We all crave for love. Even not all of us will admit it, I know deep in ourselves, there is longing for someone to love you, someone to take care of you. We all think that only love can heal our brokenness. We are always looking for someone who can fill the emptiness in our hearts. We spent all our life looking for that someone that will complete the missing part. Sometimes, I wonder if it is really love? Or you just like the idea that someone is taking care of you? Someone is giving you much attention and somehow you feel important, you realized your worth. And that’s why it’s hard for you to let go, even if you have to. Because you’ll always miss that feeling, that feeling of being loved. I wonder if we only give back love just because we feel obliged? We do not realize that before we could love others, we should love ourselves first, because you cannot give what you do not have. How can you give back love if you don’t have any of it for yourself? That’s the most important thing we need to learn in life, our first love should be ourselves, and the rest will follow.