how does one become good at foreplay? what makes great foreplay
being good at foreplay is mostly a matter of being familiar with your partner and what gets them going. i guess a mark of “great” foreplay is your partner should be gagging for it before you’ve even got their pants off, and the key to that is really taking your time.
start with slow, drawn-out sensual kisses. then work your way down, kissing them wherever bare skin is showing, paying extra attention to erogenous zones (ears and neck are common). slowly touch them over their clothes, on their sides, chest and thighs. keep your breathing quiet but a little heavy—they’ll probably like to hear that you’re turned on too.
keep kissing them until they’re making little whining, desperate noises and pushing up against you. then undress them slowly, getting a little more heavy-handed as you go but keeping away from any areas they want you most. if your partner has breasts, pay attention to them. drag your mouth up over their chest and neck until your reach their mouth again.
really draw it out. if you take long enough they should just about sob in relief once you get your hand down their pants. or they might get impatient and start touching themselves, or drag your head down to where they want you, or start begging for you to touch them. all good results. quest complete.