Sunday simple white and blue

In really hot days light colors are the best to contradict the heat. 

I have lots of trouble finding the right size shorts. In male sections of stores they are usually too big, or too long for me. I found these in Primark (I really don’t want to promote this store and I advise you to not buy there, this is just an indication where I got these and due to not having much money at the time) they are from the male section and fit perfectly. 

I also really like these shoes. They are a hand me down from a friend that stopped loving them so I now am responsible to give them all the love. They are a bit pointy but are super comfortable. From SEASIDE.

The bottom down is from Springfield and the bracelet from a street market. 

Have a great summer <3

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Not sure how I missed this in October but great things happened on @dannielle Owens-Reid’s Youtube challenge.  

Andro / Tomboy Fashion Humans - 

Ari Fitz YT - http://bit.ly/arifitzYT
Ari Fits IG - http://bit.ly/arifitzIG
Sage Aflocka - http://bit.ly/sageaflocka 
Tomboy / Femme - http://bit.ly/tomboyfemme @tomboyfemme
The Curvy Lesbian - http://bit.ly/curvylesbian @curvylesbian
Switch Teams - http://bit.ly/switchteams @switchteams
Brooklyn Breed -http://bit.ly/brooklynbreed @brklynbreed
Queering Style - http://bit.ly/queeringstyle @queeringstyle
Qwear - http://bit.ly/qwearfashion @qwear
I Dream of Dapper - http://bit.ly/dreamofdapper @i-dream-of-dapper
The Handsome Butch - http://bit.ly/handsomebutch @thehandsomefeminist
Dapper Q - http://bit.ly/dapperq @dapperq
Kipper Clothiers - http://bit.ly/kipperclo @kipperclothiers

Thanks, Dannielle, for putting this together. I think you’re pretty damn swell.

Check out @everyoneisgay and their book “This Is a Book for Parents of Gay Kids”

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Once you get this, you must share 5 random facts about yourself. Once you've done that you must send this to 10 of your favourite followers! (:

  1. I’ve only had this vest for a few hours and it is now completely covered in cat hair.
  2. I can bend my thumbs backward until they touch my arms, but mostly just the left one. The right one lost flexibility during the time I had to wear a cast after I broke my arm in first grade.
  3. I cut my own hair but not nearly so often as I ought because it’s a pain in the ass and I hate sweeping.
  4. I grow orchids and I’m almost getting good at it. (Except phals, I suck at phals.)
  5. If I ever stop being lazy, I’m gonna make some tie bars to put in the shop.
QueeringStyle: Clothing labels you should checkout!

Some time ago I posted a guide on 9 Androgynous clothing labels. As I researched more and more, some of them had things happening, others were just not happening at all, other links simply didn’t exist. So I put together this list of queer, androgynous, LGBT oriented, dapper featuring brands that I love and follow. 

GeminiApparel http://www.geminiapparel.bigcartel.com/
facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Gemini-Apparel-1490316531225534/

Androgynous Fox http://www.androgynousfox.com/
facebook: https://www.facebook.com/androgynousfox

Haute Butch http://www.hautebutch.com/

Stuzoclothing http://www.stuzoclothing.com/
facebook: https://www.facebook.com/stuzoclothing?ref=bookmarks

Bluegirlpinkboy http://bluegirlpinkboy.storenvy.com/
facebook: https://www.facebook.com/BlueGirlPinkBoy/

House of Alexander http://elliottalexzandersthriftshop.bigcartel.com/
facebook: https://www.facebook.com/houseofalexzander/

androgyny http://www.wearandrogyny.com/#
facebook: https://www.facebook.com/wearandrogyny

Veer http://veernyc.com/
facebook: https://www.facebook.com/veernyc

androgynousfashion http://www.androgynousfashion.com/
facebook: https://www.facebook.com/androgynousfashion/?fref=ts

Proudanimals http://www.proudanimals.bigcartel.com/

FITF http://www.futureisthefuture.com/

Closetsareforclothes http://www.closetsareforclothes.org/
facebook: https://www.facebook.com/closetsareforclothes.org?_rdr=p

charlieboy http://www.charlieboy.net.au/

DapperBoi http://www.dapperboi.com/
facebook: https://www.facebook.com/dapperboiclothing

Deconstructinggender http://deconstructapparel.tumblr.com/
insta: https://www.instagram.com/deconstructinggender/

WhatisButch http://whatisbutch.com/


Sharpe Suiting http://www.sharpesuiting.com/

Kipper Clothiers http://www.kipperclothiers.biz/
facebook: https://www.facebook.com/KipperClothiers?ref=hl

Saint Harridan http://saintharridan.com/
facebook: https://www.facebook.com/SaintHarridan/


CottonBowtieCo https://www.etsy.com/shop/cottonbowtieco
facebook: https://www.facebook.com/CottonBowTieCo/

Love your feet socks http://lyfsocks.com/
facebook: https://www.facebook.com/LoveYourFeetSocks?directed_target_id=0

Dappercrow https://www.etsy.com/ca/shop/TheDapperCrow
facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheDapperCrow/

DapperQTdesigns https://www.instagram.com/dapperqtdesigns/
facebook: https://www.facebook.com/dapperqtdesigns/?fref=nf 

QueerandBrown http://queerandbrown.com/
loja: http://queerandbrown.com/shop/

BRKLYN http://www.thebrklynstore.com/
Tumblr: http://thebrklynstore.tumblr.com/

Thegreenflamingoties http://bbyhoffer.wix.com/thegreenflamingo
facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thegreenflamingodesigns/

BowlineCo http://www.bowlineco.com/

BoiSociety http://boisociety.com/

Acouturebowtie http://acouturebowtie.storenvy.com/

ProSac https://www.facebook.com/prosac.alwaysmile

Alljackedup http://www.alljackedup.ca/


TomBoyx http://tomboyx.com/facebook:https://www.facebook.com/tomboyx

RodeoHS http://rodeoh.com/
facebook: https://www.facebook.com/RodeoHs

PlayOut http://playout-underwear.com/store/

Isy B.Shoes https://www.facebook.com/IsyBShoes/

nikkacy http://www.nikkacy.com/
facebook: https://www.facebook.com/nikkacyfootwear 

Shoeembassy https://www.shoeembassy.com/

Clothing Projects:

Support your Brothers 



Fuck your Gaze



From Portugal 

Syrbymonstrosecompanhia http://monstrosdecompanhia.wix.com/monstrosdecompanhia

Undecided http://www.undecided.pt/

KAHUMBI https://www.facebook.com/Kahumbi-172603709430762/?fref=ts


Pink and Grey

I wanted to talk about wedding outfits and looking at my wardrobe I came up with this. 

It is quite simple and almost like a starting point to what it can be. You can add a bow tie, instead of pants try a pair of grey shorts. You can also add black suspenders and really take it to the next level. <3

Have a great wedding season everyone. =) 




Blazer: Bershka

Button up: Springfield

Pants: Zara (boys)


Ring: BrancoPrata


Floral patterns and colour 

If you haven’t noticed yet, I love floral patterns. I think they are the best in shirts, pants and in details. 

When spring comes with sun and all the flowers I tend to use a bit more colour than in the fall/winter. It makes everything a bit brighter.

I find floral patterns give an outfit a different, playful feel. I am wearing a floral tie from Primark and a pink/salmon blazer from Bershka. The pants are from Zara and the button up from Benetton. The suspenders/braces are from H&M, cheap and simple to use.  

My shoes are from my favorite shoe place, Shoe embassy and the socks from a street market.

Enjoy spring everyone. 




Sometimes grey days inspire grey outfits. 

This is an outfit I get in conflict with I never know If I go for a belt or suspenders. This time a belt won me over. 

Also, let me tell you about this tie. This is Dapper QT Designs tie, “a queer-and-trans-inclusive retailer selling handmade and unique bowties and neckties to keep you looking stylin.” we got in touch via Intagram @dapperqtdesigns, it is to me a great priviledge to be wearing this and you should check them out. 

We are always complaining there are no places to buy affordable accessories with nice quality well, here you go. =) Thank you so much Dapper QT Designs I simply love the tie. <3

Photos: Vanda Noronha

The outfit:

Jacket: Stradivarius (a couple years ago)

Button down: Top Man 

Tie: DapperQTDesings

Trousers: Zara-Boys (9,90€ on sales)

 Socks: Calzedónia

Shoes: the same old Shoe Embassy shoes 

Hope you get inspired.




The official pictures are out. 

@kahumbi_ by @mrskahumbi

I know, the last couple of days I am all about Kahumbi. But, this photoshoot reminded me of how important it is to create spaces for queer people of color to get together. 

Talking about lesbian stereotypes, queerness and blackness, having fun, sharing experiences. Find understanding and community. That was all that happened in this photo shoot and much more.   

Thank you @VandaNoronha for the amazing pictures. 

The group was great and I leave you with a bit of the diversity of people that participated. =) Hope you like it. 




Tying a bow tie with #queeringstyle #queer #dapperq #dapperqueer #androgynous #afro #afrostyle #afroqueer #bowtie #dapper #autumnstyle #fall

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Pink and grey

The sun is back, it’s Spring time again and this is probably one of my favorite color combination. 

I feel great in both colors and think they work really well together. I know it feels a bit wedding outfit but wedding season is almost here, so I hope you feel inspired. ;) Nevertheless, I think this is a great Spring look for day time. It is simple and has a really colorful detail that brings the outfit together.

This is a rainbow bow-tie I have had for a while from Tie Bar and I love it. =) <3 The pants are from Zara Kids and the button down from Zara. 

Belt and shoes were lent by a friend. My friends will literally bring stuff for me to wear with a certain outfit. In this case I needed a belt and shoes so… =P I got the socks about 2 years ago in the UK and love them. =) 

Is it time for burgundy yet?

I love the warmth of burgundy. Brings depth to a light button down making a casual outfit look composed. Perfect fall color. =)

When it is not too cold and the sun is still making its way out, the perfect combination for a casual outfit doesn’t need much, here, I simply added a cardigan. 

Oh and doggy here wanted to say hey. =)  

Photos by: Vanda Noronha.

Button down: Zara Basics

Tie: Primark

Cardigan: H&M

Jeans: Zara

Socks: Primark

Shoes: No brand


Sintra in a tie : (Introducing Lisa)

For the longest time I looked for someone to take pictures of me. I found Lisa, a talented LGBT activist that loves photography. Thank you Lisa. =)

We went to Sintra for this photo shoot. The perfect scenery for this blue and camel outfit. These are perfect colors for the everyday. The knit tie is good for winter and summer. And as a nice detail I combined it with the socks which are also grey. You all know how I love details. 

I am wearing an unisex Jacket from Stradivarius, a tie and belt from H&M, the button up is from Zara, My pants are also from H&M (male section) and, shoes from Shoe Embassy.  

Keep the smiles,



What to do when you don’t own a blue blazer.

I find it hard to get a blazer my size that fits and end up not having the plain colors I need. So, I don’t own a black or a blue blazer. What to do? I find I like the combination of denim with more formal wear. and I don’t think it looks that bad even in a put together outfit. 

I like this outfit because I think you can wear it in formal events but also in celebrations such as weddings. I have to say I am in love with my new tie from Guess. A friend of mine works in an airport and sometimes these things get lost so, she thought of me. I am a lucky one. <3


Denim Jacket, shirt and throusers: GAP



Tie: Guess

Ring: BrancoPrata

13 Queer Fashion Tumblrs You Need To Know About

All the outfit ideas, ya’ll.

And queering style is in this list...

I can’t tell you how much this is out of this world to me. It’s going to be a year in a month since I started the blog. It never crossed my mind I would be in a list like this, where there are so many that I admire and look for inspiration myself. 

I have no words. Thank you to all of you that just joined. Hope you enjoy. Thank you to all of you that have been here since day one and keep your presence on my day to day. 

Please, feel free to talk, submit, or just stick around. I had a great invitation some time ago from a blog on this list… mystery… more news soon. =)




Orange denim

I am a big fan of small colorful details and I always carry a jacket. People tell me: “but Alexa, it’s summer” I know it is. But long days may lead to long nights that sometimes bring a bit of wind and chilling weather so, always carry a jacket. 

Also, I love my new shoes from FOREVA I bought them on sale and only cost me 15€. These are the perfect summer color they are also comfortable and not so warm. 


Jacket: Stradivarius

Denim button up: Zara

Bow tie: The Tie Bar

Jeans: Zara

Shoes: Foreva

Ring: BrancoPrata