madame-raccoon asked:

I'm allosexual and idk if this helps at all but like - I know I'm sexually attracted to someone not just when touching them makes me physically aroused because bodies are weird and can get aroused by loads of things. It's when I actually want to do sexual things with them. Like if I think about having sex with them, it makes me happy, it gets me going, vs thinking about sex with someone (even someone I think is hot) and going "ehhh not feeling it".

thank u for you input <3333