t give a fuck what anyone says or if you like them or not. I wish I could be like that.

8. The character I’d slap:

Amy, Madison, Lauren, Ricky (for choosing to be with Amy instead of flawless Adrian), Grace (because she went from being a bible thumper to a whore in like 2.5 seconds), Oh, and that new Dylan chick cause I can already tell she’s going to annoy me.

9. A pairing that I love:

Ricky & Adrian. Radrian are my babies and I will never stop loving them together.

10. A pairing that I despise:

Ricky & Amy. That pairing can go die in a hole, tbh.

MAH OPINION on TSL and relationships

Ok so i wrote this when i replied to someone.. thought i could use it as a post too :)

I might not end up shipping the most popular things (lol dunno why) i guess there are things in a couple that drives me more than just going with the rest and all that.. Ok so I never understood why they had to screw up Ben and amy’s relationship like that in the first place.. the first seasons while they were together, they were working for me. I just never understand the need of writers to just end good things out of nowhere( hate when they do that) anyway. What pissed me off all the time was that they liked to mess with Ben’s character each time… making him look bad, annoying, creepy at some point just to put ricky and amy in a pedestal. Amy was too annoying for me and she was less annoying while she was with Ben, she complaint less. With Ricky there was always this unnecessary drama and trust issues i just couldnt keep up with that relationship because in the long run they couldnt prove me WHY they were in love with each other, other than the fact that they had John in common. And i know that most people shipped them because people are sucker for this happy family romances. But it’s not good enough for me. I admit at first when i saw them kiss in the chicken.. i was a little intrigued  (you know the how would it be like thing) but that soon ended…they always gave me the vibe that they got together and try to work out and get married because they had a child together..nothing more and i was never here for that.


Ricky’s relationship with Adrian in the first seasons was 100%more realistic to me.. and they were actually building a foundation together. When two people as lost as them were opening up about their demons with each other. Seeking help. Ricky’s toughest times about his child abused he shared that with Adrian.. he went through with it with Adrian and they got over it TOGETHER.. I was actually buying it. They gave me reasons as to WHY they could start something big. Not Ramy. Basically they just had a one night stand. Didn’t care about each other until that night in NY and they were already confessing their love , willing to start a relationship out of nowhere (because of john) and you had Ricky do an 180. Dont get me wrong i like and admire character development and change for the better… but it’s just easier for  me to buy it when it’s not in a matter of a day just to fit Amy’s character . Again the slow development he was getting with Adrian was realistic to me ( until the writers fucked that up too). And they had Adrian be this obsessive over him later.. again what they liked to do with Ben all the time to bring Ramy up.

Overall. I didnt like the relationships in this show. The first ones where doing it for me and i dont know why they had to screw it up to a point where it was impossible to go back to it later ( ex Radrian) and Bamy at some point.

I didnt like Bendrian though to be honest because the writers came up  with it because of the baby too.. i just never understood why they got married if they werent in love … i get that they wanted to give it a chance.. but it takes more than making babies to work together.

Thats just my opinion of course :)


let me be clear…it’s not that I don’t ship Radrian. I will always have a special place in my heart for Rose and Adrian because I just want ADRIAN to be happy, and at that moment, it was Rose who made him happy(or so he thought…). 

When she broke his heart the way she did…(using him as a way to get Dimitri out of her head) I started to dislike her. But I still love her, I loved reading VA through her POV. and that would never change.

However; I was in love with Sydney when I first met her, I mean, I don’t know if it was her anti-social behavior, or the way she was able to overlook years of brainwashed-ness to help a Dhampir. Time and Time again.

I can not stand when people say “I can not stand the idea of Sydrian because Rose and Adrian are my OTP.” thus enforcing their “not reading Bloodlines.” stand. I mean, that’s fine, do what you please, but when I see people trying to knock Sydney, and dilute what Adrian feels for her by claiming it as a “distraction to forget Rose.” like…really?

When Adrian Ivashkov said:

I tried to be a better person for her– but it was to impress her, to get her to want me. But when I’m around you, I want to be better because… well, because it feels right. Because I want to. You make me want to become something greater than myself. I want to excel. You inspire me in every act, every word, every glance. I look at you, and you’re like… like light made into flesh. […] You have no clue how beautiful you are or how brightly you shine.

That was the moment I lost my shit. I mean, I was already so far in love with Sydrian, but when he explained the difference between his love for Sydney and Rose…I. Lost. It. 

I’m not denying what he felt for Rose, because what he felt for her was real. So real. and she destroyed him. I remember in Bloodlines how…miserable he was, how quiet he was, and then Sydney started coming around and eased some of his pain by simply being.

and someone said Adrian and Sydney don’t have cute moments…how would you know if you refuse to read the books? I mean to say “Sydney and Adrian aren’t as cute as Adrian and Rose.” but you have not read the books. .

Anyways; I think arguing this is invalidated by who Rose chose (lol, say that out loud.) and really, Adrian’s happiness should be top priority after what Rose did to him.

30 day ship challenge

Day 21: A pairing you like and no one else understands why.

RADRIAN.  I ship them so hard.  Everyone thinks they are just about the sex, but just look at the gif, it is obviously not.  And you know what bugs me?  Is anytime there is a couple who has a lot of really great, hot, sex that everyone says “oh it is just about the sex!"  No.  False.  Sex adds to a relationship.  And sex is made 10 times better by the emotional connection, which is why I think Radrian kept sleeping together.  If it was just about the sex they wouldn’t keep coming back to each other.  They each had many other people they could be with.  They loved each other, but didn’t want to admit it because of their pasts.  Plus I just need to mention how much I can’t stand Ramy.  Mostly because of Amy.  Adrian may be selfish but at least she knows it.  Amy is selfish and childish and blames everything on other people instead of taking responsibility for anything.  I think it is great that her and Ricky get along for the sake of John, however.  I think that them being FRIENDS is the best thing for them.  Amy almost never seems happy in ANY episode she is ALWAYS complaining about something.  Just my opinion. 


#secretlife random thought of the day!@abcfsecretlife

although I love all the scenes that Daren and Francia share, and see all that come of both merrily in the new episodes.

The misconception that in the promos look like a Ben and Amy back, that I am not happy and I explain why.

I honestly dont think that Amy and Ben back, not that they end up together, at least. But if that were possible, doesnt mean at all that Ricky and Adrian get together, just the opposite. to how things are in the absence of 12 episodes, would put adrian near Omar and even end with him (bc her concern that Ben is happy is very evident in recent aired episodes), and the strange friendship with awkward moments of ricky with clementine it is more than annoying to me.

I would like to see a Ricky / Adrian reunion but I dont see that happening. So I just hope that the end is really good and not include unnecessary characters like Omar, Clementine or Dylan, etc..

Five ships you’re into right now (In no order)

01.  Sam Puckett & Freddie Benson (iCarly)

02.  Aria Montgomery & Ezra Fitz (Pretty Little Liars)

03.  Gwen Stacy & Peter Parker ( Amazing Spiderman)

04.  Spencer Hastings & Toby Cavanaugh (Pretty Little Liars)

05.   Hermione Granger & Ron Weasley (Harry Potter)

Four ships you liked, but don’t anymore. (these are really hard)

06. Spencer Hastings & Wren Kingston ( Pretty Little Liars) 

07.  Spencer Hastings & Alex forgot his last name (Pretty Little Liars)

08.  Emily Fields & Maya St. Germaine (Pretty Little Liars)

09.  Hanna Marin & Sean Ackard (Pretty Little Liars)

Three ships you never liked.

10.  Emily Fields & Paige Mcculers (Pretty Little Liars)

11.  Amy Jerguens & Ricky Underwood (Secret Life of the American Teenager)  

12.  Hermione Granger & Draco Malfoy (Harry Potter)

Two ships you’re curious about, but don’t actually/almost ship.

13.  Adrian Lee & Omar don’t know his last name (Secret Life of the American Teenager)

14.  Alice & Henry (Secret Life of the American Teenager)


1.  Why do you dislike #11 so much?

because Amy is the biggest fucking annoying bitch ever and she’s so ungrateful about everything and she doesn’t deserve Ricky AT ALL. and Ricky should be with Adrian cause they’re flawless together

2.  Who is someone you know that ships #14?

 I honestly don’t know anyone who ships them lol

3.  What would be your ideal scenario for couple #3?

Peter says to hell with what Gwen’s dad said before he died and they get back together <3

 4.  Which is your favorite moment for couple #1?

at the end of iLost My Mind when they kiss and Sam’s all “You mean that?” & Freddie’s all “Mhm, so I guess we’re both insane.” fvkdjshgfjkoqwamsklgvhreoifjklewsndbfigjkl <3

5.  How long have you been following couple #5?

Since I was 6 lol

6.  What’s the story with #8? What made you stop liking them/caring?

Um, Maya died. That’s pretty much it tbh now that Maya’s dead I want Emily with Samara

7.  You have the power to make one ship non-existent. Choose from #10 or #12 

number 10, DEFINITELY. Paige just need to GTFO

8.  Which ship do you prefer, #2 or #4?

Ezria but omg I really love Spoby too 

9.  What interests you about #14?

they’re always having drama and i like drama lol

10.  Why did you stop liking #7?

Because Toby

 11.  Did your waning interest in #9 kill your interest in the fandom?


12.  What’s a song that reminds you of #5?

The Meaning Of Lonely by Oliver Boyd & the Remembralls

13.  If you could have any of these two pairings double-date, who would it be?

number 2 and number 4 because that would be a flawless scene to see on the show

14.  Have #2 kissed yet?

lol yes <3

15.  Did #4 have a happy ending? If the show hasn’t ended yet, do you think a happy ending is likely?


16.  What would make you start shipping #13?

um idk i don’t hate them i just think Adrian and Ricky are better for each other

17.  If only one could happen, which would you prefer, #2 or #5?

why is this a question fbhjfdheiwhjgfpiwejfoper idk i love them both i refuse to choose ok

18. You have the power to decide the fate of #10. What happens to them?

Paige dies and Samara comes and her and Emily live happily ever after. yup.

19. Which of these ships do you love the most?

omg NO. idk gbjfodpfkcepw[jfgoperngopfdjkoewpf tie between Ezria & Seddie and i will not choose between those two ok

5 OTPs (Secret Life Edition)

Radrian (Ricky x Adrian, they will always have my shipper heart, even if Ramy is growing on me)

Bamy (Ben x Amy)

Jace (Grace x Jack)

Halice (Henry x Alice, i don’t have any gifs of them but they have always been my favorite couple since season one and that’s not going to change because they broke up)

Gracian (Grace x Adrian, finally some femslash on Secret Life and my two favorite girls no less)