NTAMW compares being raped and abused by men to women not fucking/dating him. WHY WOULD THAT BE THE FIRST THOUGHT TO COME TO YOUR MIND WHEN YOUR FRIEND TALKS ABOUT BEING RAPED AND HOW MUCH IT'S HURT HER???? I was never a person in any capacity to this man, was I??
Men like this don’t take abuse, rape or sexual harassment seriously. He’s probably the type of guy who would say he wishes he could get that kind of “attention” because to him these things and the loss of control that comes with them are nowhere near his radar. You are correct that he does not see you as a person
I went to a fabric swap on Saturday and managed to get rid of a lot of stuff I had set aside for projects that have fallen off my radar. (Like winter garb for Kaskara before she faked her death…) And I picked up a lot of things I should be able to use for my Bico garb.
Apparently I have a thing for leather belt skirts… they should be good to mix and match with the tunics, skirts and pants That are on the list.