Unfollow , block or blacklist at your comfort.

 ITS OKAY TO DO THAT!

Look in whatever fandom you are in you will meet people that right off that bat you will not get along. They will be into things or say things you do not agree with and you know what? Its okay to unfollow, block or blacklist their url. It doesn’t matter that your friends are their friends. A friendship between you cannot be forced upon.

Please respect your friends when they do this. Yes you might be friends with this other person but you can’t make your friends be in one place if one is uncomfortable with the other. It is the the most stressful and manipulative thing you can do.

Later on you will also make friends with some who at first you click very well. Yes you feel close. Heck you are friends but that friend will break once you find out more about your friend.  You find out they like stuff you don’t agree with. They have actually hurt people you are close with too. Do you have to be friends with this person? No you don’t. It doesn’t matter how close you are.  If you are no longer comfortable you can get away from them.

It is okay to forgive them , ask them ti give you space for a while or simply not give them another chance.

BUT DON’T FORCE YOURSELF TO BE IN THE FRIENDSHIP ANYMORE IN FEAR THIS WILL HURT THEM. BECAUSE IN THE END YOU ARE THE ONE WHO IS GETTING HURT LITTLE BY LITTLE BY STAYING WITH SOMEONE YOU ARE NO LONGER COMFORTABLE WITH.

I am posting this because I noticed that this is happening a lot with my friends. They meet people, turns out they are really not nice and feel forced to be there with them. They get scared if they leave, said person will talk about them to others or guilt trip them to stay. But let me tell you this.

YOU DO WHAT YOU GOTTA DO TO BE COMFORTABLE IN YOUR BLOG! 

YOU HAVE THE CHOICE WHO TO BE FRIENDS WITH!

YOU CAN UNFOLLOW, BLOCK OR BLACKLIST!

YOU DO NOT HAVE TO FEEL GUILTY ABOUT IT!

And please, you do not need to go other to your friend to make them chose you or that other said person. You do not need to force them to be friends because of you either. Because besides hurting yourself, you are hurting another friend of yours.

Yes I know it hurts to maybe read this. But not all friendships are perfect or last long but my gosh I want to do my best in letting you know all of this to avoid hurting yourself and others.

This was a very long post, which I do apologize, but this is what I was going through in my hiatus and saw many of my friends dealing with. As I say so many times and I will probably wont stop saying this…

YOU DO WHAT YOU GOTTA DO TO BE             COMFORTABLE IN YOUR BLOG!!

If this kind of mentality that I have bothers you, its okay for you to the following to my blogs. Don’t feel you need to stay here. You don’t need to tell me either you no longer want to follow me or be a friend. In the end I want you too to be comfortable in your own blogs. I just ask please keep yourself from sending anon hate to me or to others who do this.

I hope that anyone who is dealing with these kind of situations understand that you are not alone and you are not bad person for making these choices.

Yes you may reblog this and add your comment if you want. Am I open to discuss about this? Yes. I will give you my option and let you know more of my experiences but I will not force these upon you. Ever. I just want you to know these are choices you can take for your own comfort.

Supportive Soay is just checking in to make sure

  • have you eaten lately?
  • have you gotten up and stretched recently?
  • have you had water lately?

Supportive Soay knows that people are busy right now and wants you to know he thinks you can do it! All animals need food and water to succeed, and eating and stretching and hydrating on a regular basis helps you do your best!

This has been a PSA from Supportive Soay ^^

(Good luck with finals, all of you)

( Photo credit: The Soay Sheep Project, https://twitter.com/SoaySheep/status/676336606001893376)

That Mini PSA About Kids & Family (Again)

I’ve made numerous amounts of these things saying how not to include any of the kids or family members of Rooster Teeth, but there are still people out there that do this. 

And after getting an anon this week in our ask saying how there is even more mentions of these members-that-shouldn’t-be-in-these-things, and that is still not acceptable.

Please, while not writing about Millie or Iris, Eli or Beth, or any of the DO NOT WRITE members on our list here, please also do not mention them at all in your fanfics. 

While going through the tags, I found a really great post on how to deal with things like this from ryanthepowerbottomguy (which can be found here, but I will be reblogging it after I post this). In general, it states to just treat them like they do not even exist and to make it certain to the reader that it is someone else entirely. 

Thank you everyone who has been reading all these PSA’s and keeping in-line and just being completely awesome. You make this easier for everyone ♥

♥ Tats

Dear straight people,

I understand that you mean well, and I appreciate the attitude you’re showing. But after finding out my orientation(s), repeatedly enthusing about how tolerant and accepting you are, and how everyone should just be allowed to be themselves and isn’t it great that there’s diversity in the world…

Look, we don’t need your permission to be ourselves. We don’t need your permission to be queer, gay, bi, pan, poly, ace, aro, trans, whatever. I appreciate what you’re trying to say. But what you’re really saying is that we are only allowed to exist in (semi) peace because it is being generously allowed.

Better? Just say “oh, cool” and move on. Or “oh, do you have a girlfriend?” Something benign and quick - don’t make a big deal out of it! Part of what makes us cringe to come out to even friendly people, is the knowledge that we’ll probably have to navigate a whole long conversation about ourselves, and it’s tiring.

Dear Antis

I am an anti. I hate sh@ladins as much as anyone. 

But sending anon hate and death threats to them is never okay. Under no circumstances should you ever resort to that. It doesn’t matter if they send it to us. Call them out, educate them, but NEVER send anon hate or death threats to anyone.

This has been a PSA.

i’m going to be taking a little tumblr break guys, i don’t know how long for. it might be a couple of days or it might be a couple of weeks.

with everything that has been going on recently both in my own life and just in the world in general, i feel like i need to step back and focus on the important things. i need to look after myself and my mental health and put those first. i might pop back from time to time who knows, but my absence is not permanent, just a little break until i feel like myself again. love you all ❤

anonymous asked:

Could you guys blog more about issues in Indonesia. It's ok if you guys want to keep things trivial here but i think a lot of us could use some political literacy especially at times like these. Gay men canned in Aceh, the Jakarta election, feminism in Indonesia, West Papua. There are so much that you could post here, more than just jokes or pretty pictures.

from our About page:

Anyway, we also accept asks. But please do not send any political or sensitive asks. This blog is made to spread positive vibes from our country (but if you want us to post a petition, for example, go for it) so we don’t post much negative stuff. That doesn’t mean you can’t ask us though–send it to the personal blog instead!

We are aware that our country is more than just pretty pictures. However, we made this blog for fun purposes. Sometimes we go here just to unwind from RL stress, and I know some of our followers do that too. For political issues, you can go to my personal blog (it’s mixed with writing and fandom).

The About section under the garuda icon has been updated.

-Derp

quick requests

I’m gonna draw first 3 requests in my ask box (simple color doodle)

whatever fandom I’m familiar with or no fandom at all, I’m a genie in a bottle today and your wish is my command

PSA

I’ll be traveling from May 29 to June 26 with a spotty WiFi connection so that means I won’t be posting much if at all. I might set up a queue if I have time, but no promises. If I do set up a queue, I’m going to do my best to tag things for Ramadan as “NSFR.”
Happy Ramadan to those of you celebrating it and I’ll see you in a month.

PSA! My New Tom Felton Blog!

Hey guys! So if you love Tom Felton come follow my Tom blog here @thomas-felton (still can’t believe I got a canon url!).

I’ve had so many edits of Tom in my drafts since forever and just never really got the chance to post it since I’m always posting my Emma and Star Wars edits here.

I thought I’d make a separate blog to post them. I’ll still every so often post Tom stuff here (it will mostly be new stuff that come out).

Oh and if anyone I know wants to come and join me message me!