quote about life

It’s not that I don’t love you it’s just that when I was three I watched my father violently sob while packing a blue duffle bag and when I asked him where he was going he croaked out ‘your mother doesn’t love me anymore’ the sun in his eyes set that night and I’ve yet to see it rise again.

It’s not that I don’t love you it’s just that when I was six my grandfather lost his sanity over my grandmother and left a voicemail on our home phone screaming for my mother to give him his guns back― he went away for a while and I’m not sure if he’s ever coming back.

It’s not that I don’t love you it’s just that when I was nine my third grade teacher found out her husband was unfaithful to her and she was so distraught that she had to leave work for a few months. When she came back her smile was tightly knit to her face, but I saw the tears that permanently stained her cheeks raw like a ripe pomegranate and the way her hands shook with uncertainty.

It’s not that I don’t love you it’s just that when I was thirteen my sister’s boyfriend told her he didn’t want to be with her anymore so she stopped eating dinner and starting painting her eyes black. I guess she decided that if she didn’t look like the girl who fell in love with him she wouldn’t feel like her either.

It’s not that I don’t love you it’s just that for ten years straight I watched my step father break my mothers spirit with his words and the only time he ever touched her was to leave dark velvet bruises upon her skin― she stayed with him because she said being financially stable is more important than being mentally stable. I guess the apple never does fall too far from the tree, does it mother?

It’s not that I don’t love you, It’s just that I do.

—  please understand that I’m afraid of loving you
You cry and you cry until you think you can’t cry anymore.
Then you cry some more.
—  The Normal Heart

“Life is funny isn’t it? Just when you think you’ve got it all figured out, just when you finally begin to plan something, get excited about something, and feel like you know what direction you’re heading in, the paths change, the signs change, the wind blows the other way, north is suddenly south, and east is west, and you’re lost. It is so easy to lose your way, to lose direction.

Cuộc đời buồn cười thật đấy nhỉ? Ngay khi bạn nghĩ bạn đã thông suốt về mọi thứ, ngay khi bạn cuối cùng cũng đã bắt đầu lên kế hoạch cho việc gì đó, ham thích nó và cảm thấy như bạn biết mình đang đi về đâu, thì con đường đột ngột đổi hướng, các dấu hiệu thay đổi, cơn gió thổi đi chiều khác, phía Bắc bỗng dưng thành phía Nam, phía Đông thành phía Tây và bạn lạc lối. Thật dễ lạc đường, thật dễ mất phương hướng.”

● Love, Rosie - Cecelia Ahern

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