purposefully offensive

Banning destitute refugees in countries to which we contributed in their ruins is not protecting ourselves. In fact, it’s allowing our government to take away our freedom. You may not realize it, but the loss of freedom for some is the loss of freedom for all. The government does not have the privilege to do what Trump wants it to do, and our foundational documents outlining our nation’s existential purpose agree. We’re not protecting ourselves. Trump supporters have played themselves in arguing the pedantic technicality that everything Trump is doing with executive orders is legal. It has a macabre familiarity, and that Christian conservatives think the Bible doesn’t explicitly say this kind of anti-human and anti-universal thinking is wrong over and over is a doozy. But the legitimate amorality of Trump’s promises of bans, walls, torture, and bigotry has nothing to do with the Bible. This kind of purposefully hateful offense to the billion+ peaceful humans who practice Islam is going to create the problem it thinks it can solve. You want the rest of our generation’s lives to be filled with Muslim extremism and terror attacks? This blatant division cutting is how you start.
—  Levi Olson

imjustlo  asked:

Okay cool, cuz I was just looking at something going on about how squicks were great cuz we never require a reason for them and just accept it and I was like "I personally know people who would abuse the term so they don't have to challenge their views on transphobia" like sure, no one needs to explain to me why age-play squicks them out, but I'm gonna at least ask politely if they're being purposefully offensive about something like trans-ness, queerness, etc

Yea, nah it was definitely a thing and people did challenge it. I mean a lot of the time it was fine? It was used respectfully in my personal circle of fandom groups, and we all respected each other and the boundaries we had set, so no one was ever forced to explain why they did or did not like something (unlike now where you need to seemingly detail every trauma of your life in order to be allowed to write certain things, and even then it has to be a coping mechanism and not just a god damn exploration of an idea as an abstract concept jesus wept.) but there were definitely times when human dumpster fires used it to try and justify retaining and promoting things like homophobia or sexism/racism. 

One of the star wars groups I was in would actively delete and Lando/Leia fic “out of respect for the canon” which…it’s fanfic, what are you doing???….and then we eventually found out that the mod was “squicked” by interracial pairings and nah fam, nah. That’s not a squick. That’s a problem and we’re going to have to have to ask you to come to Jesus and get your racist head out your racist ass and either deal with it or go away because we’re squicked by you.

Fandom of yore was not a utopia of understanding and acceptance, and any one who claims as such and wants to use the slightly older terms to have a free for all pass is in for a rude awakening. 

macdennis au where dennis works as a mid-level manager at some financial firm and is convinced he’s superior to all his coworkers and that’s he’s going to get the big Director position he’s been gunning for over the past few months (even though his CEO father got him the job after he failed out of veterinary school and he’s never gotten promoted before in his 40-year-old life). mac is the security guard who checks employees’ IDs next to the front desk and makes sure no one enters the elevator bank without proper identification. he rotates with his partner charlie, who prefers to sit behind the computer and keep track of the cameras (he’s actually watching kitten videos most of the time). dee works in hr (reports to her boss carol something-something, whatever she never bothered to learn her last name) and continuously breaks pretty much every hr protocol by being purposefully vulgar and offensive because it’s hilarious. carol can’t fire her because she’s the CEO’s daughter. every day mac watches when dennis enters the building—he internally gives him extra ocular pat downs, because you know, security—and eventually figures out what time dennis comes down to go to lunch (always alone) and makes sure to align his shifts so he always gets to see him. mac smiles at him sometimes (because he seems like a cool dude with really nice hair and skin who could make a cool (boy)friend, that’s all). dennis gives him weird, confused looks in response. mac starts wearing two colognes with his suit and dennis often finds himself scrunching his face as he passes and shows his ID, sniffing at the oversaturated air. then one morning dennis is striding straight up to the front desk and mac quickly switches positions with charlie, shoving him to check the ID’s while he takes the spot at the computer, pretending to look serious and badass as he typed randomly on the keyboard. dennis is frazzled and desperate and blurts out “i’m dennis reynolds and I have a meeting in three minutes and forgot my ID at home” and mac just nods and tells him he can go up. dennis pauses: he’d been ready to unleash his full wrath and wasn’t expecting this to be so easy—wasn’t this that guy who took his menial job checking ID’s too seriously and was always eyeing him strangely? he swallows, pleasantly surprised, managing a “thanks, uh…” “—mac,” mac quickly provides, smiling wide so his eyes are crinkly. it makes dennis’ stomach feel strange and light and now he was definitely going to be late to this damn meeting. “yea,” dennis says awkwardly before walking away, taking a glance back at the raven-haired man before entering the elevator bank.

okay so we all agree that something feels super off about the balloon squad laughing in their youtube video when they mention even? like yousef is the only one to actually have a serious reaction while the others just joke around. well… i have a theory that maybe they don’t know even tried to kill himself.
first, mutasim says “remember the thing with even and mikael” but he doesn’t mention anything about even’s attempt.
second, yousef’s reaction seems like the only appropriate one maybe because he’s the only one who knows the severity of what happened. maybe he’s the only one who knows even tried to kill himself.
third, it seems pretty far out of character for the boys to be so blatantly disrespectful and rude over something as serious as a suicide attempt. especially when it’s someone they use to be really close to.
i mean i may be wrong but i honestly doubt they know about even’s suicide attempt. and if they do happen to know anything it’s probably from whispers and rumors. i just don’t think the balloon squad (who probably treated even with the same compassion and humor and affection they treat each other now) would be so purposefully offensive and downright cruel to joke about a suicide attempt.

Fancasting Sevro au Barca

Richard Harmon, who plays John Murphy on the CW channel’s “The 100,” as Sevro au Barca

Harmon as Sevro was the first fancast idea I got when reading Red Rising. Let’s start with the surface qualities. Like John Murphy on “The 100,” Sevro has an abiding love for knives. “He likes his curved knives too much,” Darrow thinks to himself at the Institute of Sevro. “I think he whispers to them.” 

Sevro is undoubtedly one of the most beloved if not the most beloved character in the Red Rising universe. At the very least, it’s exceedingly difficult to find a reader who doesn’t like Sevro. 

He is small, but quick and cunning. He is foul-mouthed and purposefully offensive, but funny. All in all, he is a supremely capable student at the Institute, proving himself time and time again. “You seem to have every gory skill required for this school,” Darrow says at one point. 

Sevro is quite the realist, a necessity for survival in such a cold, cruel world. Yet like so many of the supporting characters, he is a creature of contrasts. 

Though he can be and is brutal as required throughout Red Rising and Golden Son, Sevro loves the kindest of the Mars students at the Institute. His unrequited love for Quinn is wholly believable and endearing, thanks to the nuanced way that Pierce Brown writes their relationship. Quinn is the last of the Mars students to call Sevro by his name rather than by his nickname of “Goblin.”

The scene where Sevro, Darrow, and Roque react to Quinn’s death is a moving experience for all. The actor who plays Sevro will have to not only pull off the hard-edges of his character, but express how the sharp personality is in many ways a cover. 

Sevro’s brusqueness is how he protects himself in a world that murdered his mother, a world where his only worth was to be a sacrifice in the Passage for a highDraft student, a world that if it knew his true parentage would see him as an abomination. Ultimately I believe readers love Sevro not only because he is smart and loyal and voices what the reader is thinking in the most vulgar ways, but because they see him for who he is: an outsider. 

This is why Sevro and Darrow connect so well. They are both intelligent enough to see one another for who they really are, even though they initially do not know the full truth of each other’s identities. “He is ugly in a world where he should be beautiful, and because of his deficiencies, he was chosen to die. He, in many ways, is no better than a Red.”

When you watch Harmon’s performances as John Murphy on “The 100,” you quickly realize that he could actually do it. He could emote all of the contradictions and complexities that make up Sevro. 

“Sevro does not move. Does not speak. His nostrils flare as a breath catches in his chest, a pitiful sob locked tight in the boy who never cries. He goes numb. Ghostlike. And I reach for him, but he pulls away not in anger, but in confusion, as though he was told the future once, and this reality is not what was promised.” 

And as for the extensive mentions we have of Sevro and food throughout the series, well, have no fear–Harmon can manage that quite well, too. 

“Lorn stares at Sevro’s dirty hand. The fingerless glove is covered with mashed potatoes and brown gravy.”

“He grabs a drumstick off the table’s spread and feeds it to Sophocles. Considering, he takes a bite himself, saying something quietly to the fox.”

All hail the Trash Lord, Sevro au Barca!

“Sevro waves from his perch as he examines the trash to see if it isn’t edible.”

As always, let me know what you think! I also considered Ezra Miller or Freddie Fox for Sevro, but Miller feels a bit too high-profile at this point and is physically larger than Harmon, while Fox seems like he’d actually be a good pick for the Jackal. (More on that later haha) 

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Edit to add: Side benefit of casting Richard Harmon is that he seems like an adorkable person. Photographic evidence below:

anonymous asked:

if palestinians did not raise their children to hate, terrorism would not be a way of life over there. and perhaps if you were not raised to punish those for being different than you, you would behave nicer towards others.

I’m not really sure where to begin with this one.

First of all, these two thoughts are irrelevant to one another. Ad hominem arguments are pointless - and this one is just a little strange. I’m not sure why you think you know the details of my upbringing but unless you are a parent or a sibling, on anonymous, then you’re making a huge assumption. My upbringing is irrelevant to the facts that I’ve provided however, as I have not cited my upbringing as a source for a single one of them.

And secondly, the main contributor to terrorism in Israel and the occupied territories is not Palestinians, but Israel. Israel and the IDF have shot, shelled and killed thousands of civilians, Israeli policy currently besieges Gaza in the largest open air prison on earth, with a blockade that has been deemed illegal by the international community, the Palestinian civilian population are terrorised. In 2014 Operation Protective Edge 1,462 Palestinian civilians, including 551 children were killed - not soldiers, not terrorists, civilians. Perhaps if Israel did not make it a policy to terrorise the Palestinian population, then terrorism would not be a way of life over there? 

However, I blame the Israeli government for this terrorism, because it is their policy. I would never blame Israeli’s for raising their children to hate, because they are not living in a vacuum, and neither are the palestinians - claiming that would be a massive, offensive and purposefully ignorant over simplification. If you genuinely think that Palestinian mothers and fathers are the cause for the current situation in the middle east then I’d suggest learning a bit more about the subject and the historical context that the current conflict exists within.

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I may not understand all the different genders or sexualities or whatever that people are but you can bet your ass im not going to purposefully be offensive to them and if i ever say or do something to you that is offensive then you have my permission to smack me and correct me because its your life and im going to respect that

a supposed adult saying purposefully offensive things and telling people who get rightfully offended “stop censoring my right to freedom of expression” is functionally indistinguishable from a toddler banging a pair of pots together and then crying when their mom takes the pots away

not only are you not actually making any noise worth protecting, you can just go and get the fucking pots again, or whatever

i hate when comedians are like “why does comedy have to be so pc nowadays ugh sjws” like shit dude im sorry that you cant actually be a clever and funny comedian who relies on cheap tactics such as being purposefully offensive and regurgitating stereotypes

cultural appropriation

If your argument in defense of cultural appropriation is ‘at the end of the day, some POC think so and so is offensive, and some don’t, so you might as well just do whatever you want,’ you are purposefully being offensive and racist. It’s not like the ‘some don’t’ folks are saying 'you absolutely MUST borrow from my culture or else I am offended.’ They’re saying 'I personally feel neutral about it.’ So you’re literally saying 'at the end of the day, some people are extremely offended by my racist appropriation, and some people are neutral, so you can’t win them all.’ Except you can win them all: if your choice is between offending a lot of people, and offending no one, choosing to offend a lot of POC is a choice you made, and a racist one at that.

People like logicd are the reason why people have a hard time taking anti-SJWs seriously. There’s just too many people who rely on being cunty, purposefully offensive /b/tard edgelords who never matured beyond middle school, and these people are shouting their bullshit so loud it’s drowning out the entirely reasonable people.

glgrdsklechh  asked:

Not to mention Thomas Sanders was trying to make a unoffensive joke and unfortunately hurt people because of stereotypes. However nash grier makes purposefully offensive and hurtful material I.E his removed vine stating that having aids is a gay thing. And he then continues on to use a term i do not like using (starts with F ends in G). Or his top ten things girls should stop doing or whatever its called. And he continues to make homophobic,racist and mysoginistic jokes.

Yes, intent is everything. Sometimes you might end up offending people, through no fault of your own. What makes the difference is how you choose to respond to it.

anonymous asked:

Hi that another anon was attacking you because you reblogged "goatmeats: no offense but purposefully negative people are boring and draining as hell and not nearly as interesting as they think they are(via dream-to-live-and-live-to-dream)"

it still makes no sense that someone came at me for that post i reblogged. clearly they didn’t read it because it specifically says “PURPOSEFULLY negative people”. there’s a difference between someone who’s sad and someone who’s purposefully negative. negative people literally are the most draining types of people and no, that’s not the same as people who are sad. the anon that said “fuck you” to me because i agreed with that post really needs to re-read the post. negative people are super toxic and can have such a bad impact to someone’s life which is why it’s super important to cut those types of people out of your life. i’ve cut so many people from my life, mainly because they didn’t benefit me in a positive way, mentally & emotionally. and because they didn’t support me in any way and didn’t want or don’t wish to see me grow. please, before you think about sending someone anon hate, make sure you read the post you’re gonna have a cry about before pressing that send button because you’ll just end up looking like a right twat.