futch: a lesbian who has feminine looks but masculine dress and/or style. femme + butch = futch
Stud: a dominant lesbian, usually butch.
Stem: A stem is a lesbian who identifies somewhere between “stud” and “femme.”
Chapstick lesbian: A tomboy lesbian. Doesn’t quite fit the stud or femme description. Usually in between the two extremes. A lesbian who wears Chapstick rather than lipstick.
Lipstick lesbian: A lipstick lesbian is a woman who loves other women, but also loves her clothes and makeup and shoes. She tends to dress on the femmy side
Lipstick Mafia: Group of (generally Femme) lesbians who either 1) work to recruit new lesbians into the lesbian community or 2) form a close-knit protective circle around members of their group of friends. Move over, Sopranos!
Squid: a lesbian covered in tattoos who emulates the tattoo/alternative style (the hipster of lesbians)
Bambisexual: lesbian slang from 1989 book,Physical interaction centred more about touching, kissing, and caressing than around genital sexuality. (x)
Kiki: 1940s slang for a lesbian comfortable with either a passive or aggressive partner.
*Depending on who you’re talking to these terms can have slightly different differentiations or mean slightly different things (p.s. pls add on terms you know!)