tbqh, seeing all the stuff where ppl make lance say "papi/mami" in a sexual way is so gross!! like, i'm latinx and i know for a fact that 99% of all latin spanish-speaking households use "mami" and "papi" as terms of endearment and affection!! not in a sexy or kinky way!! like, those are usually nicknames towards their children!!!!
it’s so gross!! it’s a mix of daddy kink, racism, and fetishization and those are all gross on their own but then mixed… askdfjlasdkfj ugh